Mom wants a divorce and Dad doesn t agree, what should I do?

Updated on society 2024-02-09
31 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    Oh, it's very similar to the situation with Shu, well, 、、、 Shu thinks, , persuade and don't dissuade, but Shu thinks that there is no hope of reconciliation in this family, Maybe separation is a good solution, right, and Yu has grown up, and he should be able to take care of himself and take care of his mother

    If you really don't want them to divorce, just find a time for three people to have a good chat, maybe through this conversation you can know what the other party is thinking, and then find a solution, not necessarily divorce to solve, because single-parent families do have a lot of negative cases, even if it is for the sake of the parents, they will consider whether to divorce or not

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Children are the glue, but if you really can't get by, you must respect the choice of your family and ensure that it does not have legal effect, not to mention that you are old yourself, so that parents can find their own happiness in the second half of their lives.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    I just ask if your parents are in love, if they don't love each other, wouldn't it be too painful to tie them together because of their children, maybe your parents will be happier after the divorce than they are now, and your mother is stronger than you imagined.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Respect them and put it, no way.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    Remember to have a family conflict with him, and leave silently after a fight! Go to a strange city with your new boyfriend to work and earn money, and buy a house in a big city when the time comes! I'll go home and go to the court in a few years!

    Don't contact mom or dad! Don't make trouble for your mother's family. I wish you a better newlywed than an old one.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    Don't do anything, just let it be.

  7. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    Divorce is a big deal, first determine the problem between two people, as for the parents of both parties, you can slowly convince.

    There are two ways to get divorced, the first is divorce by agreement, and the second is divorce by litigation. In the case of divorce by agreement, as long as both parties agree, bring the marriage certificate, household registration book, ID card, birth certificate of the child, divorce agreement, ** these materials, and go to the civil affairs bureau where the household registration of either party is located to register the divorce. If you just want to divorce and the other party does not agree to the divorce, you can only divorce by litigation, but litigation divorce takes a long time, the procedure is complicated, and if there is no statutory divorce, the possibility of the court ruling the divorce is very small, and a second lawsuit is required to divorce the marriage (statutory divorce situation:

    Domestic violence, abandonment, abuse, drug abuse, gambling, bigamy, imprisonment, emotional discord and separation for more than two years, physical defects or diseases that are difficult to **, etc.).

    In fact, neither parent can stop you from making your own emotional choices, but traditionally, divorced people, especially women, have a greater or lesser impact on the reputation of the family. If you really want to get a divorce,I recommend considering the following:

    a).Can't you get along with him? What is the main reason for him that you don't want to live with him and not be motivated? Gambling? Doesn't hurt you? Or something else that you can't turn around.

    b).How old are you? If you are before the age of 30, you can still get a divorce.

    c).Are there any remarried partners now? If I don't find this well, I think I'd better wait until I find it. (4) It is indeed more difficult for a remarried woman to be honest in her later life to return to the previous one.

    v).Do you have children? The question of belonging of the child, including point 3: whether the remarriage partner has children, and so on, there is a good saying, it is better to demolish a temple than to demolish a marriage. So if you really can't get by, it's better to be free.

  8. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    Life is your own, it is recommended that you communicate well with your parents and strive for their consent or understanding. But if you really can't communicate. And you do have a reason to leave, I suggest you divorce. Because only you know if your shoes fit or not.

    However, it is recommended that you calm down for a certain period of time and not rush to make a decision. If you still have a strong intention to divorce after a while, it's never too late to leave.

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    Hello, you are now experiencing a marital crisis and want to divorce, but the family does not agree, this requires you to communicate with the family correctly, what are the problems in the marriage now, why do you want to divorce, explain it carefully and clearly, let them understand your thoughts, and the family will definitely be on your side

    I told the reason for the question, and the parents said that for the sake of the children, I said that I couldn't go on, and then they talked unreasonably, and my two children negotiated one person and one child, and now my parents don't agree, and he doesn't agree, but I just want a divorce, and I really can't go on.

    I can understand this I am a person from the past because life is my own life is good or not only my own heart knows that others are just bystanders.

    That's right, I'm living my own life, and no one can do anything for me, and everyone advises me, saying, This time, I'll listen to the old people, and they'll only say that I'm going to live like this for the sake of my children, but they don't think about my situation, how do I get by.

