Is that really the case with first love? What does first love really look like?

Whether it is first love or second love, love will become dull or even tired after a period of sweetness. No one can stay in the first love period forever, so there's nothing to be sad about, just when it comes early, but you're not mentally prepared. Now is the period of psychological preparation, and it is over, and it is over.

Maybe when you start a new relationship, you'll feel how ridiculous you are now. It's not that first love isn't worth nostalgia, it's just that when it's no longer suitable, you have to let go, don't hurt the other party, and don't hurt yourself.

Don't feel bad. I can't say anything to comfort you.

It can only be said that love 8 is the whole of life.

Among the people I know.

There was a man who chased a woman for 7 years.

She also celebrates her birthday every year.

Give her a very expensive gift.

But the woman's 9 is 8 to accept him.

Also 8 refused. to later.

My friend asked the man.

Do you love her. He even began to know what was going on with himself.

He said it very sincerely.

Really liked it at first.

Later, I also found out about 8.

Maybe it's because I've been chasing it for too long.

Let's get the reason why you can always think of 8 to 8.

8 He is still fine.

He has another girlfriend.

I went out with them a while ago.

I found that he was much happier than before.

I heard that they decided to get married.

That's it. Be happy.

Don't overthink it.

Don't bother yourself.

Hope you are happy.

You've been chasing her for 6 years without success?

That's not called first love! I haven't fallen in love yet!

It's just a beautiful dream in your heart, give up if you can't fulfill your wish!

6 years have not been able to impress her, which shows that she really has no feelings for you.

What you can't get is always the best!! Now you just have to think about how she treats you badly and is so ruthless to you.

Ignore your dedication to her!

You shouldn't think about him right now!!

My friend was right, if it weren't for a career and a new relationship, you would have let her go.

Don't be sad, landlord.,Sometimes your fate is to wait for her.,Find a time to let yourself rest.,,Whether to continue the bitter love or start a new life.,Decide for yourself.。。。

It's long overdue to give up, I've been chasing it for six years.

Don't blame her, reflect on yourself and waste six years of love plots.

Game earn money to eat and drink

When you have something to do, you forget.

That's not in a hurry, it's fateful to meet thousands of miles away.

Dizzy, do you have to be in love? Why not dedicate yourself to the struggle for the cause of humanity?

I sympathize with you, but I'm also uncertain.

I don't think first love is just about the first person you like.

Many people think that the first love is unforgettable, not that the other party is good, and how young we were at that time.

Sometimes, the simpler the purer.

Because when the first relationship appears, we want very little, that is, to get the love of the other party, which is the rarest.

In the subsequent love, more or less as you get older, the change of experience will be mixed with other things.

For men, the meaning of first love is pure and spotless. A regret is a pity because it is not finished; Unforgettable because of love. Especially when marriage tends to be dull and life is mediocre, men tend to feel sad and romantic through the aftertaste of first love.

Unconsciously, the first love has become an irreplaceable idol in the heart.

Of course, the most lethal reason, is because of its simplicity. Whenever you ask a boy why he can't forget his first love, he thinks"Simple"word. They said that at that time, they liked her very simply.

Maybe they were just doing radio gymnastics together on the playground and they were watching her unintentionally. Maybe they were on their way back with their classmates, and they saw her standing at the door of the class, very pure; Maybe it's just coming back from school, coming home, and discussing their hobbies in private.

The likes of that time, there really weren't so many whys. Basically, a boy's first love is in junior high school and college. At that time, no one would worry too much about the real problem.

They always feel that youth is splendid, that time is still long, and that life is still long. Every day at school, I can see my favorite girl not far away, and I will be happy all day. Thinking back to his first love, even if the girl the boy liked didn't like him, or wasn't with him, he felt that his simple self was beautiful at that time.

At that time, we will become reluctant to take care of ourselves because of love. A boy told me that he would never like someone again. Love is a mysterious thing, and it's always hard to let go, regardless of whether the initial outcome is good or bad.

It's really hard for you to forget the first person who believed in love, knew love, and tried to love; You can't forget the stupid things you did for her, that is, to do as many stupid things as you can. Write her a love letter and fight for her and want to be her man.

First love, what a warm and sweet and slightly sad word. It carries all the dreams of our youth, all the madness of youth, everyone only has one first love, sweet or sad, no matter what, first love is always the softest and most unforgettable place in the heart. Devoted, for the first love, we always cherish it, maybe after many years, we will still think about the person of the first love and those things from time to time ......, also reminds me of a song by Li Jian "Standing by and Watching", you can listen to it, first love is actually very memorable for boys and girls, meet the most beautiful each other at the most beautiful age, grow up with each other, know each other together, to understand each other, most of the first love generally gathers in the period of 15 or 16 years old, each is in the adolescent period, at that age, each does not care about many things, but it is necessary to consider many problems to each other later.

One. In the previous love period, two people fell in love in the same school and a class, and they could meet, chat, and play almost every day. I still think that real contact is the most important way to maintain the relationship between the two, not to chat online, to make up for the gap in the middle, whether it is a boy or a girl, when you can't contact your girlfriend (boyfriend), you will be a little uneasy, or insecure.

