Love problems, choose a blind date entanglement, girls please come in

No matter how old you are, don't get married for the sake of getting married, the purpose of marriage is to have a better life.

I'm afraid that these two people are not suitable for marriage.

The first one, the family has money, but the character is probably flawed, marriage means that two people have to live together for many, many years (if you don't want to divorce), then the character is very important, don't think that you can really endure it for a lifetime.

Second, I don't think his conditions are good, and if you marry him, you have to repay the mortgage together, of course, if you have more financial strength and are willing to pay, it's another matter.

It is recommended that you take a second look and find a suitable one, which is a lifelong thing and is worth your extra effort.

It's really tangled The key to the problem is that "I don't like it very much", but "urging", it's better to "get married".

1. We all hope that marriage is a lifetime, don't worry, you are still young, get along again. What do you like about each other, and what values do you share? Is there a common view on the education of the next generation and the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law? Get to know each other better.

2. Don't absolutely believe that "he can change what he can't get used to" and "I'm afraid of losing me". It's not like this world can't do without anyone. The key is your feelings, and the happiness you have when you get along comes from?

Merely material comforts? Is there a moment of inspiration?

3. Don't absolutely expect promises like "get me a job". Independent girls are more likeable.

If you are afraid of living a hard life, choose A, if you look at the quality of people, choose B in terms of temperament; What do you pay most attention to the other person, the appearance of the person, or the need for security.

A, you must tremble after marriage, this kind of is more fierce, maybe domestic violence is also possible.

b, let's see what happens to him in the future, he doesn't have a house or a car now, maybe in the future.

Personally, I tend to b

It's a very tangled problem.,Don't want 2.,If you have to choose.,I support you to choose B.。 Why, I don't want to say, think about it yourself, why?

Other conditions are relatively secondary, and you must find a blessed head.

Personally, I think that if you choose to continue dating after a blind date, then you have indeed confirmed your relationship, because as long as two people start a formal relationship, then they must already be a couple.

I don't agree with this statement, if you choose to continue dating after a blind date, you feel that it is necessary for two people to get along and understand each other, which does not mean that the relationship is determined.

I don't agree with this statement, because a relationship cannot be determined without the consent of the other party. If both parties feel very suitable, this is the time to determine the relationship.

If you continue to date after a blind date, it means that you already like each other, then you have determined your relationship, and I agree that this statement makes sense.

agrees, because the purpose of a blind date is to fall in love, since dating after a blind date is, of course, to determine the relationship, unless otherwise specified.

I don't agree with this point of view, many times it's just a matter of just getting to know each other, and it still takes two people to communicate and exchange in depth, and only when there is a relationship can you determine the relationship.

If you are tempted, you will fall in love, find problems to run in, change, and then step into marriage and you will be happy.

For example, I once went on a blind date with a mediocre-looking boy, who was a programmer and didn't talk much, but the conversation was very in-depth, which made me feel like I had a lot of common topics and interests. Although his work is not very ambitious, he is very ambitious, and often participates in various technical exchanges and sharing meetings, which makes me feel that he is very self-motivated.

Another time, I went on a blind date with a boy who seemed to be in good condition, but he always said that he was very busy and rarely had time to spend with his family and friends.

The blind date made me realize that external conditions do not represent the whole of a person, and getting along with each other is the most important thing. At the same time, I also found some problems in my relationship, such as sometimes I am too strict with boys' conditions and ignore the inner qualities and personality. Therefore, I also began to pay more attention to communicating and getting along with boys, to understand their hearts and values, rather than just looking at the surface.

Although blind dates sometimes make me feel tired and disappointed, they also make me understand myself and others better, and help me better choose the right life partner.

Summary. 1. Ask how old the other person is and how old he is.

2. How tall are you?

3. Ask the other party about their academic qualifications, at least they should be on the same level.

4. Understand what the other party does.

5. How much is the monthly salary?

6. Understand what the other parent's do?

7. Are you an only child?

8. Ask the other party if they plan to get married.

9. Ask questions about hobbies and interests to see if two people have the same or similar hobbies.

10. What kind of boy do you mind, and what requirements do you have for the future half.

Blind date issues.

1. Ask the other party how old he is and how old he is. 2. How tall are you? 3. Ask the other party about their academic qualifications, at least they should be on the same level.

4. Understand what kind of work the other party is doing. 5. How much is the monthly salary? 6. Understand what the other parent's do?

7. Are you an only child? 8. Ask the other party if they plan to get married. 9. Ask questions about hobbies and interests to see if two people have the same or similar hobbies.

