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Love is based on mutual trust and economic foundation. Indispensable.
In the "ideal" situation: mutual trust, this is fundamental. The economic base, which is acquired.
Reality: mutual trust, to a certain extent, or over a period of time; Created the day after tomorrow, it basically depends on men to work hard outside. As a result, the divorce rate has been rising over the years.
So I think that if everything you describe is true, then if you marry her, you will not "give her happiness" in the future. The "love nest" you build will collapse when it can't meet her needs. The truth is cruel, your ideal type of marriage is expected to cause you untold pain.
Personal advice: urge her to find a job, you can no longer live idle, you support her, in fact, it is irresponsible to her; Take care of your financial accounts and save monthly money in case you need it. If she can't do the first one, then cut off her money and food (be ruthless).
If you can't do it, then you two will have no future.
Regarding your relationship problems, it should be relatively solid. Living together inevitably leads to quarrels and fights. Personal advice, while helping her find a job, set a wedding date. As you say, it's time to "start a family".
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Dude, if you use this kind of spirit and these money on a virtuous girl, you will be married a long time ago, and this woman's money is still noble, and it is unacceptable to say anything, I estimate that she is useless except for being better-looking.
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Don't you even know that he loves you? So you got married, did you accept it? Will you be happy? I advise you to know more about her, at least to know if she loves you? Think about it or not, right?
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It's not that you can live together if you have feelings. She's lazy, don't work, you support her for the rest of your life?!Bring a child later?!Don't earn and spend.
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It's quite tolerant of him, she's always like this, you don't work, you don't have money, you don't provide for her, she won't marry you.
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The economy is in place, it doesn't matter if you love or not, marriage and love are the same as a contract, and if you are compatible, you can continue to sign a contract, and if you don't get along, you won't talk about it.
Everything has an expiration date.
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Dream it, you have everything in your dreams.
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Prove to the girl and her parents that you can give her happiness.
First of all, it does not include material and spiritual, there is a car, a house, a deposit, and the girl has an emotional foundation. If such conditions can really be met, will the girl not agree to marry you?
Of course, sometimes I can't talk about feelings, my wife's marriage is nothing, and we are both married. I'm actually inexplicable, maybe it's true love.
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To get a girl to marry you, we need to do the following:
1. First of all, you must love her and be able to give him enough security, so that when you get married, she will trust her more, not suspicion all day long.
2. Your own economic conditions are also very important, if you don't have any money at the time, then you should be able to give her enough guarantees, which is also a responsible attitude towards her.
3. Marriage and falling in love are completely different things, so you must make sure that the other party is prepared, and then go to confess to the other party and ask the other party to marry you.
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Zhang Xiaoxian once said:"Love, if you don't let the other party see your most beautiful side, is the ugliest side; Marriage, on the other hand, is to let the other party see your truest side. ”
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It is necessary for two people to establish a good love, and the girl must first have a material guarantee.
If the boy is not self-motivated at all in this love, and three meals a day cannot meet the girl's requirements, it is impossible for the girl to marry you casually.
What girls need is a sense of security, and they also need the protection of boys, and if boys can do this, they can fully enter the palace of marriage with girls.
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First of all, you have to pursue this girl, let the other party like you, and slowly build a relationship.
I also have a girl I particularly like in the company, I just had a good impression of this girl, and then I pursued it violently, bought delicious things for the girl every day, and then offered her to ask her out often, and after a long time we are familiar with it, I confessed to each other, and finally I was very happy, I won the other party's love for me, and this girl entered a happy marriage.
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If you want to marry a girl back home, these conditions must be met:
Clause. 1. Get her approval, marriage is based on mutual recognition, so that she has the confidence to walk with you through the future, this is the premise;
Clause. Second, having a fixed job or career, that is to say, being able to shoulder the future life and give her happiness, after all, the fact that poor couples mourn is a household name;
Clause. 3. Have a fixed residence, that is to say, if you have a decent house, you can't live without a fixed place or rent a house for a lifetime;
Clause. Fourth, if there is no problem with the first three points, find someone who can speak well to propose to the girl's parents.
There is no problem with the above four points, then you can prepare for the wedding to marry your beloved.
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Ha ha! Are you a man or a leftover woman, hehe! I'm sorry to say this about you, I'm also a Ben Sannan, and every wife.
If you are not in the above situation, I advise you not to think so much, don't squander a lot of youth to get married!
In fact, marriage depends on fate, and you can't force it at all, otherwise you will regret it for life!
Okay, let's not talk nonsense, listen to my Ben Sannan, how to analyze and let you get married.
The first is to expand your social scope, obviously you want to get married, that is, you can't marry now, then your environment may have a high and round question.
Second, the male self has to repair his own edge every day, and the female doesn't need to be radiant every day, but at least it has to make people look energetic. At least everyone will refuse the people on the side, clean and in good spirits!
The third is courage! If you like it, you have to pursue it, don't have a crush, that's a child's trick, you're so old, it's not suitable. If it's a woman, it's better, isn't there a saying: Men chase women's compartment mountains, and women chase men's compartment yarns?
Men should carry forward the revolutionary spirit of not being afraid of hardship or tiredness.
Hehe, do you know why I still have to talk about a man when I hear you say that you are married?
Because there's so much to worry about nowadays. This can also be said to be "married". So I also help the male compatriots to talk about it.
Thank you, and I wish you an early man to find your ideal husband.
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Hehe......As with getting a job, try to show your strengths.
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Dizzy.. When you are old, someone will look for you.
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That's not a problem! Hehe......Fate is predestined.
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