After graduating from high school and going to college, most of them are not in the same city, and the distance outside seems to be even less secure, and the first love in college may also be assigned to work in other cities because of graduation. Distance is a real problem.

Two. Consumption problems from middle school to college, middle school, no need for any money to maintain a relationship, a cup of milk tea, a movie and then a walk around is a beautiful date, to college, as mentioned earlier, are to go to their respective cities or different schools to study, from this city to another city, and then from another place back, eat, drink milk tea, watch movies, go around, buy something, sometimes have to open a house to have a place to live, not to mention a lot of money, at least 600 yuan at a time, can only play once, Nowadays, there are not many students whose living expenses can exceed 1500 or 1600, and they still have to eat and buy daily necessities at school a month. It's not that all boys are asked to pay, but in my country, most boys think this way, and they don't want girls to pay when they go out.

This is also a real problem.

Three. Relationship problems first love, both parties are very dependent on each other's feelings, and it can even be said that they refuse to have any of the opposite sex around each other, not to mention that they are not allowed to have a circle of friends and social circles that they don't know, just hope to experience it with each other, boys and girls can say that they have invested a lot of effort in each other, and they treat each other wholeheartedly, and they also hope that others can use this way to their own filial piety, and it is possible that the other party is using the way the other party wants to express their hearts, And I feel that the other party does not pay attention to it, and then slowly accumulate some dissatisfaction, and then it explodes behind the friendship hunger, which is not sensitive enough to emotional problems.

First love is beautiful and sour at the same time, and many people's first love ends without a problem. As a result, the first love became the math problem that was not done, which is unforgettable for a long time. 2. "The Checoni Effect:

Let us be unforgettable In the symphony of love, first love is the first movement. We always meet the first person we love in the hazy uncertainty and unconscious good feelings, and hope to be with each other for a long time, which is the psychology of most people when they fall in love for the first time. However, first love is only the first step in love after all, just like a test of the waters in love, it comes and goes quickly.

Having said that, the memories left by first love are still evocative and even unforgettable. Because the first love left a very deep impression on me. This initial impression directly influenced our subsequent romantic behaviors.

We have experienced all kinds of beauty in our first love, but our first love also allows us to experience all kinds of growth in love, but in the end our first love did not let us be together, so we regard our first love as a kind of unsuccessful and unfinished thing, and it is its unfinished nature that makes people unforgettable. I remember a colleague once told me that after my first love, the girlfriend I always wanted to find was a girl like my first love. The feelings at the time of first love are the most innocent, and at that time, for various reasons, a lot of regrets have been caused in our hearts, and this regret is the Checoni effect, so it will become the root cause that we cannot forget.

3. The "Checoni Effect" Enlightenment, Accept the Unforgettable Truth of First Love, and You Can Be at Ease Why many people may rekindle their old feelings after encountering their first love, it is also because the good memories brought by the first love make us always want to relive the good things of the past. But we must know that regrets have remained in our hearts, and every regret will be remembered in our minds. Zhang Ailing once said that maybe every man has had two such women, at least two.

married a red rose, and over time, the red one changed into a smear of mosquito blood on the wall, and the white one was still 'bright moonlight in front of the bed' married to a white rose, and the white one was a grain of rice sticky on the clothes, but the red one was a cinnabar mole on the heart. Love can never be both, in fact, every missed relationship has regrets, and these regrets are also the most precious things in our memories. No one can easily remove their own memories, not touching, not mentioning does not mean that they have forgotten, not to mention that people have praised first love for thousands of years as the best time, plus the "Chiconi effect" in people's hearts, it is easier to understand why first love cannot be forgotten.

Therefore, if you find that your significant other is always obsessed with your first love, don't be upset, because everyone has this mentality, which is a universal psychological phenomenon. Your acceptance, on the contrary, may make the other party generously admit it.

Since first love is a relatively personal topic, and different people have different feelings and experiences, I can't share my first love story. Still, I can briefly explain what first love is and how it affects people.

First love refers to the burial of love that people experience for the first time during adolescence. During this period, people begin to develop a strong interest and curiosity in the opposite sex, hoping to find a partner who can understand and accompany them. First love often has a special emotional value because it represents an important stage in the growth and development of a person.

The impact of first love on people is manifold. On the one hand, it can make people feel happy, happy, and hopeful, which can boost self-confidence and motivation. On the other hand, if the first love suffers a setback or failure, it can bring emotional pain and psychological blows, leading to self-doubt and anxiety.

However, whether the first love is successful or not, it is an important part of a person's growth and experience in life.

In conclusion, first love is a very special stage, and everyone has their own story and experience. While the topic is more personal, sharing one's own story with someone you trust is also a way to express emotions and communicate experiences when appropriate.

Although the first love is the deepest memory of everyone's chain worm, after all, it is a beautiful experience of the beginning of a love shed, but everyone still can't forget the person who is with you at this moment, because this person may be your long-term partner in the future, and she may accompany you for the rest of your life, so instead of missing the past, it is better to grasp the present.