10. What kind of boy do you mind, and what requirements do you have for the future half.

11. What are your plans for the future? 12. Understand the other party's economic situation and whether they have the strength to develop into marriage with you. 13. What is your impression of me?

14. What do you think about the issue of love and marriage in the state? 15. Do you usually do housework and cleaning? 16. Is there something you really want to do but haven't done?

17. Do you like to travel with tourists? Where would you most like to visit? 18. What do you think is the most important thing in your life?

19. Do you have a house or a car? 20. Do you live with your parents after getting married?

21. What do you like to do? 22. Do you like sports? 23. How many boyfriends and girlfriends have you talked about before?

24. Will you still contact your ex after a breakup? 25. What are your criteria for choosing a mate? Cong Hu 26, what do you think are your shortcomings?

27. Do you think you are more extroverted or introverted? 28. I don't have a high academic background, do you mind? 29. Do you mind my work?

30. Do you think you are a flowery person who stops talking?

Girlfriend who has just broken up for a long time, what topics to talk about.

Do you feel like your ex-girlfriend still has feelings for you?

Just chat, don't talk about feelings.

Since they have been together before, you should know what your ex-Xiaohe girlfriend likes and dislikes, and the usual chat topics are actually not suitable for two people who have already met and understood each other.

I asked you what you were talking about, and now I don't know what to say.

Then you can talk about your daily work and so on.

Or Weibo gossip.

Gotta find something to talk to, don't you?

What to talk about, don't use analogies.

Talk about your work.

Her work. We've talked about this before, and now it's after the breakup, not the understanding stage, so there's something else to say.

Then talk about what happened to you during this time.

Happy and unhappy.

It can all be said.

Summary. Hello, I am Teacher Yu, a psychological counselor. Focus on marriage and family, marriage and love feelings, parent-child education and other fields. I've received your question, and I'll help you analyze your problem together.

Hello, I'm a psychological counselor and a teacher. Focus on marriage and family, marriage and love feelings, parent-child education and other fields. I have received your question, and I will help you to ** and analyze the blind problems you are experiencing.

Can you elaborate on your question?

There are other problems with the rejection of a blind date with a girl.

Understand, you mean that the girl rejected you after the blind date, so what specific questions do you need to consult?

The blind date with a girl was rejected, and there are other topics.

You mean that after refusal, you still want to find a topic to talk to her, right? Then find out why she rejected you.

I don't know, there's no reason, it's just not suitable to dig up, let's talk about the topic, now I haven't been in touch for 4 days, don't say anything else, but you will talk about the topic, don't make analogies, say other words, don't say it.

Let's talk. After understanding, you can ask her, "Hello, I have been thinking about you since I saw you last time, can I have a chance to meet you again?" I know that there is a shop where the stuff is delicious, and we can go to Buna Sui together to taste it."

Eat the hammer, all break up and eat.

I'm just giving you an example, you can also ask her to watch a movie, go shopping, go to the mall, etc.

If you break up, can you still make an appointment?

Aren't you looking for a topic, you need a topic to find a topic. Or you can talk to him about yourself.

I know you had a mediocre impression of me last time, but I have a good impression of you, can you give me a chance to get to know me better? ”

<> "How to choose a partner in blind date love.

1. Look at him when he is bad.

To see whether a boy likes you or not, it is not to see how good he is to you when he is good, but to see how bad he is to you when he is bad.

2. See how he treats his family.

Don't just look at what he does to you, but also see what he does to his home, his friends, and your family and friends.

3. Calmly analyze and even criticize.

When you can't sleep at night, don't always fantasize about the sweet life with him in the future, but calm down, think carefully about what kind of person he is, and criticize him from his three views and some of his plans for the future.

4. There is a reason for being unhappy.

If you are very unhappy, and it is not the kind of unhappiness that you talk about casually, but the kind of unhappiness that you want to be material, and you want love without love, then I advise you to think about your relationship as soon as possible.

5. See who his friends are.

You have to see what his friends are like, if his friends are the kind of people who are very sunny and have a very positive outlook, then he must be, if his friends are very fun-loving, very scum, and then not enterprising, then he will probably not be much worse, don't think he stands out from the crowd.

6. Be careful with the ultimate good.

If your other half accommodates you unconditionally and never says a word to you, I advise you to prepare as soon as possible, a person who really loves you and wants to live with you for a lifetime, how can it be possible to be unconditionally accommodating to you, the ultimate accommodation is the ultimate control, the person who really loves you will tolerate you, but will not accommodate you brainlessly.