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In fact, life is full of walls, people who go in want to come out, people outside want to go in, and this is also the case in the relationship, every time we are single, we often yearn for sweet love to come to our heads, but when we fall in love, we will yearn for the single and carefree self.
However, sometimes the love can come to an end smoothly at one time, and there are many times when the love ends without a problem, so in such a situation, how to deal with the things left by the ex There are many questions on the Internet.
In my opinion, I think every relationship should be cherished by us. In fact, in my personal opinion, I think every relationship we have experienced should be cherished by us, in fact, there are many people who feel very painful after a breakup, but I think I would rather not meet him, but in my opinion, I don't think so. <>
No matter how unbearable the ex was when he broke up, the good memories of the past were real. There are many times when we miss our predecessors and our feelings, because we are so unbearable when we break up, but we also have sweet memories when we are in love.
So I don't think there's a reason for us to erase such sweet memories, so it's okay to cherish something very memorable that my ex gave me. <>
I also hope that everyone can seriously grasp everyone around them. In fact, in my opinion, I don't think every relationship in life will go smoothly, there are many times when failure or end is something we have to face, so in such a situation, I also hope that everyone can firmly grasp everyone around you, and don't let them leave you quietly. <>
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I'm not going to keep it. I usually return what my ex gave me, or throw away some used gifts.
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I won't keep the things my ex sent, I'll destroy them all, because I don't want me to have any nostalgia for my last relationship.
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I don't keep my ex's things, I give them back to my ex or throw them in the trash, because if I put them in front of me, it will be very memorable.
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If I don't keep it, I'll give it away, and if no one wants me, I'll throw it away, and the feelings are gone, and it looks bad to keep these things, so I'll definitely get rid of them quickly.
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I don't keep the things my ex sent, I put them away somewhere else or give them to someone else, because it's too disturbing to see them.
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If it's something more valuable, I'll give it back to my ex, and I'll throw away something that doesn't matter.
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I won't. Because I can see things and think about people, it makes me very sad. I would give these things to my ex because throwing them away is also a waste.
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I usually don't keep the things sent by my predecessor, and just throw them in the trash to leave the current one with a certain sense of security.
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I don't keep the things my ex sent, because I think it carries a bad memory, and I usually give it away, or throw it away, although it's also quite distressing about money.
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I won't keep it, if it were me, I would throw it all away, I won't keep it, after all, it's not my own thing.
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The ex's things may gradually disappear with the fading of feelings, and if the feelings are gone, the things will be lost. That year, my ex and I fell in love with each other, and the two of them gave each other some love tokens, small to rag dolls, pillows, etc., to large mobile phones, jade rings, etc. But in the end, I couldn't go to the end for various reasons, although I still thought about her all day long when I just broke up, especially whenever I saw the things she gave before, I was even more in love.
But emotional wounds always take time to heal, and I slowly walked out of that painful period and let my life return to normal, and some of the gifts he gave me before I felt worthless and threw them away, and some of the gifts I didn't know where to put them later.
Just some time ago, when I moved, I flipped through the corner of a drawer to the jade ring she gave me, and if it wasn't for the middle turn, maybe I would have forgotten that it existed. After all these years, this may be the last token I still keep. Since it represents a relationship, I'll put it away for the time being, and if I don't know where I put it in the future, then don't look for it again.
We all know that the ex is not so much in love for us, but rather as it makes us mature in love and know what we want in the future! As for some inconsequential gifts from our exes, we can throw them in the trash and say goodbye! Seeing things and thinking about people is the same for everyone!
It will bring back some good or bad memories from the past.
If some of the gifts left by our ex are relatively memorable, then we can choose some very heavy items to keep as a souvenir or some living things (cats and dogs can't be thrown away!). We should keep it and keep it going! Because these are some emotions for us!
If we are reluctant and don't want to throw it away for a while, then we can choose to let it stay with us for a while.
When we get through the most difficult time, it's never too late for us to make plans! If you are very disgusted or disgusted with your ex and have an attitude towards him in your heart to kill him, then throw it! Since he can make you have this mentality if he hurts you, why don't you throw us at this time!
Does keeping it for the New Year make you feel even more sad and sad?
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It's better to throw it away. Because the ex is no longer there, the things sent by the ex will only make people look at it and think about it, it is really taking up space and blocking the heart, there is no need to keep it.
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It should be thrown away, after all, two people broke up, and there is no need to leave these things at home, otherwise you will think of your ex when you see these things.
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It's still kept, because it's broken up, but these things are also innocent, and they're also very practical, and if you throw them away, they'll be wasted.
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Those things that are given by the ex should be thrown away, otherwise sometimes you will touch the situation, and it is not fair to anyone.
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If it were me, I would give it to my best friend instead of throwing it away. Because keeping the things of your ex will make your mood very bad, and even have a lot of nostalgia for the previous relationship, and it will also affect your future life.
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If you like what your ex sent, you should keep it, and if you don't like it, you should throw it away.
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I'll keep it. Although the relationship is gone, it doesn't have much to do with things. Anyway, I don't think of this person because of things. Even if you think about it, as long as you don't feel sad, it means that you have let it go. Don't waste things.
