If you can t find something meaningful to do, how do you find something meaningful?

There was a time when I lived such a decadent life every day like you, I have a deep feeling for your situation, there is a lot of time to arrange for yourself to do what you want to do, it is recommended that you learn some things that you are interested in, and when you are at home, you will be exposed to more relevant knowledge, more social experience, and also experience life, enrich yourself, you can learn tennis, buy a few books to read...

Learn what interests you. Let's read the books, and you can take the driver's license test!

Get a girlfriend to make the perfect end to your college life

Go out to travel, walk more, and see the world.

I have a classmate from Hunan who didn't go back to his hometown during the summer vacation, and lived with a few Yunnan students for a month at school, and then learned Yunnan dialect - even the accent is so similar that when he picks up new students, the parents of Yunnan students treat him as a Kunming ......

Some languages are actually quite quick to learn, as long as you pay attention.

If it takes a few months to learn Taiwanese, Cantonese, or the local [dialect] of the place you are interested in, it will be a good choice - and most importantly, this can be learned for free.

You said, "I went to learn singing and swimming a while ago, and I feel pretty good", singing is not something that can be learned well in a short period of time, so I was thinking, you should just want to learn "know", not "fine", right?

Therefore, some things like "web design" and "photography and videography" are time-consuming and money-consuming, and it is difficult to use them if they are not proficient.

But a search on the Internet often costs thousands of dollars, and I can't bear it."

If it really costs thousands of oceans, I think it's better to go to [learn to drive] - this is needed sooner or later, and it is still somewhat useful for finding a job (not that the workplace has this requirement, but your choice will be greater), and it is difficult to arrange the time to study after work.

If you want to learn to be a chef, you don't have to spend money, you can find a restaurant to be an apprentice, take care of food and housing (of course, you can also live), and there is a salary every month, learn to be a chef, after all, practice comes first, I wish you a happy job.

Learn hip-hop dance, musical instruments, and languages, you can enrich yourself.

I should call you little brother.

There was a time when I lived like you in this decadent life every day.

Wake up at 11 a.m. and play games until lunch, then continue to play games in the afternoon until dinner in the evening.

Go out in the evening and play with friends (friends already have jobs).

Now I have a good job and I'm in a bit of a relationship.

I won't say much about mine, but I feel a lot about you.

I think you're okay, you're a good comrade who is eager to learn, so I suggest you learn something that interests you.

For example, if you studied singing and art, I think it's really good, and when you say that, I think you're very self-motivated, better than me.

What you're going to do now is really very simple, is to think about what you're going to do in the next 8 years, and it's important to determine your future and your life.

Don't underestimate your job search The first job determines the future development.

If you want to be a chef, you might as well go to the Internet to see the production process of some related dishes, etc., and you don't have to teach face-to-face, and you can do it yourself at home, which is also a very good thing.

Because I joined the post in August, you can also take a look at the introduction of this company and the development of related businesses, so that when you get to work, you will not be very unfamiliar, at least let the leader who takes you feel that you are not stupid.

Opportunities are always reserved for those who are prepared, so I believe that you should also be a person who is prepared.

When you are at home, you will be exposed to more relevant knowledge, so that the chef will not be left behind, and the company will not be left behind, and the best of both worlds.

There is a lot of free time at home, you can find some games to play, online games are not recommended, once you get hooked, it will bring you a lot of unnecessary troubles and troubles in the future.

And then there's the outdoor activities, and listening to your introduction, it feels like you might be embarrassed by the money.

Bottom line: It doesn't have to cost you money to go out.

It's a good idea to find a place to chat with friends.

I don't know if there are heterosexuals who take a walk together or something, romantic and emotional, right?

And then it's about correcting your biological clock.

For example, what time to get up every day, breakfast, lunch, and dinner are regular, which is very beneficial to future work and life.

Don't look at it as a small thing, it will affect your whole life.

If you have a camera, go out and take pictures, Art is a science, and it's also a way to make people feel comfortable and have fun, and everything has his knowledge.

I talk a lot of nonsense.

That's all I hope it helps

Hang out with friends, go camping, and relax.

It's not bad to do yoga too.

Learn taekwondo.

Buy a few books and check them out.

Write funny**.

Draw. How can there be no facts? I'm so busy now that I'm envious of you like this...

If you're going to report in August and have nothing to do now, it means that your job must not have been hard to find, classmate.

If you don't want to do something for your future work, do something for your interest.

I wonder if you are interested in making pastries in addition to cooking?

If you are interested, you can work as an apprentice in a cake shop, and you can eat with a small salary.

In addition, you can also arrange a cheap domestic tour, and you can walk around while you have time now.

However, I think the most suitable thing for you is to find a volunteer to do it now, have more social experience, and also experience life.

I feel that your life should be superior, at least under the shade of your parents, and you are spoiled.

So your idea is very immature.

