What grievances have you suffered? Have you ever been wronged?

The biggest grievance you have ever suffered in life is that you have been wronged and not understood, and you seem to be very painful in your heart. As an adult, we experience a lot of things every day, and it is impossible to do everything according to our arrangement, but we can do nothing wrong, not wronged our hearts, and do it frankly, but many times we are wronged.

I don't understand, my biggest grievance was with my mother-in-law, I was only 20 years old when I married into my mother-in-law's family, and I saw everything very beautiful at that time. At that time, others said that my mother-in-law was stronger, but I didn't believe it. At that time, I was not in good health, so I was suspended from work and treated at home, and I had no money.

My wife is also out of town, so I can't get my monthly salary back in time. I borrowed money from my mother's family, and my mother-in-law overheard **, saying that I borrowed it from a man, and I had a personal affair with someone, and I went to my lover to sue me. I was really at a loss for words, first eavesdropping on me, and then framing me, and my heart was extremely aggrieved at that time.

Have you ever been misunderstood?

Classmates' misunderstanding, that's not what I said, I'm a post-70s generation, I live a simple life, and I never want to play with others, but it's this sex that is misunderstood by others. That year, my classmate got married and found a man who was 12 years older than her, and everyone talked about it, and I was the last one to know, and they were talking about the age of my classmate, so I interjected, and it turned out to be what I said my classmate was not. Alas, when this matter reached the ears of my classmates, it became what I said, so this misunderstanding could not be solved.

I really can't argue, such a misunderstanding, such a grievance, how do you explain it, the more you explain it, the darker it becomes, and there is no way to turn it into a truth in the end. So, since then, I've learned to keep my mouth shut when there are many people and my heart when there are few people. Do you remember?

In life, there are few people who are not wronged, so it is not easy to live, what can I do if I am wronged? Let it go, I'm not wronged, whoever is wronged, life is like this.

I have lived until now, and I feel that all the grievances before marriage and life are not real grievances. If you have the ability to get married, you can see if you have the ability to be a mother. The child is fat, thin, tall, short, sick, well, hungry, full, crying, laughing, abandoned, all related to the mother.

Mom just deserves to die, and she can't die if she gives birth to a child. Only my mother can understand the meaning of my words, pain, and grievance. But I don't say it, because I pretend to be happy.

A married woman, background: the baby is ten months old because she is not worried about taking her own children at home for her mother-in-law, and her husband is working outside! The phone broke down and bought a 7, and then my mother-in-law chattered, why didn't she want to, I had to go out to work in the past ten months, and I couldn't earn a few thousand yuan.

Sad, how did it become like this. ‍‍

Grievances, which one to say, think about the red eyes at the moment, I feel that I am very wronged by God to make such a appearance (personal deficiency), but because there are so many people who love me, I dare not give up all this.

My parents never thought about me when they divorced, and my parents thought I was just a child who didn't understand anything, and they made me uncomfortable and miserable again and again. Mom would have been the only haven and the only comfort for me in this world, but when I was helpless and scared to help her, she sternly told me to be strong, otherwise what will I do in the future, she may have forgotten my single-digit age, and may have forgotten me, when she came to this world, only her. My mother would tell me a lot of things, and sometimes she would even be so sad that she cried, but I couldn't.

In my hometown, my mother has many brothers and sisters, and I, now, is the only one who has me. Seriously, I'm very wronged, really wronged, now I'm 18 years old, phew, finally survived, I want to really fly, escape from the past, live a life that only belongs to me in the future, and give myself love fiercely!

On the first day of the Lunar New Year, I got up early for fear of being nagged, but I didn't know what to do in the yard, and my mother came over to scold, I really don't know why. The next year was the first day of the Lunar New Year, the family was eating, crackling and scolding, I really didn't know what I did wrong, I couldn't control my tears at that time, I put down my chopsticks and ran out of the door, crying under the wall of the neighbor's house. There were firecrackers everywhere, and I was the only one crying so aggrieved, and to this day, I still don't know the reason for the scolding.

