Girls have to choose between reality and love

First of all, let's talk about reality. What is love?

The reality is brutal. That's not wrong at all. A lot of people want to escape this reality.

But let's talk about it. Who can really escape? Reality is often the stuff that shatters our dreams and hopes.

It's like. You expect him to be able to become a talent one day. But after a few years, there was no improvement.

Then you will naturally escape from your reality. Even constantly expecting it. Years and years.

It's still the same until you're old. So escapism doesn't do any good at all.

Let's talk about love. Love in general is fairytale beauty, especially for first love. It's like the princess can be with the prince in the end.

But. Have you ever thought about it? Are princesses and princes so happy all their lives?

Didn't even quarrel? Why is it that fairy tales often only write about the princess and the prince after they are together, and do not write about their future situation?I'm telling you.

That's because love is sometimes ugly.

That's so clear. How should you choose? One last word of caution. If you have a love to drink water and be full, you have to eat bread at the same time.

I'm in the same situation as you, he's not handsome and doesn't have money. My parents always asked me to find a good material condition, my sister found a handsome guy in Beijing, and my parents always used my sister to educate me.

I chose love, and I think it's important to cherish the happiness in front of me. Maybe one day he will be developed! Now my boyfriend is working hard to earn money and hopes that one day with enough savings, we will get married.

As long as he treats me well and makes me happy, I feel worth it. Besides, what if I find another one with good conditions, but he is not good to me, and I can't go back when the time comes?

The heartthrob in Pink Girl said: "A stupid woman wants to find a successful man, and a smart woman wants to find a man who can succeed, but now she has not succeeded, and follow him to success".

What do you think?

Bread love is the best of both!

But love alone is not realistic! When I thought I was hungry and had nothing to eat! Love can become unreliable! There is no such thing as "being full of water"!

But if there is bread. It's different again! Feelings can be cultivated! It's a painful decision, but it's also a real problem!

If you choose love! You can be bitter! You might say: I can cry when I eat! But have you ever thought that not only you are miserable, but your children will be even more miserable!

After all, poor couples mourn everything! It's the words handed down by the older generation!

You want to love him very much, which proves that you don't have the feeling of love for him now, but only give him a verbal promise. Listen to the words of the family as soon as possible The family asks you to find someone with better conditions It doesn't mean that people with good conditions don't have a feeling of love with you Since you think you can cultivate a relationship with a boy who has no money and is not handsome, then why can't you slowly cultivate it with other people with good conditions Little sister.

In fact, love is not unrealistic, as long as we believe and give, many impossible things will become a reality. However, if you really feel too tired, just take a break.

If this is due in 2 years, I really want you to answer in 2 years! This means that you have been talking for a long time, and it won't take long for 2 years, and you will regret it! So I advise you to live in this society, you must live in reality! Think about your own happiness!

Whether handsome or not is secondary, whether there is money or not is a problem, the key depends on how his character is, whether he is self-motivated, flexible and inflexible, people will not be poor for a lifetime, if he is a self-motivated, responsible man, then try to get along.

It depends on whether he is self-motivated or not. But you can't see it, the authorities are confused. If you go to work, you have to go out to play, and you have to go to various places every day. It's generally not a good thing.

If you don't have money, if you are motivated, there is hope.

If you don't have money, your life will be harder, your mood will be almost worse, and your taste will not be high.

And often jealousy, or just choose to live with no one in their eyes, muddy, in fact, self-deception.

If you don't have money, if you're too sober, it's going to be very hard to get by.

If you don't have money to buy bread, what can you buy roses? What to use for romance?

If someone can buy the world's largest bread, but he never gives roses, can such a person love?

If you choose love and give up bread, I think it's just for the sake of temporary love and give up long-term love, if you choose bread and give up love with him, can we still find someone who really loves you like him?

When the two conflict, I am willing to give him and give me time, so that we can build our love and bread together.

In short, love should be on the premise of having bread to eat, but not the best and biggest bread.

There is no 100% answer to this question, it varies from person to person, right, love is not an unrealistic thing, as long as we create and believe in love. Establish the atrium and feelings of both parties together, to pay, there will be tangible returns, one day, both will be both, as long as you believe, for love to fight hard, the relationship will go longer and longer. There's nothing you can't do, come on.

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Commitment doesn't mean anything, and you break up if you can't stand the outside world.

I think you're very conflicted, he's your first love? The original promise is often a dead letter in the end, and the pressure from your family is on you, do you want to give up? You have to understand why you like him, know that he has no money, and he is not handsome, so what do you like?

If you really love him, just stick to it, if you can't withstand the pressure at home, give up! The reality is cruel, you don't need a reason to love someone, as long as you don't regret it later!

I would like to ask how old are you?

Choose a realistic love ......

Let's go first. Talk about marriage.

You have to find someone who is at least rich.

It's the truth. Wait until you break up haha.

It's not good to give promises randomly, don't you know Ga?

Love is beautiful, but love alone is not enough.

In philosophy, matter determines consciousness and spirit. There is also the economic base that determines the superstructure. When I was in school, I knew that I was back, but I didn't understand the essence at all.

Most good love exists in mythological stories. The kind of pastoral life in which you plough the fields and I weave cloth, and I carry water to water your garden, is enviable, but if you live in a house with a leaky roof every day and look at the stars in the sky, you will never feel forever romantic! At first, I thought it was romantic because there was still hope ahead.

If you knew that after years of living in a leaky house and having to look up at the stars every night, would you still make the original choice?

When you are consumed by real life and lose your original appearance, when the other party has grown a lot, how many people will look at your face and think it is still good-looking?

This kind of choice love, not a house girl, really needs opportunities. Sometimes it's not what you want to choose. Not only to look at your own vision, but also to look at your luck, after all, knowing a person, maybe a few years, more than ten years can not be seen.