    Yes, the old people are like that, they don't really put themselves in your shoes.

    Then you insist on the divorce and keep making trouble, and they will always give in.

    I will definitely insist on asking questions, but they think that the child is pitiful, the child will ruin him in the future, and they think that the child without a mother will have an impact on marriage and school in the future, but I am only 25 years This year, I really don't want to wronged myself and live like this for the rest of my life.

    When the child grows up, he will understand.

    Really, my parents were divorced, and I understand my mother very well now.

    That's right, so I don't want to be wronged for the rest of my life because of my children, and my parents don't agree with our divorce, and I also insist on leaving, that is, I don't want my parents to be too angry, and I want to convince them, but I don't know how to convince them, and I'm stupid when it comes to things.

    This said, don't be too extreme, speak slowly, calmly, sit down, speak slowly, speak alone, one-on-one.

    Question: They are still struggling meaninglessly today, the child's father came to buy me this thing, buy that thing, my parents all followed, they followed everywhere, they were afraid that I would run away, and now it was like putting me under house arrest.

    Take your time, after all, you have too few helpers on your side.

    This kind of housework, called a friend or something, is actually not very good.

    That's the right question. So you're still very uncomfortable and helpless to face this kind of thing alone.

    Anyway, as long as this hurdle is over, life will definitely get better and better.

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    You want to divorce but your parents don't agree, what should you do, divorce is a matter for you and your partner, if you get divorced, you can go directly to the Civil Affairs Bureau to get a divorce, you don't need to tell your parents, and you don't need your parents to know.

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    Take it a slow. Because parents are generally more experienced in dealing with life, parents do not agree, and may think that your marriage can be saved. After all, remarrying after divorce does not guarantee that the next term will be good.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    You don't need to get your parents' consent, you can explain the situation to your parents, show your attitude, if you still don't agree, you don't need to get angry with them, they have no right to stop you from divorcing, you can go through the divorce with your spouse on your own, if your spouse doesn't agree, you can still sue the court for divorce unilaterally.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    If the parents do not agree to the divorce, it will not affect the parties to the divorce. The law stipulates the freedom of marriage, including the freedom of divorce, and the consent of the parents has no impact on the divorce, as long as the parties want to divorce, they can divorce by agreement or litigation. Hope mine can help you!

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    Marriage is free, but also a personal matter, first of all, you have to think about it yourself, make sure you have to think about it, your own life in the future, etc., of course, it is best to go back. If you are sure that you must do this, leave it, the melon that is left behind is not sweet, only you know what you are suffering, you go out to work for a few years and use this time to learn more law, if you really want to divorce, both parties will understand after a long time, and the family has no choice but to accept the reality! I wish you happiness.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    In the eyes of your parents, you have not reached the step of divorce, so they do not agree with your divorce. If the marriage is not happy, then you have to divorce, which is a relief for everyone. If there are no principled issues, it is all trivial and trivial things, and the two of them always quarrel, so they will each give in one step, and the marriage can still continue.

    After all, it's not easy to get out of one family and enter one, and it's not as good as your ex when you get to another, do you say you regret it?

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    If you want a divorce and your parents don't agree, you can communicate with your parents well. You can first consider your parents' opinions and see if you can reconcile the conflict with your wife. If you really can't do it, you can convince your parents again.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    You have to respect your own wishes in this matter, because only you know whether your married life is happy or not, and your parents don't know, they verbally say they don't agree, they just want you to think twice, not impulsively.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    Now it is free to marry. If you really have a broken relationship with the other person. Of course, divorce is the best way for both parties to get out.

    Your parents don't agree. You can communicate with them well. Explain what you think.

    Explain your marital problems. As long as you're not on a whim. It is the result of calm thinking.

    After all, life is about you to go on your own. Whether you can be happy or not, they can't replace you.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    I think the divorce thing has also been thought through, marriage is a big deal, and you need to be cautious. You thought that you were not cautious in getting married, which caused the current result. If you had been cautious at the time, it wouldn't have caused you to want a divorce today.

    Therefore, you should be more cautious about divorce and think about why you got married in the first place. Vows at the time of marriage. It was silly not to tell me.

