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In fact, getting along with each other is a wonderful thing. How to say, people have the same and different aura, you get along well with some people, but at the same time you are at the same time-for-tat with another person. We all have our own set of rules, and we sometimes choose to avoid others we don't appreciate or agree with; And some people are very good with those people, maybe because they are like-minded, maybe because they disagree with us, in short, we humans have a person who has a personal relationship with "friends:".
The measure cannot be generalized! As for why friendship becomes strange after years of baptism, it is also a very subtle change. You must know that in life, it is impossible for us to live alone, and friends are also like that.
They also have their own families, careers, and friends. Like us, they are constantly working towards a certain goal, and in the meantime, they may be busy forgetting to eat, forgetting to sleep, forgetting many people and things. Maybe it's been a long time since they've had a ** conversation with us, a QQ chat, and a meal.
But think about it, when you forgot to sleep and eat for something, did you ever think about contacting friends who were far away? So, not connecting doesn't mean forgetting, and forgetting to care doesn't mean not caring! Friends have their own families, it is impossible to be around us forever to help and care for us, there is a song that sings like this, "Friend, friend, have you ever thought of me, if you are enjoying happiness, please forget me... Friend, friend, have you ever remembered me, if you are suffering misfortune, please tell me... As long as we are human beings, we only need to treat those we have valued with a sincere and treatful heart, and lend a helping hand when they need help.
As the saying goes, "the friendship of gentlemen is as light as water" and flows as long as fine water, all of which are metaphors for friendship! If those people we treat sincerely can't see our so-called true feelings, it is their loss, not our fault or regret, people, there will always be some loss, but to people, not the right thing. Haha, there's a lot of nonsense, hehe, as long as everything is done with a clear conscience and worthy of conscience!
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Well, someday will leave. , no one can accompany him for a lifetime. Everyone has their own future. Of course, there are only a few lifelong friends.
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No, you have to experience the feelings of friends with your heart, and you will be together.
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Don't always expect friends to accompany you for a lifetime, that's selfish and unrealistic, friends are not around, no contact, feelings are still there, memories are still there
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Well, the so-called parting of life and death is just in a different way.
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That's right. Thirty-six plans, the last one is not to go... How to walk all way. It is impossible to stay there ... That means that's the end result. An irretrievable fact (death is also counted as an aspect).
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It's hard to say, it still depends on friendship. A friend is not the one who came first, or the person who has known him the longest, but the one who has come and never left.
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Yes. But maybe never.
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Anyway, why are you asking? Is there any reason?
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Yes, but there is a kind of friend, I think it is a kind of relationship between love and friendship, you will miss him silently for an occasional time, when you think of him, your heart is warm, there is a beauty, there is a touch.
When you are sad and troubled, you will think of him, and you very much hope that he can be by your side, give you comfort and understanding, but you have never confided in him, and you are afraid that your own sorrow will hinder his peaceful life.
You will think of him because of a song, a color, his truth, his persistence, and the ups and downs you have experienced with him.
Because with such a friend, you will cherish your life more and love your life, because you know that he wants you to live well, he wants you to take good care of yourself, and when you meet again, he hopes that you can tell him that you are happy.
Those worldly concepts, in your heart, because of his existence and become pale and powerless, you just set up a small space for this person in the depths of your heart, quietly clinging to that good memory, from the beginning you know that there will be no love between you, it seems that talking about love redeems this feeling, this can only be a friendship, what is going on? You've thought about it for years, but you never have a clue.
You rarely keep in touch, in this long life, you may only spend 1/10,000 time together, but you keep a longing in each other's hearts, an instruction, even if he goes to the ends of the earth, even if many, many years have passed, even if when you meet again, you will still remember such a person so deeply, this is enough.
Sometimes life is calm like a dry well, maybe you will fall into this dry well, maybe you don't have any love that is rotten in the old sea, maybe Huafa is full of sideburns and pale, but with such a friend, there will be some ripples in your life, some color, you think about him. Remembering him silently, maybe he will not forget it in this life.
