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The sign of maturity lies in whether a person can independently solve the problems he encounters in life, study, work, etc. It's not just about being able to take care of yourself in life, people always say that you are mature and you feel that you can take care of yourself in life, such as:
Can cook, can do laundry, can sleep alone without cold, etc. In fact, it is very naïve not to know your own thoughts, which is an important sign of immaturity. If a person wants to become mature, he must think more, observe more life, observe people and things in life, and think more about people and things; Why do others do this, what are the advantages and disadvantages of doing so, and what should you do if you encounter this situation yourself, and over time you will find that you will have more eyes than others when you encounter problems.
The subject matter of writing is often derived from life and higher than life, you understand the people and things in the world, and you have more insights into life, so you can naturally write good articles. There is also a suggestion that you know more about history, whether it is China or the world, you should know more, understand the history, you will have some ideas when writing, more ideas, when the time can write a good article is not difficult!
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Read more, observe more, think more.
You should read a little bit of logic. It is very helpful for you to build a sound mindset.
To read books, we should choose those books that discuss social issues to read, mainly to learn the author's methods and ideas for observing and analyzing problems.
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Thinking maturely, that is, as you grow older, you will experience things, and your understanding of things will be deeper, and you will slowly become mature.
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Many people want to be a mature person, financially independent, and self-disciplined. Today, let's not talk about the last two, let's talk about the first one, there must be a first come, first come, first talk about how to make one's mind mature.
First of all, the first thing to do is to approach mature people. Because we all know that those who are close to Zhu are red, and those who are close to ink are black, and what kind of people we associate with will affect our own views of the world, and will also affect our own thoughts. If you always get along with someone who is more naïve, you will behave more like that person and become more childish.
But if you are in a relationship with someone who is more mature and thinks deeply, I think he will also subtly influence you.
The second is to read more, and there is Yan Ruyu in the book. Books are the ladder of human progress, and it is also a good choice to arm the mind with knowledge. Read more philosophical and in-depth books, absorb knowledge in the books, enrich yourself, so that more thinking and reflection will also help you grow.
The third is to enrich one's life experience and do more things that are conducive to one's growth. While you are still young, you can travel more within the scope of your time and economy, broaden your horizons, and go to more museums, which can also learn a lot.
The last one is to wait slowly, waiting for the engraving of time. In general, the older you get, the more things you experience, and the more mature your mind becomes. Wait for time to change you, and you will eventually become a mature person.
The above is my own opinion, if you become a mature person, it is not an easy thing, and it still requires changes and efforts in all aspects.
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