    You're still not smart today. It's not that people can't regret it. It's that people can't regret it every day.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    Marriage is like a person who knows that he knows that his parents do not agree because he is afraid that you will regret it after the divorce, and it is not as good as when you have not left after the divorce, as the saying goes, it is better to demolish ten temples than to destroy a marriage, and what you really consider will not encourage you to divorce, but the marriage is yours, and in the end you have to make your own decision.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    If you want a divorce and your parents don't agree, you can consider your parents' opinions first and see if you can reconcile the conflict with your wife? If you really can't do it, you can convince your parents again.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    It's up to you to decide for yourself, and if you're having a hard time and suffering every day, I think it's better to be separated.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    I think you want a divorce, but your parents don't agree. What are you going to do? First, you have to talk to your parents.

    Careful communication. Your grounds for divorce. If.

    Your relationship has really broken down and you can't live together, and I think your parents will understand you.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    If your parents don't agree with your divorce, I think it's best to follow their advice, because once people get divorced, they will indeed be disappointed in their marriage, so you should be cautious.

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-13

    Life is your own, isn't there a cooling-off period? Let each other calm down first and see if it is inseparable. What two people can do by deciding to do something, don't be bound by your parents' ideas. Calm down after separation.

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-12

    If two people can get married, it means that your fate is still very strong, you might as well consider your parents' opinions, maybe what they said is right. Human life is not easy, it is very important to be able to understand each other and be considerate of each other!

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-11

    Whether you are happy or not, only you know, your parents cannot accompany you for a lifetime, and the happiness of the rest of your life can only be fought for by yourself, so the initiative lies with you, others only have the right to reference, not the right to decide, and your own happiness is your own decision.

  28. Anonymous users2024-01-10

    If you are a man or a woman, then you will lose money if you divorce, if you are a woman, your life will not be easy in the future, no one is perfect, sometimes let it go, just like you can forgive yourself, maybe it can make you relaxed.

  29. Anonymous users2024-01-09

    Married life is your own and up to you.

  30. Anonymous users2024-01-08

    Divorce is a big deal, and you need to be cautious. If you had been cautious at the time, it wouldn't have caused you to want a divorce today. Think about why you got married in the first place.

    If you didn't tell me, you were stupid back then, and you're still not smart today. It's not that people can't regret it. It's that people can't regret it every day.

  31. Anonymous users2024-01-07

    Summary. Dear, if you want to divorce, you must be very disappointed in this marriage and dissatisfied, if it really comes to that point, the choice is your own.

    I want to get a divorce, but my parents don't agree, what should I do?

    Dear, if you want to divorce, you must be very disappointed in this marriage and dissatisfied, if it really comes to that point, the choice is your own.

    My husband belongs to the kind of person who doesn't care if I don't give me money.

    My mom said last night that the marriage certificate was gone, and she didn't agree with my divorce.

    1: You can tell your parents about the current situation, talk about your pain, listen to your parents' advice, every parent in the world wants their children to be happy. It's also normal for them to disagree.

    Kiss, my husband can't give you the happiness you want, we can talk about it, if he still doesn't take into account your feelings and can't have the responsibility that a man deserves, then we should give up.

    But he wants to share the property with me, and he wants the child too, and then my mother said last night that the money will not be given to him, and the child will be given to him, but he has a brother who is a lawyer and insists on asking for money and children.

    Kiss, the property after marriage is originally shared by your husband and wife, and it should have been divided in the case of divorce.

    How can there be money, partly as a bride price, partly as a dowry.

    If your husband is at fault and there is someone outside, as long as there is evidence, you can score more. The court will also award the child to you.

    The bride price and dowry should also be divided?

    Kiss, as long as you can prove that it is premarital property, he has no way to divide it.

    It was given without a marriage certificate before marriage.

    On the contrary, if it cannot be proven, it can only be divided together.

    Handling in judicial practice: (1) Gifts with a small amount may generally not be returned. (2) Gifts given purely voluntarily in a relationship may generally not be returned.

    3) The degree of fault of the parties shall be considered when returning. If the marriage contract is dissolved due to the fault of the paying party, the proportion of the bride price returned is smaller, and vice versa, larger. (4) Where the marriage formalities have not been completed, but the parties have already lived together, or have completed the marriage in accordance with customs, and the bride price has been converted into joint property, or has been converted into a dowry, it will generally not be returned.

    5) If they do not live together after marriage, they can be returned. (6) Where both parties have lived together for a short period of time (generally not more than one year), and the payment of the bride price causes hardship to one party, they may request a return.

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