Zhu Dan s happiness is questioned, will you theorize when you are questioned?

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Many people think that Zhu Dan is not happy because she loves too humblely. Zhu Dan looks happy every time he mentions his husband and children, especially when he talks about Zhou Zhouwei, his eyes seem to be shining with stars. It can be seen that she really admires and loves her husband, so much so that others think she is very humble.

Even if Zhou Yiwei ignores her and is not considerate of her, she will not feel anything, compared to those couples who seem to be very affectionate, she does not look happy. But in my opinion, happiness is a feeling, a feeling of oneself, and has nothing to do with others. She married her beloved and had her own baby, and she felt very happy and satisfied, this is her happiness, and it has nothing to do with others.

There are really very few people I care about, and I only theorize when they question me. Other people's doubts are not much to me, for example, when I used to go back to my hometown to see my grandparents, I saw the neighbors, and I became very few words every time. So many neighbors told my grandfather that your granddaughter is too arrogant.

Hearing this kind of questioning, I don't feel anything, after all, people's opinions of me are superficial, and I don't want to change myself to cater to a group of grandparents who won't have much intersection in the future. It was only later when my grandfather also said that I was a little arrogant, that I went to reason with him about it. I've always felt that as long as the people I care about can understand me, it's enough for others to not think too much.

In fact, sometimes questioning is not necessarily a bad thing. If a person has only heard one voice all the time, that is, if others are pursuing him, it is easy to fall into some kind of misunderstanding of feeling good about himself. It is better to have some doubts, which may not be right, but they can make you re-examine yourself, or re-examine something.

As for whether you should theorize in the face of these doubts, it also depends on the situation, and some of them are if you feel that you are right, and your family and friends are also supporting you, then you don't need to pay attention to it.

I don't go to theorizing, because only I know whether I am happy or unhappy in my life, and I don't care no matter how others question me, as long as I feel that everything is OK.

I don't want to theorize, because I can enjoy my own happiness, and I don't have to care what others think or think.

I don't want to theorize, because my own life is only known to me, and other people's evaluations are really not that important, as long as I feel happy.

If my own happiness is questioned, I don't want to clarify it, because the eyes of others are not so important, and my own happiness is important.

I will, because I don't like the way people question you, and I will stand up and explain and prove my strength.

Don't go to theories, go your own way, let others say, fortunately only you know if you are happy, you will be happy, don't care what others say.

They will be tempted to theorize, but in the end they will choose not to hear it. Because whether a person is happy or not, only he knows. Others can't understand it, and they can't understand it even if they explain it.

I don't go to theorize, because theories can't get the results I want, so let him say what other people's mouths want to say.

Zhu Dan's happiness is often questioned, why is that?

As the first sister of Satellite TV, Zhu Dan, since she married Zhou Yiwei, has often been questioned by netizens that her love is too humble, and her self-perceived happiness is often questioned. Fans and netizens are also heartbroken for her happiness, and they all say that marriage has always been like drinking water, cold and warm self-knowing, but the details determine success or failure, and the details can also show the feelings and sweetness between the two people! <>

Although we are not parties to the party, we have no right to judge whether people's marriages are happy or unhappy, but it is also a fact that Zhou Wei belittled his little wife in the show. is accustomed to saying "she can't act, or even has no acting skills", hearing such words, it is inevitable that she will be sad, even if Zhu Dan's acting skills are really not good, but the hosting ability is strong, and the programs she hosts are also extremely high-rated, and there are basically no major mistakes before! <>

However, when Zhu Dan started the live broadcast at night, Zhu Dan was full of smiles, and said in a tough tone that he asked Zhou Yiwei to put things away, "Okay, it's okay," such an order tone, but Zhou Yiwei was willing, and even let fans testify that he did everything in front of Zhu Dan, and he loved Zhu Dan very much! Couples also have their own ways of getting along, I hope we don't over-interpret other people's married life! <>

I remember that when Zhu Dan participated in a variety show, he was very envious when he saw Zhang Xinyi and Yuan Hong's daily life, and always said that Yuan Hong was too considerate and good at taking care of people, and his words revealed yearning and envy! Maybe there are very few such things in life, which will make Zhu Dan envious! I remember one time, Zhu Dan shared her daily life, during her pregnancy, she had severe morning sickness and didn't like to eat anything, but she wanted to eat a bowl of wontons, and her husband really cooked a bowl of wontons for her on Monday, and she was very moved, because the first time was very memorable!

Finally, I hope that Zhu Dan and Zhou Yiwei will become happier and happier and enjoy the hand of the son and grow old together. Qin Se is in the palace, and there is a quiet married life!

Because Zhu Dan's happiness seems to be just wishful thinking, her husband, Zhou Yiwei, doesn't seem to care about Zhu Dan that much.

Because Zhou Zhouwei always behaves high and looks down on Zhu Dan, the audience always questions whether Zhu Dan is really happy.

Because she and her husband rarely show affection on Weibo, and they are rarely photographed together, they are often questioned.

If people drink water and know that marriage is a matter of two people, there is no need to prove it to others. Fortunately, only the parties concerned know, and the people who eat melons in the outside world are just arbitrary judgments on a certain matter.

Every couple has their own unique way of getting along, and you can't judge someone else's marriage by your inherent view of loveZhu Dan said that she and Zhou Zhouwei will deal with it coldly when there is a conflict, in fact, this is not cold violence, but a rational method, when each other is hot-headed, it is easy to say some extreme words, do things that hurt each other, instead of facing the partner with this negative energy, it is better for everyone to be calm and calm first, reflect on each other, and then deal with the problem when the mind is calm. In the eyes of mature people, this method is much better than useless quarrels.