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It should be thrown away, because the two of them have broken up, and keeping these things will remind you of some unhappy past events after seeing them.
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It should be thrown away, because it is useless to keep those things, but it will cause a burden on yourself, and if you throw them all away, you will have a new life.
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It's going to be thrown away. If you want to let go of your ex and find your own happiness, you have to throw away all your ex's things and cut off all contact.
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To look at it dialectically, if the things he left behind are useful to you, you can throw away the things that are useless.
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Throw it away, because seeing those things reminds you of those bad pasts.
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If it were me, I would definitely throw all those things away, because it's over, although I have loved each other, but it's no longer possible, there's no need to keep it for myself.
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If you can, return it, return it to its original owner, and throw it away if it doesn't work. Since you want to break it, you should break it clean, so as not to let yourself always "touch the scene", throw away the past can say goodbye to the past, and start a new life again.
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It should be thrown away, after all, the relationship after that is over, and there is nothing between the two people anymore, so there is no need to keep each other's things.
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If it were me, I would take what my ex gave me and throw it away. Because if these things are left around, they will bring me a lot of memories, and even make me remember why we broke up in the first place. And it makes me feel very sad, so I either throw away the things my ex gave me or give them to my friends.
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The useful ones will be kept, avoiding unnecessary waste, and allowing him to give full play to the value of the item itself.
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Send something, if you think you can, take it, if you can't, throw it away, you have to decide according to your mood, don't decide too much about certain things, sometimes you should just do some things as you like.
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No. After all, these things are bought with money, and it would be a waste to throw them away. We must not confuse people with things.
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A hard curtain rotates to stop, throw it face up, don't throw it back up, the things sent by the front, throw it or not throw it is actually to make something on the body, pick up some lice on the head, I personally think that the things that should be sent by the ex, seriously cultivated into it is actually made by yourself, and it is broken for money!
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Don't throw it away, I continue to give it away, sell it for money when it should be sold, give it away for favors, throw it away to prove that I love him, and don't throw it away to prove that I don't love him.
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I think if it's a peaceful breakup, you can actually keep it, and if it's a betrayal or something, you can throw it all away.
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I think you should throw it away, because staying may make you feel more sad about yourself.
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There are three ways to deal with gifts from my ex: throw them away, sell them, or keep them.
If I have a very unpleasant relationship with my ex and the gifts he gives are not very valuable, I will pack them up and throw them away, out of sight and out of mind. However, if the other party gives me a gift that is more valuable, such as a bag, jewelry, or ring from my ex, I will choose to sell it, which will not only solve the problem of upset, but also exchange some money for myself.
Although I still like some of the bags and jewelry given by my ex-boyfriend, and I don't know about them, I don't use them. Anyway, it's something from my ex, and if I always carry it with me and use those gifts, I think it's disrespectful to my current boyfriend. In fact, girls will be more emotional, and since they are with their current boyfriends, they will no longer worry about their exes and treat their feelings purely.
Therefore, if the gift given by the ex, if it is valuable, take it and sell it on the Internet, as for the kind that is worthless, just throw it away, don't keep it that affects the relationship between yourself and the current one.
I have asked friends of the opposite sex around me, and their choice is the opposite of that of girls, they will keep the gifts given by their exes, because they are more practical, and the boys' minds are not so delicate, even if they use gifts, there will be no waves in their hearts. They think they can keep what they can use, why throw it away or sell it, it's too wasteful. And everyone has been taught since childhood to be diligent and thrifty, those gifts can still be used, just continue to use it, people are people, objects are things, and they must be separated.
And they are not afraid of shadows, they feel that they use it openly, and they are not afraid that the current one will find out that this is a gift from their ex, because they did not use it secretly, and they also prove that they have a clear conscience.
In fact, when it comes to the gift of an ex, everyone has the freedom to choose a different way to deal with it. It is because this topic is discussed that people have different opinions. Some people think that keeping the gift of their ex means that they have not forgotten their ex, and it is also a hurt to the incumbent, which may affect the relationship between two people, and this part of the person is very principled and does not leave any way out for himself.
Therefore, I feel that I must not keep the gifts given by my ex, and I can dispose of them by throwing and selling. Another part of the population thinks that there is nothing wrong with keeping the gift of the ex and can be used as a kind of memento. If this gift is a practical thing, then keep it and use it without affecting anything.
Besides, the last relationship has passed, and you won't see things and think about people, and things continue to be used, it doesn't mean that you can't forget each other, and people and things should be treated separately. This kind of person is more rational, they think that if something can be used, don't waste it.
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In a relationship, both parties are emotionally invested and have small items and souvenirs in common. If you still have your ex's things around you after the breakup, it depends on whether you can let go of this relationship, if you still think of your ex when you see the items and feel troubled, it is recommended to dispose of your ex's belongings, in fact, I personally think it's okay to sell them, and it's a waste to throw them away.
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will be sold, what are you doing with things after they have all broken up, avoid seeing things and thinking about people, and sell things and forget about them completely.
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No, because I think this gift can still be remembered as a memory. You can think of each other when you are very old.
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I will just throw away the gift that my ex gave me, because two people have broken up and should not leave each other's gifts by their side anymore, there is no point.
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