What is the mentality of those women who don t say anything after being wronged?

I always think that people's hearts are a place with a fixed volume, some people may not be able to pretend to have anything in their hearts, a little unpleasantness will be manifested on their faces, and they will be comfortable when vented, but some people are like a huge pocket, bottomless, he can hold a lot of things, this varies from person to person, some women are this kind of people, they have been wronged.

I don't want to express it, maybe I think that there is no result in expressing it, or I don't want others to see my bad side.

Before I explain my point, let me give an example, I have a sister, who has been married for several years now, she never complains to her family, we all think she is doing well, but one day I heard others say that the relationship between her and her husband is not very good, and her husband seems to have someone outside, and the family is very worried about her, but why does my sister suffer such a big grievance but not tell others? I thought about it for a while, as if I had grasped some point, once my sister and this man fell in love, the family was against it, I felt that this man was unreliable, he wanted money without money, and people were still relatively slippery, and he could talk and deceive my sister, and my sister was going to die or live to follow others, bride price.

I didn't even ask for a point.

Later, my sister rarely went home after getting married, judging from the psychological level, the reason why my sister didn't want to say her grievances may be because she didn't want her family to know that her choice was wrong, which is also a stubborn temper, and his parents said some cruel things to him at the beginning, saying that if you insist on marrying him, then don't come back and tell us if you are wronged, and then my sister really doesn't say anything, she didn't say a word about how much she was wronged outside, on the one hand, because of the stubbornness in her bones, On the other hand, it may be difficult to get over the face.

Some grievances are destined to be swallowed back into the stomach, and if you knock out your front teeth, you have to swallow it yourself, because this is all bitter wine brewed by yourself, and you can only drink it yourself, and it is useless to talk too much to others, after all, no one can empathize with you.

1.There was no one around to complain. 2.I love face, and I am afraid of other people's jokes when I say it, and I would rather maintain the glamour on the surface. 3.The character is relatively strong and likes to be alone. 4.It's useless to complain to others, after all, you can't empathize.

In my opinion, there may be the following reasons for the mentality of those women who have been wronged and don't say it: first, it may be because of their natural personality and they don't like to say it very much; secondly, it may be that after some experiences, I feel that I should not speak out all my grievances; In the end, it may be to avoid unnecessary trouble caused by the escalation of the situation.

Summary. She should not have been taken seriously in the process of growing up, so she didn't dare to fight for the rights she deserved, she didn't know how to protect herself well, love herself, there are many such situations around her, I suggest finding a local psychological counselor, you can release the pent-up emotions.

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<> hello. I would like to ask what a girl should do if she has suffered too much grievances but does not tell others.

Is there any psychological shadow?

It should be that she didn't find someone she could trust and open her heart to, and she must be very uncomfortable<>

She should not have been taken seriously in the process of growing up, so she didn't dare to fight for the rights she deserved, she didn't know how to protect herself well, she loved herself, and there were many such situations around her.

Isn't it your friend?

No matter how you comfort her, you choose to hold it by yourself.

I really can't help it.

Yes, my friend.

Understandably, she doesn't want the last bit of stubbornness in the sail hail to be deprived of it, she is honored to have such a good friend as you. It is recommended to find a psychological counselor, who helps us channel our emotions and sort out all kinds of unclear thoughts.

It can also help her clear up the stuck points in the past that affect her life, work, and relationship handling.

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It's because I worked so hard and didn't get recognized, so I felt very wronged.

When others don't understand themselves, they think like this.

Maybe it's too perfect. It may also be insecure and pinning your happiness on others.

I think that a woman who feels wronged will definitely have something wronged if he has nothing to do wronged, how can she be wronged?