Do you seek help from relatives when you are struggling?

I will not ask for help from relatives.

I have a very bad relationship with my relatives, because I think my relatives are some abnormal people, they always quarrel with our family at every turn, and when our family has a little bit of happiness, they will be yin and yang, for example, when I was admitted to university, our family held a thank-you banquet.

Many of my relatives have done a good job on the surface, and they have come to my graduation party, but they have been saying that my school is not good and that my major is not good for employment. I was angry, but I could only keep smiling.

I think my relatives just don't see our family well, and they are happy when they see our family bad. My dad is in business, the business was not very good a few days ago, some funds could not be turned, my dad couldn't borrow money in the bank, my dad in order not to collapse our family's business, I could only choose to borrow money from my relatives, but they kept chatting with my dad, as long as my dad wanted to shift the topic to money, they would not hear, and quietly diverted the topic.

After they diverted the conversation a few times, my dad understood what they really thought, so he left their house. This experience of borrowing money made me realize that all my relatives are unreliable, and none of them are really good for our family. So when I was in trouble, I would rather carry it on my own or ask my good friends for help than ask my relatives for help.

Relatives are probably the most trusted people in the world, they just want to see your jokes, and they don't have any idea of helping at all, because they are always worried that they will give too much and get nothing in return.

When I was in trouble, I wouldn't ask my relatives for help, because once when I asked them for help, they refused so I wouldn't have to ask them a second time.

I don't ask for help from relatives when I have a problem. I'm already an adult, so I shouldn't cause trouble to my relatives and friends, I have to rely on myself to solve the problems that can be solved by myself, and I must try my best to complete the problems that are difficult to solve by myself.

I will seek the help of my relatives, because I feel that my relatives are relatively close to me in this world, and they should be more reliable, and if I can get their help, the problem may be better solved.

I don't ask for help from my relatives, when I encounter difficulties, I first have to solve them myself, and if I can't solve them myself, I ask for help from my relatives, but my relatives never ask for help.

I will, because my relatives are very good to me, they will really think about me, and they will also provide me with many solutions to problems, so I think my relatives can be trusted.

I don't ask my relatives for help when I have a problem, I usually only ask my parents or friends for help, because relatives can't help me solve the problem.

No, our relatives belong to the kind of people who can only share joy and can't bear difficulties together, and I asked for help once before, but they all found excuses to reject me, so I won't look for them.

I won't, because my relatives will only be happy when they see that I am in trouble, and they will not feel sorry for me at all, let alone help me solve the problem.

No, because I don't have a good relationship with my relatives, I don't think they really care about me, they just sneer at me when they know about my difficulties.

I will, because my relatives and I are meant to help each other, they helped me today, and I will help them in the future, and relatives should be united and help each other.

Find the right people and be responsible.

When you encounter difficulties, you need to find someone to help you, this is a truth that everyone understands.

But many people ignore that the reason why the problem is not solved smoothly is because the person you are looking for is wrong from the beginning.

For example, in the commercial bank I serve, there is usually a phenomenon of job rotation between various positions and departments, and many people in a certain position are often not familiar with their departments and related businesses because they have not been rotated to a new position for a long time. If you turn to him for help, he won't be able to help him even if he tries his best.

In addition, don't think that the difficulties you encounter are related to the tasks of the enterprise or department, and you can use the "requirements of the leadership" as the starting point for communication. This can easily lead to inefficient collaboration.

"Who implements, who is responsible" is an important criterion for workplace collaboration. Communication can only be carried out smoothly if it is based on the premise of taking responsibility. Therefore, reassuring collaborators is the first thing to do.

Take the initiative to follow up and solve problems reasonably.

Even if you find someone who can actually help you solve your problem, your approach is crucial. For example, whether you can clearly express your definition of the issue to the other party at one time; whether the other party can clearly tell the other party the seriousness of the problem; Can you accurately describe the boundaries of this task and the goals that need to be accomplished?

Don't underestimate these things that seem to have to be explained, the reality is that too many people simply can't say it. Think about it, if you make a mess of porridge yourself, how can you have the luxury of asking someone to help you to take care of everything.

Therefore, even if you invite someone who can solve the problem, you should take the initiative to follow up with your brain, and on the basis of respecting the other party's own work schedule, it is important to discuss with the other party the most reasonable way to solve the problem.

In addition, we must not try to cover up the problem because we are afraid of "making things bigger". The end result will only be to hold back small problems into big problems, and finally make a mess out of control.

