How should I accept such a friend?

You're a little messed up in your head right now. Calm down slowly. If you care about the relationship and friendship, you might as well sit down and talk about it.

Of course, I have also had the experience of being isolated by "friends" and saying bad things behind my back, and the following is to share how to resolve the embarrassment of being isolated by friends and saying bad things about myself, I hope it can help everyone.

01. If necessary, you can clarify it for yourself, tell your friends the truth of the facts, and your true thoughts, if the explanation doesn't play any role, just let it go, don't take it too seriously.

02. If you are misunderstood by others, you must first review yourself, what you have done wrong, if it is your own fault, you must bear the mistake and correct it, even if you are not really wrong, but some of your own behaviors have misunderstood others, and next time you should try to avoid similar behaviors, so as not to misunderstand others.

03. If a friend is isolated due to a misunderstanding, always says bad things about himself, argues with reason, and makes an explanation, but it has no effect, then stay away from this kind of person, this kind of person does not know how to communicate with others. But you also have to pay attention to the way you speak.

04. If a friend says bad things about himself and it is useless to argue, you don't need to argue, think about it carefully, what your colleagues say, sometimes the words are ugly, but they also have some truth, maybe you can make yourself grow.

In light of the feedback that people tend to say that I have a lot of friends, I would like to share my belief in making friends.

The first point is to be sincere enough, everyone always says that sincerity is forgiving things for sincerity, which is actually a better embodiment between friends, if you gradually become friends with each other, then the process of making friends should let the other party see your sincerity, so that the friends you make are more cautious.

The second point is to have self-esteem and self-love, the premise of making friends is to take care of yourself first, I think it is a bit of a "clean the house and then treat" feeling, that is, Huai Zhi first let himself have his own temperament, in order to attract friends with the same place.

Finally, it is necessary to have the principle of making friends, not all friends are suitable for being friends, and it is necessary to carefully judge what kind of friends are real friends who are sincerely exchanging sincerity with each other, otherwise it is difficult to make real friends.

Thank you for sharing this case, to be honest, I haven't had much contact with people like Qizhou.

However, I think this person is very real, and your analysis and attitude are also rational and comprehensive.

Since we are no longer working together, there will be fewer conflicts of interest in the future, so it is very labor-saving and necessary to maintain a normal relationship.

There are still a lot of such people in society, and what he does is basically based on his own interests, which is understandable, especially when you see clearly what he does to you, you are positioned correctly, and you don't regard him as a bosom friend, but only think of his goodness.

If your friends are positioned correctly, any kind of person may become a valuable person in your life.

Punches and kicks....This is pure!

This girlfriend of yours is a more selfish and selfish type, this kind of personality is difficult to change, and you are indeed a careful and considerate girl, and there are many differences in personality.

If you associate with such a person, you must pay more, think about whether she is worthy of your continued relationship, if not, you can gradually distance yourself from her, or just associate with her as an ordinary friend, so that you will not be repeatedly disappointed or hurt by this friendship.

I've always felt that whether it's love or friendship, you have to give on both sides, and blindly asking for it will quickly make you isolated, and your friends are this type.

Looking at your friend like this, I think of myself, I used to always see my friends not keeping their appointments on time, but now they are on time and I have started to do this, it seems that I am also going to change, which is really not good.

People have greed, hatred, and stupidity. So sometimes there are people who behave in a way that disappoints us. Patriarch Bodhidharma said, "Gain and loss are from fate, and the heart does not increase or decrease." "We just have a clear conscience in everything we do, and we don't have to worry about returns.

There is no need to maintain an unequal friendship (personal opinion, if I had such a friend, I would just get rid of it, but I have my own opinion).

The more you care about her, the less you care about her, time has no reliable friendship, don't trust others easily, let go slowly, just treat her as an ordinary friend! Chongqing steel plate is expected to adopt!!

Of course I'm okay with a good friend dating my own ex, as long as the friend doesn't mind.

To be a man, we must be able to distinguish priorities and be clear and detailed. If you can't associate with your good friend for your ex, you have to cut off your friendship with others and not associate with others. Because you are you, he is him, and feelings and friendships should not be pulled together.

Once upon a time you wished her well. Whether it's when you're in love, the vows you once made, and the good wishes you made, are all to make each other's lives better. Maybe your personality is not suitable, maybe there is a conflict between you, and finally you drift apart and end up breaking up, but if you are not lovers, can't you become friends?

Do you have to make trouble to the death? Don't we still want each other to have a better life? And no matter who she talks to, friends and who she socializes, it is her personal choice, and we should bless her.

Attention to friendship between you and your friend should not be mixed with personal psychology. Although you broke up, you and your good friend should also maintain a very good friendship and not see him as an enemy. He may be able to take care of your good friend better, maybe they are more suitable for each other, we should not break up a couple of lovers because of personal feelings, so it is not good for you and me to him.

Finally, we would like to say that if you really can't stand it, then try to have as little interaction as possible, but there is no need to make a big fuss and make it unpleasant for all three parties. The best state is to love but not hate, you want him to live well and you can find a better one, if you can put the sail book and search your heart, then you can find a better partner soon, I believe that your ex will also bless you, I hope you live very well.

If you feel like a friend you've known for a long time is belittling you at every turn, you may need to think about how to handle the relationship. Here are some possible ways:

1.Direct communication: You can choose to communicate directly with the friend, express your feelings and thoughts, and ask if there are any grievances or misunderstandings. This may help to establish better communication and understanding of the other person's behavior.

2.Distance: If the relationship makes you uncomfortable, you can adopt a strategy of keeping your distance and gradually reduce your association with this friend. This method can be a little painful, but sometimes it is necessary.

3.Seek other support: If you feel you need more support, consider seeking help from another friend or professional. Talking to other friends may provide some different perspectives and help you build a more positive relationship.

4.Enhance self-awareness: In this case, it is also important to increase self-awareness and self-worth. You can try to improve your self-confidence and self-esteem, and find more support and appreciation for your people and things.

Whichever approach is taken requires careful consideration and weighing different factors to find a positive, balanced solution.