How to find your own life that you can live happily with?

Although in the journey of life, we are invaded by emptiness, disappointment, and disillusionment, but life cannot be without meaning. Even if it is imperfect and incorrect, there will always be some meaning to comfort yourself and live forever. For example, the ancients said that "virtue", "meritorious service" and "speech" are the "three immortals", that is, they thought that if they could do this, they would be worthy of this life and have the permanent meaning of immortality.

Roughly speaking, the meaning of life is generally referred to as two categories: first, in the real world; 2. In the Kingdom of Heaven in the Future. In the real world, or attach importance to the family - the reproduction of the family, which is the continuation of the meaning of life in the family.

Therefore, although man is dead, he has a permanent meaning. Chinese Confucianism attaches great importance to this. In the continuation of the family, people "inherit the past and open up the future"; Therefore, people should be able to "live after the glory and the future", and be cautious about the ancestors.

The grandmothers had nothing but hope that they would have a few grandchildren, who would "tease their grandchildren" during their lifetime and bear their sacrifices after death. In this way, you can endure the pain and live your life with peace of mind. According to this meaning, "there are three unfilial pieties, and no queen is greater".

And the deeds of my people, good or evil, will be rewarded to our children and grandchildren. Therefore, it is said: "In the house of goodness, there will be afterglow; If you don't accumulate goodness, there will be remnants. ”

People live to experience joys and sorrows, birth, old age, sickness and death, in order to understand what people live for? In order to realize their own ideals, pursuits, goals, desires and values. It's tiring, it's hard.

Because society is very unfair, life is very helpless, sad and sad to cry, find something to do, not boring Because, life is like this: no one's life is smooth sailing, So, as long as you work hard, it will be wonderful! Be optimistic about anything and keep a normal heart.

I'll give you advice, can you see it? 1.Look at the world with another eye, not everyone in this world is very smooth, just look at how you solve it, for example, you were hit by someone while walking, others apologized to you, sometimes you still feel very angry, but you didn't expect that the person who hit you was actually more uncomfortable than you, or think about that:

It's a day to be happy, it's a day to be unhappy, so why not be happy every day." 2.If you think that you are in a bad mood, you will be in a bad mood, then you don't have to think about it, if you still want to, then keep yourself busy, let yourself have no time to think about it, let yourself live every minute to the fullest, and then wake up in the morning, don't fall in love with the bed, wake up, get busy, open the window, breathe in the fresh morning air, relax your whole body, and let yourself imagine a happy little angel ...... 3.

Choose a place with fresh air, quiet surroundings, soft light, undisturbed and free movement, and take a position that you feel comfortable in, standing, sitting or lying down. 4.Move some large joints and muscles of the body, the speed should be even and slow when doing it, and the action does not need to have a certain format, as long as you feel the joints let go and the muscles relax.

5.Take a deep breath, inhale slowly and exhale slowly, saying "relax" in your mind whenever you exhale. 6.

Focus your attention on some everyday objects. For example, look at a flower, a little candlelight, or anything soft and beautiful, and look closely at its subtleties. Light some spices and inhale the aroma of it.

7.Close your eyes and try to imagine some tranquil and beautiful scenes, such as blue waters, golden sandy beaches, white clouds, mountains and water. 8.

Do activities that you enjoy that have nothing to do with the specific things at hand. For example, swimming, taking a hot bath, shopping, listening, watching TV, etc. 9.

Life is easy, life is easy, life is not easy. Don't worry, there are a lot of people in this society who are almost the same as you, but they are all living happily, so not everyone can succeed, as long as you work everything and take life seriously, as long as you take every day seriously, no matter how your life is, I believe it is wonderful. Come on, friend!

I sincerely hope that you are happy and happy every day! ~.

Do what you love to do, and if you succeed, you can live happily.

Now that life is better, the main thing is that the big family has been greatly improved and full of chaos in terms of material life, and the material life is satisfied, and of course we have to develop the spiritual life, which is also the main contradiction in our society now. Material needs are easily satisfied, and if they are obtained too easily, people will not care about them, and the body will not be happy. In the past, when people's living standards were low, it was not easy to eat well, dress well, and have a job to accompany their families, and they would be very happy.

And now people want to eat what they want, what they want to wear, what they want to work, as long as they are not picky, they will definitely find a job, these things are at their fingertips, of course, they will not cherish it, they will not be happy. So no matter what life becomes, people's minds are changing, and complaining continues.

A simple and ordinary life is a kind of happiness in itself.

Once the days of worry-free have passed.

People inevitably seek trouble for themselves, and they are not interesting.

There is time to visit poor areas.

You will find out how happy and happy you used to be.

Be generous to others, don't care about the so-called losses, respect others, be able to help others as much as possible, be low-key, and try to be polite to people on the premise of maintaining your own personal dignity. Try to be kind to yourself on the premise of not harming others, and think more about happy things and happy things. Wait, it's too much.

Wake up the sun and the stars at night!

That's how I can feel happy!

You might have to get rid of those superfluous worries first!

Show your charm.

To achieve the goal of having a boy chase.

The premise is "Boy".

What you want is money or heart.

To make a person happy, first of all, you must have a happy mood, so that you can infect the people around you, let them be influenced by you, and become happy! People always have unhappy times, it is important to see how to look at things, no matter how things are, we must face them optimistically, don't think about why you are unhappy, but think about how to make yourself happy, a person sometimes gets into a dead end, he himself can not feel it, but as a bystander is to see clearly, try to communicate with him, the so-called bystander is clear! Untie the knot in his heart, in fact, many things from another angle, from another way of thinking, the result is not the same, maybe this side of the mountain is pouring rain, but you turn over the mountain, it may be the sun shining!

People can't live alone, we still need relatives, lovers, and friends!

But also know that happiness and suffering are normal in life.

Take it in stride, there's nothing you can do to keep us bothered, because it will pass.

Dealing with tricky issues: It's hard to get confused.

Attitude to life: Be prepared for danger in times of peace.

Approach life: learn to be content.

Treat friends: know how to be tolerant.

By doing that, you have no reason to be unhappy.

Don't overthink it! You can be happy, you can relax and be happy about things for a lifetime! It's okay to treat everything with a normal mind.

When you're upset, you have to think about what you're worried about, what you're worried about. When you encounter difficulties, you have to face them bravely, analyze the difficulty of things, solve them step by step, and then you think about it again, and you feel that things are nothing more than that. Don't always think about escaping, shouting annoyance all day long, thinking more about happy things, and thinking that I also have happy times, so I don't feel annoyed.

You can also talk to your friends and ask them to help you what to do.

Then take out an optimistic attitude, be optimistic about everything, and believe that all difficulties will pass, and good things will come soon.