I'm also from the past, and I hope you can adjust your mentality.

Study dietitian or medicine, whether it's about your future career, or family, all aspects.

It is good for yourself and no harm.

How will others know what you want to do?

Is there something you've wanted to do since you was a kid but never had the opportunity to do?

You can also think about where to play, where to eat... In fact, maybe you will have new ideas when you go out for a walk and come back.

Do you like to read?

I'm graduating this year, and I think I will have a lot of time to do what I want to do. Colleges are very unfree in school (

It depends on how you treat life, if you want to graduate and find a place to do it all the time, then you will run your way of thinking to do something related to the work you do, if you feel that you will not be satisfied with reality, then you have to find a new way, think about in advance, what you can do, what big things you can do before the age of 30, the so-called big things are not killing people and setting fires, nor helping others, but how much money you make. This is the key, with money, you will do everything very smoothly, college life is boring, but when you graduate, you will feel that your boring time is too long, and you have not used the time, so you have to make more of a living, that is, to learn more knowledge, knowledge is not something in books, it is the so-called technology, that is, something that others will not easily learn, so that you can have one more way to make a living, this is a step for college students to move towards social class, you will know sooner or later, you will know in advance that you will benefit a lot from preparing in advance. Haha, I wish you happiness, there are too many big truths, and it will be annoying to say too much, think about it.

You can learn how to make web pages, PS, flash, etc. on the Internet. Or read a book online.

Don't think too much, everything has its own ending! It may be that the ever-accelerating pace of work or life has brought you great mental pressure, feeling psychological troubles, and need to be adjusted.

Adjust the time of work and rest appropriately, set a time for exercise, take a break often, relax the tense nerves, and you will forget your worries.

How to relieve and eliminate mental stress?

Ways to relieve stress: When you go home, you should yell loudly for 5 minutes to vent your grievances; Sit on the couch and listen quietly for another 15 minutes, after which you will feel much more comfortable. Or if you confide your grievances to family or close friends, you can be relieved.

Hopefully, through psychological adjustment, you will be able to deal with similar situations correctly and make yourself physically and mentally happy.

You should listen to more ** and let the beautiful music dissolve the mental fatigue. Brisk and comfortable ** can not only give people the edification and enjoyment of beauty, but also make people's spirits be effectively relaxed. Laughing is the best way to get rid of stress, so you can forget about your worries and smile often.

You should also consciously slow down the pace of life, calmly deal with all kinds of complicated things, even if you do something wrong, do not blame yourself, which is conducive to people's psychological balance, but also helps to relieve people's mental pressure. Be brave and face the reality, and don't be afraid to admit that your abilities are limited and you can't handle things properly.

You need to make a lot of friends, talk to friends often, and communicate or confide in people from the bottom of your heart, which can not only enhance people's friendship and trust, but also make you feel good and your worries are eliminated.

Listening to your inner voice, what you feel very rewarding and comfortable is a very meaningful thing.

Meaningful is divided into many kinds, including your work, feelings are all meaningful things, depending on which one you are talking about.

Things that make you feel happy are things that are meaningful.

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Write more every day, stand at the end of the day, and withdraw from yourself.

Looking at the past day, thinking, and inducting, I could have been better.

Summing up is the best moment of inspiration. ”

I always believe that any thing, under the long-term compound interest, will accumulate into miracles.

Be friends with time, continue to improve, and grow with compound interest.

The above text quotes Shisheng (a handsome Sheng who influenced many people with his life).

What to do if you can't find the meaning of doing things.

Regarding this question, in fact, it is basically not that I can't find the meaning of things, but that my heart is shaken.

Because when you realize that you can't find the meaning of this thing, it means that you have been doing such a thing for a while ago.

You know from the beginning that it's valuable, and that's why you're going to work on it.

So why did you suddenly have such an idea? Because you've been doing it for a while, but you're not giving you good feedback, or you're not doing it long enough, or haven't had a good time to verify whether your actions are positive or negative?

When this result has not yet appeared, we are easy to be in a period of slackness, and we will doubt ourselves in the process of doing things: Ouch, am I right about this?

Because I was in this state some time ago.

So what should you do at this time? Just do it right.

Because you've already made sure it's worthwhile from the start, it's just a matter of putting in the time and lowering your expectations. For example, when it comes to learning, many people are prone to slack off and doubt themselves.

So if you think about it this way, what can I gain in the process of learning? I can gain my expertise, etc.

Even if I don't have great results in the future, I won't be disappointed because I have learned a lot in the process.

Second, find someone you trust, someone who is better to ask for advice. Ask him, what would he do if he were in this situation?

For example, I experienced this incident, and I was asked about it when I stopped in the afternoon, so I answered it for him, and also shared some of my own methods with him.

So when you find that you don't know what it can bring or can't find its meaning in the process of doing something, think about whether you are in a period of slackness.