Even the eternal love swan song between Zhuo Wenjun and Sima Xiangru, which has been passed down for more than 2,000 years, will have twists and turns, not to mention today's prosperous world. Sima Xiangru, who was poor at the beginning, relied on his own talent, plucked the green Qiqin, and asked the talented girl Zhuo Wenjun to give up the life of the rich second generation, elope with Sima Xiangru, walk Chengdu at night, and sell wine. Then Sima Xiangru Fei Huang Tengda, drunk with wind and moon silver hairpins, did not return to his hometown to visit Zhuo Wenjun for five or six years.

In the end, Zhuo Wenjun expressed his resolute attitude, and relied on his talent to redeem his love, so he turned back and forth to cross the mountains and walk leisurely in Baihuatan.

Of course, there are many girls who only choose love and don't want an RV, and there are many girls who don't forget their original intentions, care about each other, work together, and live a good life, which is really enviable.

Therefore, women should be strong and learn to love themselves first. Don't call the love in TV and movies dizzy, after all, it is an art that originates from life and is higher than life. But the reference value is absolute.

In a person's life, the most important thing is food, clothing, housing and transportation. As long as you feel like it's appropriate, then there's no problem.

Whether it is a girl or a woman, no matter how helpless life is, you must coax yourself to be happy first, and if you are not happy, you can only wait and be happy.

Life is very good now, because there are people who love themselves and a family that they feel very happy.

Those girls who choose love are now living very happily, and if they simply choose material, they may encounter a lot of unsatisfactory life in the future.

There is no girl who is not eager to marry love, but the premise is that the person you want to marry, he can give you bread I often see some girls, or TV series, some girls, not love not to marry, not to love the person who loves me must not marry real love, do not consider the sky, do not consider the earth, do not consider whether he can support the life You have come into contact with a few, those girls who wanted to marry the so-called love despite the opposition of their families but now how they live, it can be said that some are very bad, and some are very happy through their own efforts.

Boys are more realistic, because boys are more rational in the face of love, boys will not pay a lot of affection, and boys will stop losses in time.

Personally, I think boys are more realistic, since ancient times, boys have been more rational than girls, and girls are more emotional; In the face of love, the IQ of girls is relatively low, and they are unable to think rationally; Boys will be relatively rational, in the face of major rights and wrongs, especially when it comes to personal interests, boys give priority to the side that is beneficial to themselves, while girls often choose love; So boys are more realistic than girls.

Boys are more realistic. Because in the world of feelings, boys are relatively more realistic, and girls often pay more attention to feelings and feelings in love.

Girls are more realistic, after all, the society now has high housing prices and high prices, it is not easy for every young person, if there is no house, no car and no money before marriage, no matter how good the relationship is, it is easy to quarrel over trivial matters after marriage, and all girls are very realistic when talking about marriage.

Of course, boys are more realistic, because they have a lot to think about and are responsible for their future family life.

In fact, most of them are more realistic for boys, and most of them are more realistic because they have been hurt emotionally, while boys have always been very realistic.

Generally, it is a boy, because when a boy is in a relationship or in love, there are generally many factors and conditions to consider.

In contrast, boys are more realistic, and many boys will look at each other's family background when choosing a girlfriend, and don't want to let their future life have too much pressure.

I think in the face of love, girls are generally more realistic, because many girls will want to find some rich people, and they don't want to have a relationship with some poor boys.

Boys realistic. Because the boy said that he wouldn't love if he didn't love it, he was very decisive, and there was no emotional factor in it.

I think in the face of love, boys are more realistic, girls are more emotional, if you are a girl who is not good for boys, boys will not love you.

Love" and "reality", how to choose.

Let's talk about love first. Love is a spiritual pillar that can make a person have a lot of motivation, but it is not necessarily necessary to love the wrong person. Let's say you like someone very much, and he likes you, but his work is not very good, and he doesn't have any big goals, just live his current life.

You have to whisper in the market life with him every day, and you have to think repeatedly about which ** can make your future life not affected; He hits a wall everywhere at work, but he won't vent his emotions at you because he doesn't go well at work; Your love seems to be strong and can overcome all the difficulties in life.

Seeing this, do you think that as long as there is love, it doesn't matter if life is hard.

But that's just a hypothesis.

As long as you are an individual, it is impossible to have no emotions in a difficult life, and you will not be able to stick to your so-called strong love in a life where you have no money to pay rent today, and you will not have money to repair water pipes tomorrow.

It's not that love is fragile, it's in the days of firewood, rice, oil and salt, everyone will complain, there will be a sad face, and this emotion needs a reason, when you are hopeless about the future, feel that life is like this, you look at the other party with the same frowns in front of you, at this time, can you still say that love can overcome all difficulties?

Let's talk about reality. When a person's career is a small success, it is a matter of time before he is promoted and raised, as long as there is no problem with the person's moral character, it is much easier for you to fall in love. You can receive a bouquet of flowers, you can watch a movie at home together, you can travel together, you can go for a walk near your home.

It is true that money is not everything, but there are many problems that money can solve, and in this day and age, making money is not a difficult task.

To live a hard life with your love to show how much you love him, this kind of thinking has long passed in Qiong Yao-style TV. Now it is more that you love each other and are working hard for the future life, and in your positive and optimistic life, the days will get better and better.

All in all, it is not about compromising between love and reality, you can't sacrifice your life for your love, and you don't necessarily have to sacrifice love to live a good life.

Taking a step back, if you have a hard life, but you are talented and living an active life, how can you live a barren life all the time? I also believe that the people you love will be people who work hard and have a bright future, so that no one needs to compromise between love and reality.