Will you let parents know about your difficulties?

Updated on educate 2024-04-20
24 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    I won't. I told my parents, and they couldn't help me. My parents are not highly educated, they don't know much of a word, and because they have lived in the village for a long time, they don't know much about the outside society.

    The difficulties I encountered were nothing more than competing for scholarships, securing graduate schools, going to graduate school, or encountering problems that could not be solved at work, and I couldn't get promoted, and I couldn't increase my salary, I felt that when I told them these things, they were like they were meeting for the first time, and their faces were full of ignorance and confusion, so they couldn't give me any help.

    I told my parents about my difficulties, which would have worried them. They can't work well when they work, their minds will be full of my things, they can't eat well, because they are in a bad mood, and they will always think about my things when they sleep at night, and the topics they chat about are my difficulties solved. My parents really love me, they care about me and they want to help me, so they worry about me and feel sorry for themselves for not being able to help me in any way.

    I don't want them to get into that mood.

    So, I never talk to my parents about my difficulties. When I have difficulties, I usually think of solutions by myself, or tell my friends, because my friends have similar social experiences as me, so they can often help me come up with many solutions, and they will understand my feelings better, and they know how to enlighten and comfort me correctly.

    When I encounter difficulties, I will also call my parents, but before I hit **, I will adjust my emotions first, and I will talk to them with a smile so that my parents will not notice my abnormality.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    I will let my parents know about my difficulties, because my parents will not discourage me, they have encouraged me since I was a child, so I will definitely seek their help when I am in trouble.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    I won't let parents know about my difficulties. It's not easy for my parents, who have raised me for more than 20 years, and I can be independent, I don't want them to worry about me all the time, I want them to enjoy themselves.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    I would let parents know about my difficulties because sometimes they were able to help me and even if they couldn't, they could give me some effective advice.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    I will let my parents know about my difficulties, because my home is my safe haven, and if I encounter any difficulties, I will tell my parents about them, so that they can help me analyze them.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    No. Because my parents are old, I don't want them to know because I'm afraid they'll be worried. And even if you tell your parents, they can't solve it.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    I'm not going to let my parents know about my difficulties, because now that I'm an adult and they're getting older, I don't want them to worry about me anymore.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    I won't let them know because I feel like I've grown up and I have to learn to face difficulties on my own and not always rely on my parents.

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    I will, because I think my parents are the people who love me the most, and I don't have to be alone when I am in trouble, I can talk to them, and they may be able to help me come up with a good solution to the problem.

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    Yes, family members are the ones who support each other in times of difficulty to tide over difficulties. I don't think there's anything to be embarrassed about, and my family will be considerate of our weakness.

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    Yes. My family is my strongest backing, they will be willing to see me share my real situation with them, instead of pretending to be strong, they will give us the warmest companionship, which will make me stronger.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    I won't, because I'm afraid they'll think I'm useless, and there's no way they can help me, so I'd rather not tell them and digest it silently alone.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    Most of the time I choose to ask my parents for help. If it's a "multiple-choice" type of difficulty, I'll talk to them, ask for help, and their advice will give me direction. If it is a "finale" type of difficulty, it may not be, they can't solve it, and they will blame themselves if they are in a hurry.

    I won't talk about my problems, I will talk about my state, listen to my parents' nagging and care, I will be very warm and motivated.

    Maybe we always think that we have grown up and don't need to tell our parents anything. And many parents will think that their children are always children, and they need adults to help them when they encounter difficulties. So this is a kind of relationship between parents and children in modern society.

    I have different approaches to different difficulties.

    One of the big problems in my relationship with my parents is that there is a generation gap. Maybe my parents didn't understand the difficulties I was experiencing. Many times parents are limited in their abilities.

    They can't help me solve a lot of problems, I need to solve them myself. When I have a problem, I will talk to my friends and teachers, and they will also help us and give a lot of advice. There are many ways to solve a problem, and asking your parents for help is one of them.

    When I first started working, my parents were thousands of miles away. At this time, I don't want my parents to worry too much, and they will worry about me when they hear that we are struggling. However, I am still inexperienced when I have just become independent, my ability to deal with affairs is not strong, and I am not good at "asking for help" and solving problems.

    It will not use various resources to solve emergencies and deal with emergencies. So at this time, my parents could solve the difficulties I encountered or help me guide me, so I still told my parents and communicated with them well.

    In short: I can solve the difficulties by myself without bothering my parents; If you can't solve the difficulties that your parents can't solve, try not to trouble your parents; I needed help from my parents, and their help could help, so I asked them for help.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    I don't seek help from my parents when I have a problem. I am already an adult, and I must learn to solve problems by myself, instead of blindly relying on my parents and carrying them down by myself when I encounter difficulties.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    When I encounter difficulties, I do not seek help from my parents, because I feel that some difficulties must be solved by myself, and others cannot help me.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    When I have a hard time, I seek help from my parents. Because I feel that my parents are the best people in this world for me, and they will do everything they can to help me.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    Yes. That's what our tutor is. My parents would never see me sitting on the sidelines, and they would think that if I didn't ask them for help, it was because I didn't think they were capable.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    I don't ask for help from my parents, because I think I have to learn to be independent and not be able to rely on my parents for everything, so I will face the difficulties alone.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    I will seek help from parents, because I think that you must not carry things alone, and it will definitely be better for several people to figure out a way than to find a way alone, which is more conducive to solving problems.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    I won't, because I don't have a good relationship with my parents, I don't talk to them a lot even at home, and I don't let them know that I'm not doing well.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    I won't, because I don't think my parents can help me solve the problem, and if I tell them, they will often call me to ask about the situation.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    If you encounter a meeting that can't be solved, if it's okay to be alone, then you won't say it. After all, I will always grow up in the future, and I will always have to face difficulties alone.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    I will, because many difficulties cannot be solved by our own ability, and parents have rich life experience, which will be of great help to us to overcome difficulties.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    1. Point over the wheat straw stack.

    On the night of Chinese New Year's Eve, I played with "foreign artillery", which set fire to the wheat straw stacks in the wheat field, and the people in an alley ran to fight the fire.

    2. Destroy sunflowers.

    The neighbor on the west side of the orchard stole peaches planted by my grandparents, but was bumped into by the old man, and the female neighbor was still very confident to scold my grandmother, I went back to my grandparents' house on Saturday, and after hearing about it, I went to his house, but I didn't ask the people to ascend, so I destroyed a piece of sunflower that was not ripe in front of their door.

    3. Ignite the Spring Festival couplets.

    When I was in elementary school, I often worked with my friends to light them with firecrackers and put them in the couplets of my neighbors in the village to blow up the couplets. In order not to show the stuffing, even the door of his house was fried, so that no one suspected that we did it.

    4. Roasted chicken air grinding.

    During the summer vacation, the orchards in the village are afraid of children, and they can't prevent it, but the free-range chickens in the village are also difficult to spare.

    5. "Pick up" fish.

    The fish ponds next to the reservoir are all privately contracted. Every time they went back to eat in Qingtang, my friends and I filled the place, and we didn't dare to take the fish home, for fear that our family would know that we went to the reservoir, and we basically died playing with them.

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