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Four people encountered in a person's life.
The first is yourself, the second is the person you love the most, the third is the person who loves you the most, and the fourth is the person you spend your life with. First of all, you will meet the person you love the most, and then experience the feeling of love, because you understand the feeling of being loved, so you can find the person who loves you the most, when you have experienced loving and being loved, and learned to love, you will know what you need, and you will find the most suitable person for you, who can get along for a lifetime, but very sadly, in real life, these three people are usually not the same person, the one you love the most, often does not choose you, and the one who loves you the most is often not your favorite, the longest, It's not the one you love the most or the one who loves you the most, it's just the person who appeared at the most suitable time. How many people will you be in someone else's life?
No one deliberately wants to change his mind, he really loves you when he loves you, but he really doesn't love you when he doesn't love you, he can't pretend not to love you when he loves you, and similarly, he can't pretend to love you when he doesn't love you.
When a person doesn't love you and wants to leave you, you have to ask yourself if you still love him, if you don't love him anymore, don't refuse to leave for the sake of poor self-esteem, if you still love him, you should want him to live happily, hope that he can be with the person he really loves, and will never stop him, if you prevent him from getting real happiness, it means that you don't love him anymore, and if you don't love him anymore, what right do you have to accuse him of changing his mind?
Love is not possession, you like the moon, it is impossible to take the moon down and put it in the basin, but the light of the moon can still shine into your room.
In other words, if you love someone, you can also have it in another way, so that the lover becomes your eternal memory of life.
If you really love someone, you have to love him as he is, love his good and his bad, love his good and love his shortcomings.
You must not want him to become what you want to be because you love him, if you can't change it, you won't love him, you can't tell the reason for really loving someone, you just know that no matter when and where, good or bad, you want this person to accompany you, the real feeling is that the two can stay together in the most difficult time, that is, there is no slightest requirement.
After all, feelings must be given, not only obtained, separation is an inevitable test, if your relationship is not stable enough, you have to admit defeat, true love will not turn into resentment.
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There is a difference between the city and the country, and you are right not to marry him. Also, eldest sister, your question is long to add, I used my mobile phone, turned a few pages, and wished you to find the right person for you as soon as possible, but he is definitely not suitable for you.
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Don't do that, you just treat life as a game, don't play in vain, I know your situation is miserable, you can also ask for help from the TV station.
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There are two aspects of the emotional problem, and you haven't thought about it seriously before?
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An irresponsible man!
Make your own choice!
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