Why do people in love get tired and annoyed? And don t want to get married?

Look at how you love, if you love someone too much, you will be led by her nose, like being hit by a magic wand, you can't be yourself at all. From then on, you don't have your own thoughts, you don't have your own joys, sorrows, and sorrows, you take her as the center, and when you follow her, you are the whole world; When you can't be with her, the world is her.

If you love someone too much, she will endure her unprincipledly, and slowly, she will get used to this kind of indulgence, ignore your contribution to her, and even think that you are very annoying, too impersonal, and even begin to despise, neglect, and disrespect you.

Love someone too much, and she will get used to your kindness to her, and forget that she should also give, and forget that you also need the same amount in return - she is completely spoiled by you.

Don't think that if you love each other ten, she will love you ten, love is unreasonable. So a lot of times, love is not equal. Don't love a person who loves and forgets himself, that wholehearted love should only appear in **, this society is less and less welcoming to desperate love, give her space to breathe, and leave yourself a room.

It's beautiful when it's going on, but when she's gone, how do you clean up the mess? With so much investment, can you face that heavy loss?

Therefore, don't love someone to ten points, eight points is enough, and the remaining two points are used to love yourself.

Wishing you happiness!

It's annoying and tiring to be in love, because lovers care about each other and worry too much. It's like this after a long time in love, but there will be two such results, one, and two. Tie the knot.

People who are afraid of getting married do so because they don't have the courage to bear the pressure of getting married.

Because they know each other too well, they are too used to it, and they will find many shortcomings in each other after being together for a long time.

How beautiful it is to be in love, how complicated it is to get married, how boring it is to have oil, salt, sauce, vinegar and tea for a day.

Because marriage is the grave of love.

Not necessarily.

My boyfriend and I have been in a relationship for two years, and he would love to marry me in the future. It's still too small, it should be neither big nor small. Hehe.

I don't know. Love should want to get married

Dating for 3 months to marry scientifically.

The biggest difference between love and marriage is that love must be what you like or love, even if there are many inappropriate places, and marriage is just the opposite, maybe you don't love each other, but as long as you feel that life is appropriate, that's why we always sigh at the beauty of first love, because we are too simple when we sing Chong, so even if there is no unforgettable feeling in marriage, we are not willing to give up each other Wu Bi, just because marriage and love are not equal.

1.Love is the world of two people, without too many factors, such as family trivialities, both parents factors. And the things to worry about after marriage are as small as firewood, rice, oil and salt, and as big as food, clothing, housing and transportation.

2.During the love period, you earn money and spend it yourself, and it will not involve the factors of the other party's family. After marriage, the relatives of the seven aunts and eight aunts need to be checked.

3.Freedom in love is not available after marriage, and there is less responsibility in love than in marriage.

That means that this love is unhappy.

Although many people have good conditions in all aspects, they still choose to be single and don't want to fall in love anymore, but there are several reasons for it.

1. Get used to a life that is messy.

I have become accustomed to the state of a person, and I can live a very comfortable life, free and free, and do what I want. When you go out on a trip alone, you can go to ** if you want, you don't need to consider the mood of another person, and then plan for him. You don't have to think about his favorite flavors when eating, whether it's a street stall or a high-end restaurant, you can enjoy it with relish.

Watch the movies you want to watch, read your favorite books, become the person you want to be, and then slowly become independent and complete, as if you don't need another person to enter your life.

2. I don't believe in love anymore.

Today's boys seem to like Yuan Tsai prefers to flirt around, and they don't want to be responsible for anything, they just say they love you, but they won't really do anything for you. I've seen too many couples divide and unite, and I no longer have any expectations for love, no one can accompany me to the end of the day, and it seems easier to achieve loneliness. Not everyone has that good luck, if I can meet the right person, I will surrender and accept my fate first, anyway, I am destined to have nothing to do with the word love.