You are very grateful that there is such a person in this world, he is not by your side, he has not done anything for you, but you hope that he will live well, live a long life, and be happy and ......healthy
You are also very happy to have such a feeling, pure and long, in this complicated world, there is such a friend, worthy of your blessing, to miss ......
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Social relations include interpersonal relationships, and interpersonal relationships include friendship relationships, because of the complexity and changeability of society, in fact, the friendship in our interpersonal relationships will also continue to change.
I remember when we played together, we said that we would be each other's friends for the rest of our lives, we would be together for the rest of our lives, and we would never forget each other. At that time, I thought that these words were bigger than the sky, and I thought that these words would eventually come true, but as we continue to grow and experience, the reality always tells me that those friends who say they will walk together will disappear when they walk.
What I'm trying to say is that even the best friends will be separated. It feels sad to say, but the truth is that we have no way to recover from it except for our tank sorrow and sadness.
Maybe it's because we're all busy, and because of some reasons in reality, including social circles, living environments, and cognitive levels, which are very different, when we don't get together, we may all be growing up separately, and it may be diametrically opposite to the previous direction. So we have a very tacit understanding, but we feel that it is strange that everyone is not looking for each other to chat, and good friends are going farther and farther away.
There may be a lot of real things between good friends because they have grown up, and it is easy to have some contradictions, and when these contradictions occur, we usually don't know how to solve them, or maybe our ability cannot solve them at all, so this friendship is constantly diluted because of these contradictions, until finally the friendship no longer exists.
The separation between good friends is indeed irretrievable. Although I feel sorry, I can't do anything about it.
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I don't think so, there must be reasons for the separation of good friends, including misunderstandings, or the personalities of two people have changed, the mentality is different, and the circle is different, and then there is the problem of distance, distance is a very real problem, distance will affect a lot, so not only long-distance relationship but also long-distance friendship. If there are friends who are not very far away and usually have a good relationship, they should not be separated. But there are still exceptions, that kind of friend may really be a soul friend, that is, no matter how far away they are, they will never be separated.
I'm a person who doesn't know how to express my feelings, and I'm not usually very willing to reach out to others (I'm grateful for the people who are still with me, thank you, Momoda!). So the friends who usually play well in junior high school and high school don't contact so much after they go to college, and the relationship slowly fades, so I don't know if it's a separation. And I heard from my college classmates that although they usually chat with their former friends often, after all, they don't meet often, and their feelings slowly fade.
But there is a very good friend, she and I have only been classmates for half a year, and we are not together at other times, but even so, we will write some letters when we can't play with our mobile phones at school to communicate our feelings. Sometimes it's too busy for months to get a letter. After college, the mobile phone can be played casually, but there are other things delayed, and I don't usually chat.
But when there is something, we are each other's supporters, although we don't see each other often, but when we meet, there are endless words, and there is never that feeling of having nothing to talk about. So I think we're the kind of good friends who don't separate.
Therefore, there are many reasons why good friends separate, and not all good friends will separate.
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I think that no matter what kind of relationship, once you lose contact, the relationship will slowly drift apart, and eventually drift away and become unbooked, so as long as you keep in touch with him, the relationship can be maintained.
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Not necessarily, as long as you are willing to put in the time and effort to maintain this friendship, you will not be separated.
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True friends are for life.
Separation between friends is inevitable, because there is no such thing as a feast. Everyone has their own pursuits, everyone has their own career, for their own future, they have to work hard, so it is inevitable that they will be separated, this is for life, and everyone will experience separation.
As long as you and your friends treat each other sincerely, contact each other, greet each other, and the feelings will not fade, because she will miss your time together more, the bits and pieces together, and naturally remember your kindness to him.
As long as you treat each other sincerely, cherish your friendship, and cherish your feelings for each other, your friendship will not fade because of distance.
Bless you and your friends.
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I think this situation is a friend relationship. Of course, friends are also thin, and you also need to rely on yourself to experience.
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