It's someone else who betrayed me, because I'm the kind of person who treats me well and I will pay you back tenfold and hundredfold, I had a friend before and the two of us played very well, I will share everything with her, and then she got very close to another girl, slowly alienated me, and then abandoned me directly, and then said bad things about me behind my back, I felt particularly aggrieved at the time, why did she treat me like this, was her sincerity to me all disguised before?

Autumn evenings. My crush pointed to my skinny best friend, and said to me who was wearing two chubby: It's so cold, you quickly put your clothes on her, I don't have a coat, anyway, you are fat. I took off my clothes, well, it wasn't very cold.

When I was in junior high school, there was a time when I was probably very wronged, and I don't remember the specific reason. But I couldn't help but shed tears while walking with my head down, and I guess my expression was miserable. Suddenly, a voice came from the front, it was the voice of a little girl.

Little girl: Sister, what's wrong with you? It was innocent, soft and powerful, inquiring, caring.

I looked up a little and saw a little girl in a ponytail and a pink and white dress standing in front of me, tilting her head and looking up at me. There was curiosity and puzzlement in his eyes, and his expression was a little worried. I'm probably seven or eight years old.

I really couldn't help but smile gratefully, and the sense of grievance disappeared all of a sudden. I smiled with tears in my eyes and said to her, it's okay, thank you. The little girl gave me a big smile back.

In this way, there will be kindness from strangers in life from time to time, and if you look closely, this kindness will be everywhere. In my past life, I should have encountered countless kindnesses that I can't remember. But many times, we may not have time to make a return in the present, or we are so busy with study, work and life that we can't remember the good intentions of the past when we come back to our senses.

I was worried and helpless about this, and I didn't know what to do. The grace of a drop of water should be reciprocated by a spring. But I don't have a good memory, so haven't I lived up to my kindness?

When I was in high school, I loved reading books that were readers' and digests. One day I accidentally came across an article, and unfortunately I forgot the author's name (Yun Bei). I only remember that there is a general meaning in the article, I helped you, no need to reciprocate, if you want to reciprocate, then the next time you see someone in trouble, you go and help others.

That passage gave me an empowerment and gave me a clear direction. I think this is the secret of goodwill. If I get help, I keep this kindness in my heart and pass it on the next time I help others.

I don't know if this kindness can be passed on to a second person, a third person, but I believe that the goodwill has been sown when it is transmitted, and it will sprout in the vast sea of people and flourish with life. Kindness is a precious treasure that has been passed down from ancient times to the present day, and it will continue to be passed on. In this world, it is not easy for everyone, and there will always be times when you are wronged, sad, helpless, confused, and confused.

I hope that when others are wronged, they can also be as fortunate as I once had to meet a "little girl" who cares, and of course I also hope that my children, lovers, relatives and friends can also be fortunate to meet such a "little girl" when they are wronged. I believe that behind the "little girl", there is a lot of goodwill.

In life, I have suffered a lot of grievances, a lot of grievances, can only be contained in my own belly, there is no way to say it, especially between husband and wife, between children, everything can only find their own ferry, pour out and let go, no matter what, you have to laugh at the wind and rain of life.

I have suffered countless grievances in my life, but these grievances will gradually be digested by me. Because life is easy without one.

A lot of grievances. The misunderstanding of the leader, the exclusion of classmates, the incomprehension of friends, the betrayal of friends, the cold violence of lovers, etc., are very many grievances.

I have suffered a lot of grievances, because I feel that the adult world is not easy, and I have experienced these grievances, so that I will grow up a lot.

Summary. Hello and happy for you. There are many disturbances in life, and there are times when you are in a bad mood, and what you think about the most at this time is how life doesn't treat you well.

Hello and happy for you. There are many disturbances in the life of envy, and there are also times when I am in a bad mood to sing the calendar, and at this time, I think most about how life is not kind to myself.

Pro, the main thing is to mediate your own mood, there is nothing in the world that cannot be solved, do yourself well, treat yourself well.

Dear, there is a saying on the Internet, I dare not speak when I am wronged, I am afraid that I can't hold back my tears as soon as I open my mouth.

Dear, when you are wronged, you can read more books, read inspirational and philosophical books, you can exercise more, you can relieve boredom, and regulate your mood.