What should I do, scheming, the child goes away

People who can play can't look down on us honest rural people! Only honest people are looking for honest people! Man.

Love is like a master's move, whoever is tempted first will lose the whole game. Find your own position, work hard, live a solid life. There are no absolutes, do your best, and obey the destiny of heaven.

1. If you like her and really think that she will be your ideal partner, then continue to work hard, no one will get a satisfactory answer as soon as you confess, and refusal is a good thing.

2. Think about why she said you were stupid, maybe you were too honest. People who are too honest are at a loss in this kind of society, and you should experience more things to make yourself grow. And you also have to know that in this kind of year, there are people who are the boss, and there is no money, even if you are handsome to death, it doesn't have much effect.

I also think I should find one that suits you.

This girl is even with you.

It will also be separated.

Your she may still be waiting for you.

Good luck.

Give up, not all the way, find a woman who really likes you, and you can't support it.

Moisturize things silently, take your time.

If you want to go for it, whether you fail or not, it is also an experience in life, and there is still a long way to go.

It's really not suitable, sooner or later, her behavior will drive you crazy, give up, give up resolutely.

Give up on her, maybe you're not on the same path, I don't think you're suitable.

Hehe, a young man who is just starting to fall in love. Feelings are something that cannot be forced. Men should put their careers first.

And you're just liking it at the moment, it's just a psychological feeling. Trust me, you'll have a favorite girl in the future. Besides, men should focus on their careers, you are just 20, and you will meet people who are more worthy of your love in the years to come.

Loving to drink love are two different concepts. When you succeed in your career, you will find out how naïve your original liking was. Of course, I can understand your current mood.

But something doesn't belong, but you have the opportunity to rub shoulders with her and. If you are very persistent and don't want to give up, then be ordinary friends with her first. After getting in touch slowly, you may find that she is really not suitable for you, or you can impress the other person through your performance.

My suggestion is to give up, there is Shenzhou in the northwest of the boy, and there are tears on the side of the West Bridge in the west.

Even if you are together, you can't keep up with the rhythm of each other's lives, in other words, you are not the same type, and you will be eliminated sooner or later.

First of all, we must teach him to establish a correct outlook on life and make him feel warm with family affection.

Secondly, communicate with him more and regain his confidence in the world and others.

Finally, tell him some examples of Endeavour.

This has to look at the books of psychology, and generally this situation is a state of insecurity and self-preservation.

Self-centeredness peculiar to an only child. There is a strong sense of purpose in doing things, and things are thought out before doing them. Not insecure.

How do you deal with colleagues who do things that go against the company's regulations at work? It doesn't necessarily handle it better than this little sister. Have parents unconsciously conveyed such a concept to their children in their lives?

Just ask, people in their 30s are like this, hoping that a 13-year-old child will do better than us? All I have to say about this question is, don't treat your child as a child. In fact, we all had this experience when we were children, and adults always thought that we didn't understand, but in fact, we already understood.

Today's children are smarter than we were then. Remember how you behaved in front of your children. It's not too late to make amends.

Today's children, before they were your children, were independent thinkers. Don't forget, he has no siblings, he has been thinking alone since he was a child. I am nearly 30 years old this year, and the post-80s generation has had the same experience as your daughter.

Hope it helps.

The child is very curious, the learning ability is very fast, your words and deeds will cause the child to be like this, resist the family because the child's mother sees the child crying in the hands of others, immediately pick up, call away at every turn, say annoying, are adults inadvertently said, such as in the hands of the child's mother, grandpa hugging, the child is unwilling, you talk away, slowly learn, pay attention to your words and deeds, now you don't care more about the child's words and deeds, crying, don't care in time, on the side, silent, Being spoiled can lead to a lot of bad habits,!

This kid must have been influenced by your adults before

For example, you like to lose your temper in front of him.

Likes to use foul language.

Now it's time to be gentle with him, especially to cultivate his character.

It may be that the family has some actions that have not paid attention to the impact on the child, so do more things with the child that he likes to see if he can ease it.

Gradually approach the child's heart and let the child accept it.

You can't yell at him, you have to talk to him gently, and you have to find something that interests him and give him something, and the two of them can cultivate a good relationship.

In fact, this is just a way for children to communicate with the outside world in self-awareness, there is no right or wrong, the more the family stops, the more intense the reaction, the child will become more and more energetic, the best way is to ignore him, and tell him that this is not right, more guidance, over time, slowly will get better.

One is very scheming, and the other is very simple. You don't have to treat it, you can do whatever he says, otherwise you will wait for death.

Be good to everyone, and even more so to those who are good to me.

So you will be waiting to suffer a lifetime of losses.

If that's the case, live separately from your husband and their son and daughter-in-law, and that will save you a lot of trouble.

You live alone with your husband!

If you can't get along well, you'll be separated!

You have lived yours, and they have lived theirs! Irrelevant to each other!

You should also be tougher in your attitude!

You have lived with your husband, not with your daughter-in-law.

What to do if the child is cowardly.

Nowadays, there are more and more cowardly children, which is very worrying for many parents. Cowardice is a character defect that has a profound impact on children's physical and mental health and should be corrected as soon as possible.

Cowardly children, although they have the same thinking ability and talent as other children, are unable to compete with other children and adapt to the fierce social life because of this character defect, and when they grow up, they have greater difficulties in their careers and social adaptation.

Parents have an unshirkable responsibility for the formation of a child's cowardly character.

The main reasons for the cowardice of children's character:

Protecting excessive homeschooling.

Overly strict homeschooling.

Bad cues from parents, bad cues from parents can also cause a child to have a cowardly personality.