Zhu Dan was showing her husband's ** cooking for herself, which was obviously very happy, but was said by boring people that Zhu Dan had low satisfaction and a humble status. I really don't know what the brain circuit thinks, my husband is busy with a day's work, and he gets up in the middle of the night to cook food for his lover, how heartwarming it is. In contemporary society, how many men can do it?

I especially want to ask the people who can make such remarks, why do you have to mess up with the fact that the husband and wife are living well? When you see someone else unhappy, you're happy? To put it bluntly, it's just pure jealousy.

Zhou Yiwei himself is a very introverted person, he doesn't say anything sweet, so he uses such practical actions to prove his love for his wife.

To express my personal opinion, in my opinion, Zhu Dan and Zhou Yiwei are still very compatible. At least so far, there have been no scandals such as ambiguous relationships with anyone, betrayal of marriage, good conduct, and love each other. So Zhu Dan doesn't need to care what others say, the most important thing is to live well.

The more you prove, the more you will be said to be weak by those who have a heart. Leave everything to time, manage your marriage well, and stay with your lover for a long time, this is a favorable counterattack.

Life is your own, you don't have to prove it to outsiders.

If you can be happy all the time, you won't be depressed, and you won't be full of negative energy, you can prove it.

The happiness of a person's marriage cannot be proven, no matter how much you give or gain in this marriage, you are warm and cold, you don't need to prove anything to others, the more deliberate it is, the more false it is.

Live your own life well, show your own life status in front of people, and be happy for others to feel.

A happy marriage does not need to be proved to the outside world, and it needs to be managed and maintained by both husband and wife.

Let the other party cook for you, look at his attitude, let the other party accompany you shopping, see if he is willing? Let the other party give you money to spend, see if he is reluctant?

Because once during an interview, Zhu Dan went to kiss Zhou Zhouwei, and Zhou Zhou surrounded him and avoided him, and then he was a little disgusted.

The rumors from the outside world are correct, and the reason why she emphasized her happy marriage many times on the show is because she wants to cover up the facts.

Because there are many indications that Zhou Yiwei did not love Zhu Dan so much, and mocked her and did not support her.

Because when Zhu Dan emphasized that she was happily married, Zhou Zhouwei did not say anything, which would make people feel that her marriage was very unhappy.

Because Zhou Yiwei has never exposed his family and happiness, and he is lukewarm to Zhu Dan.

As long as no matter which celebrity gets married, all kinds of small details after their marriage will be magnified by Infinitus, even if they themselves don't think there is anything to do, in the eyes of outsiders, they will be infinitely magnified, and even feel that there is a problem in their marriage.

Because her marriage is just unhappy, do you see any response from her husband.

Mainly because he is so humble, that's why he is like this.

As a host, Zhu Dan's expression skills can be so poor.

Because her EQ is relatively low, everyone is unhappy with her relationship with Zhou Zhouwei, and as a result, she slapped everyone in the face.

It may be that everyone cares more about her humble love, and she is very good at defending her husband.

The main thing is that every time he wants to show affection, he is always slapped in the face.

Because he is really too humble in front of love, many people will be prejudiced.

The main reason is that netizens spoke to her, but she didn't appreciate it.

I always feel that feelings are a matter of two people, and they really don't have much to do with others, because others are not you, and he never knows your feelings, there is no real empathy in this world, so other people's advice is just to listen, don't affect your feelings because of others.

Someone else's approval is just someone else's opinion. Don't let other people's thoughts dictate your life. Never forget who you are and don't give up on your dreams, because no one knows these things better than you.

Take care of your inner choices and move forward rain or shine. No one can despise you without your permission. You are the sole master of your dreams and happiness.

The only thing worth caring about is your own thoughts. In real life, it is quite a difficult thing to give up the perfect self in the eyes of others and start sailing for your true self, but it is also a very meaningful choice. So, let your hobby fly freely.

Because, hobbies determine dreams, dreams determine actions, and actions will ultimately determine your destiny. Therefore, in many cases, your own thoughts are the most important, and you must follow your inner thoughts, and don't be swayed by others casually.

Your instincts don't need to be recognized. When reality tests your inner wisdom, be sure to try what you want to try, go where you want to go, and trust your instincts. Don't take the wrong advice, don't let others haunt your thoughts.

If you feel good about yourself, do it, or you'll never know how perfect the ending will be. Steve Jobs once said, "Don't let other people's arguments drown out your inner voice, your thoughts, and your intuition."

Because they already know your dreams, everything else is secondary. ”

Love is your own, your life is your own, your own life is your own, why let others decide? So make your own choices and don't waver in yourself.

You just need to tell yourself that no one can live for you and live your own life.

Feelings are a matter of two people, and they have nothing to do with outsiders. Zhu Dan attracts people's attention because of her talent, and as long as she tries to make us realize her wonderful, these doubts will be self-defeating!

If you want to make yourself understand how much you love your other half, then you will naturally not care about other people's eyes at this time, because at this time, you only have the other person in your heart, and you will selectively ignore other people's opinions and statements.

Strong enough and confident enough to be able to care nothing about other people's eyes. People have a long life, they have experienced a lot of things, and they have met a lot of people, so it is difficult to maintain consistent views, and it is normal to have some different views and some doubts, and the important thing is to believe in yourself.

If you want to not care about other people's eyes, you must first be confident enough and believe in yourself. Then tell yourself that other people's eyes are not that important to you.

You just need to tell yourself that you don't need to be involved in your life at all, because no one can help you when you are in trouble.

Zhu Dan's feelings are questioned, as long as he feels that the love brought to him by the other party is true, and he doesn't need to care about the eyes of others.