How can I make myself happy? How can I make myself happy?

Contentment is always happy, and happiness is happiness. There is a lyric: "What love is is completely chasing after the wind."

Love is really just the feeling of two people. It feels like I miss him, I feel like he makes me happy, I feel like he and she make myself stressed......There are positives and negatives. The point is actually to get along.

The word "other half" killed a lot of people. Two people in love are always two people, respect each other's space, and don't think about "integration". Don't be overly accommodating and tolerant, that will make you no longer yourself.

When you can be yourself, and the other person can be yourself, this kind of love will be happy.

If you feel happiness in your heart, you will be happy. A little more love will surely be happy.

Love others, first learn to love yourself, not because of the lack of love when you were a child, it will affect your future happiness, and you can work hard to pursue your own love when you meet someone you love.

One: Pay attention to perfecting your personality.

Love can be done by one's own nature, or it can be romantic, but in the face of marriage, we need to be a rational person.

So don't copy what you did when you were in love into your married life.

In marriage, you need to perfect each other's personalities.

If one person has a stubborn personality, the other person will learn to tolerate it at the right time, and even if they quarrel, they can reconcile in time;

One person is sensitive and fragile, the other person is thick-skinned, and going out will also make the other person feel a sufficient sense of security.

However, if the personalities of both parties are too similar, such as being more self-assertive, when dealing with conflicts or encountering problems, it is equivalent to missing a solution, or even-for-tat.

In intimate relationships, most people only see each other, not themselves.

Therefore, the sense of need is very high, and I can't extricate myself from negative emotions, accusations, and complaints, and I ignore the importance of doing my best.

If you want to better adapt to the new married life, you have to try to pretend to be a little bit of a world to make a noise.

Although it is said that you should not lose yourself in marriage, you must also remember that in marriage, you cannot be stubborn about yourself.

Two: learn to live with each other's shortcomings.

What attracts us when we are in love is the advantages of the other party, marriage will magnify the shortcomings of the other party, and the process of running in between two people is the process of accepting and tolerating each other's shortcomings.

Everyone tries to find a perfect person, but unfortunately, in the end, you will find that there is no perfect person in this world.

I always believe that even if a person is good, I still think that he must have shortcomings.

When you are in a relationship, you only care about the good in the other person. Even, you will put the other party's advantages ten times and a hundred times greater.

However, when it comes to getting married, it's very different.

All you see at this time is the other party's shortcomings, and the more you look at it, the more angry you become, and you are so angry that you can't wait to get a divorce and find another one.

When it comes to happiness, it can actually be used in many aspects, including gaining love, career success, academic success, or family life and living in harmony.

For me, I think my current happiness is that I have a good girlfriend, and although we are in a long-distance relationship, we have been in love until now. I feel like she's the source of my daily happiness.

After going to work in the morning, we in different cities will first ask each other if we have had breakfast, in fact, it seems to be a very ordinary greeting, but I think that it is really this ordinary greeting, so that each other can know that the other party cares about you very much. Then when I go to work, if there is something interesting, I will share it with each other through WeChat chat.

When it comes to noon, I will ask what takeout to order at noon (I don't have much time, so I basically don't cook by myself, I always order takeout), and then I will remind me that I can't eat chicken fries or some hot things when it's hot, etc.

Then after work in the afternoon, they will remind each other to be careful on the way back, and remember to go to dinner or something after returning home. By about eight o'clock or nine o'clock, we'd be chatting. Although sometimes after a day's work, people are really tired, but every night when it comes to ** time, I feel that it is the happiest time of my day, after all, I can see her, although I only see it through the screen, but I am already very satisfied.

So I think that at present, my happiest happiness comes from my girlfriend, and of course there will definitely be other happiness **, no matter what, happiness will come unconsciously, just get ready to meet it.