What if my boyfriend is not fertile and wants to break up?

Do you want children?

It's good for two people to be happy together, and life changes after having a baby.

Women always age faster than men, and now this society is very realistic, how many men are good men, find a man you think is good and keep him!

If you don't think your child matters to you, then tell him that you love him and ask him out for a good talk.

Wish: Have a lover to be happy.

He's still worried about your happiness Since it's not good to hit **, or anything Then you just go to him Touching others is a woman's specialty, and the way should be right. Say why you love him. Reality still won't interfere with each other.

Remember, as you said, to move him, not to persuade him

Whether you have children or not is not the most important thing, as long as you truly love each other!

He's also afraid of injuring you! If you've really figured it out, go find him!

Give up, don't let him feel too tired. If you love him, let him make his own choices.

He may be afraid of affecting you and your future life, as long as you don't give up, it will be the perfect ending in the end, support you!

He ignores you and doesn't want to hurt you. He loves you.

If you love him too. Just stick to it.

If you can accept it, just get along.

No distinction is good. That way, nothing will happen.

Through your description, I would like to share my thoughts and opinions, I hope it will be helpful and inspiring to you, can solve the confusion in your heart, and I hope you can look at this problem correctly.

Your boyfriend's infertility is indeed one for a woman, or a family. Relatively large tragedy. We should look at this issue rationally.

We all know that every woman has a dream of being a mother, so as a woman, only having a child and being a mother is a complete life. But it also varies from person to person, depending on how we understand it.

Some men may not be able to have children, but now medical technology is very advanced, and it is possible to achieve pregnancy through artificial insemination or some surgery.

The long pain is better than the short pain, you can only find another boyfriend, otherwise you can't have children, and the parents of both parties will definitely not agree to your marriage.

If for the happiness of both parties. It is necessary for both parties to combine and procreate, then there is only divorce. The fact that men are not fertile is a huge shortcoming!

Your boyfriend has no children, you have to try to **, and do you love him? There are many Dinks now, and they can live happily ever without children. Of course, if you really want to be a mother, no one else can stop you. It's entirely up to you.

From what you said, it's really a big problem, what's the situation like if you don't have children? Can IVF be done?

You don't have to be sad if your boyfriend is infertile, if you really love him enough, you can find a way to see a doctor, do IVF, you really can't hold it, and the last solution is to simply don't have children. As long as the two people have a good relationship, it's fine!

If you can live together and you are both satisfied, this problem is not a problem and it is easy to solve.

Everyone's opinion on this issue is very different, you are the party so it is difficult for others to stand in your perspective to put yourself in your shoes, and it is difficult for others to understand your tangled mentality, so only you have a good idea, good luck!

Not having children is indeed a big problem. If you don't love him very much, end your relationship with him as soon as possible. But if you really love him and just want to be with him for the rest of your life, then don't mind if he can't have children. It is possible to adopt a child later.

Haha, it's a pleasure to listen to.

If you're a Dinkist and your boyfriend isn't, it's better to break up! The values are different, strong together, either with a lifetime of happiness to accommodate, or with a lifetime of tolerance to maintain, neither path is easy to take. Don't talk about growing old, you may not be able to get by with the itch of 7 years!

If you just don't want children for the time being, then you can discuss with your boyfriend the reason why you don't want children at the moment, if he really loves you, if you really love him, if you are destined to be together, this little contradiction I believe you will also go away. If this contradiction has not passed, there is no need to dwell on it, you are not a natural pair.

I have a girlfriend who tells me every day that it would be nice if she was the kind of woman who couldn't get pregnant, so she wouldn't have to have children.

I asked her why she didn't want children. Because she feels that she must let her husband understand that having a child is a very painful thing, how laborious it is to take care of a child, it is not easier than going to work at all, and she doesn't want her husband to think that she should bear these things alone.

To put it bluntly, he just wants her husband to understand her suffering and be good enough for her! For her, love is a must.

I said to her that the necessities of marriage are love, but life is not, and the necessities of life are yourself.

If you have children now, then in the future your children will get married, you will have grandchildren, granddaughters, you will have a whole bunch of relatives. If at that time, your partner treats you badly and abandons you, you still have a child to rely on in this world.

And if you don't have children, now you can still have parents and relatives to rely on, then in the future your parents are gone, if you are unfortunate and have no object, where can you rely on, do you want to go to live in your sister's big family!

Whether you want to have a child or not, this willingness must be based on whether you want it yourself, not because your husband doesn't love you enough now! Your decision depends on you, not on the attitude of others!

Now she is happily preparing for pregnancy, and her husband is treating her better!