Inappropriate praise from parents.

Praise is the encouragement and affirmation of behavior, which plays a role in psychological reinforcement. Inappropriate praise can often stereotype behaviour in a negative way.

How to correct a child's cowardly character.

To encourage children to go to society and adapt to society, to change children's weak character, we must first remove the excessive protection of parents or overly strict family education. Parents should consciously create opportunities for their children to go out and socialize with others, especially children raised by grandmothers and grandmothers, and should be liberated from the small circle of the family. Children should be often taken to parks or other public places, so that they can go out into society, get in touch with the outside world, understand society, and adapt to society.

Parents should also take them to visit relatives and friends and travel to various places to broaden their horizons and enrich their knowledge. Parents should encourage their children to play games, socialize with children, and participate in cultural and sports activities together.

Encourage children not to be afraid of strangers and speak boldly Some introverted and cowardly children do not like to talk too much, and are not good at arguing, especially in front of strangers, especially in public. For such children, parents should create more conditions for their children and provide them with opportunities to speak boldly. For example, children dare not speak in front of the living, whenever the guests come, parents should let the children contact with the guests, and seek the cooperation of the guests, so that the guests can ask questions purposefully, one is born, the second is ripe, and the child's cowardly character can be gradually changed.

Encourage your child to live independently and do things boldly.

Some introverted children are only accustomed to getting along with people they are familiar with, and when they get along with and deal with unfamiliar people, they will have a subconscious sense of fear. Some children even went to primary school, and their parents asked them to go outside to buy some oil, salt, sauce, vinegar, etc., and they were not used to it. Therefore, parents should cultivate their children's ability to deal with the world from an early age.

Cultivate children's courage to be outdone.

The biggest characteristic of a cowardly child is that the word "fear" is the head, no matter what happens, the first reaction is "fear", afraid of this and afraid of that. Therefore, eliminating the word "fear" and boldly showing oneself is the most important way to get rid of Confucianism. Parents should often tell their children stories and fairy tales of brave people, and tell them that only courage can succeed, and cowards can't do anything big.

Let him exercise first and go home alone at night, find the children of relatives, play with him more, make his heart cheerful, take him to climb the mountain more if he has nothing to do, teach him to overcome difficulties, enroll him in a martial arts class, play more basketball, play basketball or football can be reasonably collided, exercise his courage...

You should tell him that you are not polite to those unreasonable classmates, just fight with them, it is best to win, and they will not dare to bully next time, and tell him that you are his strong backing, and then do some other education after fighting, so I think it's okay.

These are all caused by parents who are usually afraid that their children will be wronged and love their children too much, so that they can play outside more and contact other children, and they have slowly changed.

When you grow up, you will naturally understand, there is no need to worry, the child who can tolerate it will be a scheming child in the future, and will achieve great things, if you want to cultivate his manhood, you can participate in some self-reliance training, or you can ask the teacher to let him be a cadre in class.

I have a colleague whose son does the same. And he said unto his son:"In the future, if someone bullies you, you will beat him. Dad pays for the breakage. "Then his son got into a fight with the bully, but the child who was beaten did not dare to sue. It's so strange for kids now.

Let the child learn taekwondo, which not only trains courage, but also loses the original meaning of tolerance and generosity, and the coach will teach him how to behave!

The child is still young, nothing, the main thing is to see how he is in adolescence, when the child reaches puberty, parents must pay more attention to communicating with the child, so that the child can embark on the road to success.

Give him an independence day, let him learn to be independent and face everything that may happen, and when he does something well, don't forget to affirm him, encourage him, and help him build confidence.

Cowardly children should give him courage, don't say too much to the child, sometimes give the child a little space, the current child is inevitably a little squeamish, let him make more friends on his own, not necessarily the surface of the cowardly child is also cowardly in the heart, simple - in the small group of the school can find his own position, in the future society can save a lot of troubles, let him deal with it, don't be a small tree umbrella, wind and rain can make the child really strong, inner maturity is not someone else can mature, Parents focus on instructing him and telling him how to protect himself, and it is right to fight back at the right time, so that is enough!! Hope the above words can be helpful to you.

It is difficult to exercise the autonomy of the child in the palm of his hand, let him go, maybe he will open faster and know more Isn't there a kind of love called letting go? Become a self-made person, maybe you are usually too strict with your children

He is mad by him, and the breeze caresses the hills; He is strong, he is strong, and the bright moon shines on the river.

You're right, it's about being in tune.

Actually, I was like that when I was a kid. It may be due to your own personality and external environment.

However, after that, it will be better slowly, so don't worry too much. Just tell him to play more with his classmates!

In fact, a lot of things are just as good as they come naturally, the child is still too young, and it will be fine if he opens up a little bigger, don't be too careful

You don't need to teach your child to go with the flow.

As for being robbed, teachers should pay more attention to this.

In fact, it is just that the child has no confidence in himself.

You need to build your child's self-confidence.

Start with small things and let him make his own decisions.

It's good to take it slowly.

Personally, I feel that sometimes I am helpless.

This situation is something that no parent is worried about.

Slowly let the child know what is right and what is right. Then administer the drug appropriately. When dealing with the child who bullied him, let the child face it bravely. But you can't let him bully others. Tell him to learn to protect himself.

There is also an indirect way. It is to train his own child, and when he is strong, at least others will not bully him casually.

There's no good way to do it. Let him have more contact with the people around him.

Take your kids to the zoo to see the orangutans, or to the playground or to the roller coaster

Listen to me, don't call him those things just yet.

Hurry up to the animal hospital and ask the doctor to remove the baby teeth.

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