The right thing to do is to confirm that you can't solve it, and go to someone who can solve the problem, even if he is your leader, even if you may be punished for seeking help this time, you should not hesitate.

There can be many options.

First, ask for help from your relatives, parents, brothers, etc.

Second, it is okay to find your classmates, friends, colleagues, etc.

Third, you can find a police uncle.

Fourth, you can also find a rescue station or something.

If you are in trouble, you should first ask your parents or relatives and friends for help, if you have a lover, you can ask for help, if it is inconvenient, you can directly call the police and ask the police uncle for help.

If you encounter difficulties, you must find a way to solve them yourself, if you can't solve them yourself, try to find relatives or friends around you to see if they can help you solve your temporary needs.

I think you should always ask your family or friends for help when you are in trouble, because they really want to help you and feel very good about you, so you should still find these people.

When you encounter difficulties, of course, you have to find someone who can solve the problem, and they are willing.

First of all, we should look at what kind of difficulties are simple and can be solved, and see if relatives and friends around you can help.

Treat anyone around you, always maintain a 30% sense of mystery, when you hollow it all out, you will not have any attraction, and it will cause disgust, the more comprehensive you know, the more disgusting places.

When others encounter difficulties, we should try our best to help others, we must not "not be good and small", maybe your efforts can help others a lot.

In fact, we know that a person's strength is limited, and a chopstick can be easily broken, but a chopstick miraculously has infinite power. The crowd gathered firewood and the flame was high. When we generously and timely lend a helping hand, other people's difficulties may be easily solved, or it may be that our help is useless to others, difficulties still exist, but because of your help, people who get help will feel warm in their hearts, and naturally have the determination and confidence to overcome difficulties and overcome difficulties, which is an invisible and immeasurable force.

When others are in difficulty, helplessness, disappointment, pessimism, sadness, irritability, pain, ......The help of others, even if it is a warm word, a text message, can help people, materially, spiritually, as long as we can help, do our best to help. Helping others is fun, really, helping others, you can also be happy yourself. Give people roses, and there is a lingering fragrance in your hands.

1.Family and friends: Family and friends can provide emotional support, comfort, and advice.

3.Psychologist: A psychologist can provide psychological diagnosis,** and counselling to help you cope with stress and emotional distress.

4.Local legal aid organizations: When you have legal issues, you can seek help from your local legal aid organization.

5.Health care facilities: Health care facilities can provide medical care and advice that can address physical problems.

6.Religious Communities: Religious communities can provide spiritual sustenance and guidance in their beliefs.

7.Charity organizations: Various charity organizations can provide you with material help and support.

In short, no matter what kind of difficulties you encounter, you should actively seek help and do not face the problem in isolation.

Hello dear: If you encounter difficulties, you can first ask for help1**。

Because the police help the people solve difficulties, if we encounter some problems that are difficult to judge whether they are true or false, or economic losses, then we can call the police and seek help. 2.Seek help from your family, first of all, family members are the closest people to us, so if we encounter problems that are difficult to solve, we can also ask our family members for their opinions and solutions.

3.Friends, in the face of difficulties, we can also ask friends for help, because we are active in this society, so when we go out, we must make a lot of friends, if we encounter things that we can't analyze, you can also ask your good friends what their opinions are<>

Save the emergency not the poor, beware of the promotion of Mien, fight Mi hatred.

I think that a family should still be able to help if they have the conditions and the ability to do so, and the reason why I hold this view is mainly based on the following reasons. First of all, their family is the most intimate person with their own blood relationship and emotional relationship, when their family encounters difficulties, they should still try their best to help each other get out of trouble, because in their own growth process, their family members also give themselves a lot of care and help, even if they don't take these into account, but as long as they have the ability to attack themselves, we should also help if we can, because only in this way can we make our hearts truly down-to-earth and calm. Of course, for the family, although it is possible to help, but there are certain conditions and premises, first of all, they really have the ability to help their families get out of trouble, if they do not have this condition and ability, then they will not only not be able to help each other, but will make their family more worried, and on the other hand, for some family members, especially their peers or juniors, if they do not develop to rely on themselves, but always count on relying on the help of others to survive, So in this kind of situation, I personally think that we should not help them, but should cultivate their self-reliance, because it is impossible for anyone to rely on others to survive for a lifetime, and they have no obligation to help each other for a lifetime, even if the other party is their own family.