3. I don't want to be hurt.

Falling in love is more like a bet, no hail Wang people know if they will lose everything, they may be fearless and willing to try, thinking that as long as they love with their hearts, they will not have any regrets, but now they don't think like this, for themselves, not to love, it means that there will be no harm. No one can get up and walk immediately after an injury, and if I could, I hope I would always remember the pain and never hug anyone again!

Finally, I want to say that whether you are in love or not, it mainly depends on your own choice, as long as you can be happy and live happily, in fact, a person can live a wonderful life, there is no need to be in love.

In fact, in today's society, "unmarried" is no longer a new term. But it has recently become a hot topic again, why is that? Because, in our society today, there are more and more unmarried people, and they have become a very special queue.

Here are the reasons for being unmarried:

1. Freedom is not constrained When young white-collar workers have their own stable income and friends, their demand for marriage will become weaker and weaker. Among the young people, they think that they have finally asked their mothers for decades to bother, and do not want to step into another endless bother. There are also many young people who think that marriage represents a responsibility and they do not want to be bound by it.

2. Enjoy the simplicity and beauty of love Many young people choose to only fall in love and not get married, and this concept has been accepted and respected by many people. They think that marriage is the grave of love, and they are afraid of arguing with their former beloved in daily life over firewood, rice, oil, salt, and salt. I'm also afraid that there will be endless strings of relatives every festival in my life, so it's good to just enjoy the process of falling in love.

3. I have seen too many cases of failure Many friends around them have been hacked, or divorced, and there are more and more incidents such as frequent quarrels between parents. Seeing too much such negative news will lead to a loss of confidence in marriage.

4. Being single In fact, they didn't plan to be single at the beginning, but because they didn't grasp the opportunity, they missed their fate. This led to his older singleness and became a leftover man and a woman, so he chose not to get married. In fact, marriage is not terrible, the key lies in the person you choose to marry, and how you manage your love and marriage.

'Unmarried' is really just a stop for the shortness of life. In the traditional Chinese concept, the family is still the foundation of society. Therefore, marriage is actually the first choice for people.

Although the current society is becoming more and more diverse, people's desire to pursue true love will never change. No matter what country you are in, no matter how different your lifestyle is, your attitude towards true love is always sincere and warm. Cherishing the family and family, children, and lovers is always the principle of life.

The key to this kind of marriage is actually how to manage the marriage. Learn to love, learn to love, and you can turn your marriage into a very pleasant and comfortable trip. No one wants to find the partner who accompanies them for life, and there is no real unmarried, more people are hurt, they are in pain, and there is no hope for love.

In fact, no matter what, there will always be someone who will walk into your heart and give you a lifetime commitment.

Some people may be under too much pressure, and the bride price, the house, and the car are too stressful.

Maybe it's not that you don't want to love, it's not that you don't want to fall in love, it's just that you prefer a person's simplicity and peace of mind than loving someone's gains and losses, sadness and grievances.

The relationship seems to be very simple, two people are happy with each other, and it is romantic enough to go both ways. The relationship seems to be very complicated, experiencing the baptism of firewood, rice, oil and salt, as if no one is an exception, all the beauty has turned into dullness, and all romance has become quarrels.

After all, the story is very beautiful, the ending is very miserable, I regret looking at the past, forgetting and slowly self-**.

Nowadays, young people don't want to fall in love because the breakup rate is too high. There is also too much economic pressure, and if the three views do not match, you have to divorce if you get married. Before marriage, love was incomparable, but once you have children, it will not work, and there are more and more contradictions, and finally you divorce.

So instead of falling in love and getting divorced, it's better not to fall in love and not get married. Because I have seen too many unfortunate love and unhappy marriages of men and women for a long time, I feel that it is better to take off my shoes early than when the road is rotten. It's better not to fall in love.

It's not so much that I don't like it, but I have a fear of falling in love. First of all, people nowadays are flooded with various TV dramas and entertainment gossip, or have been hurt in their relationships, and most of them have a state of doubt about their view of love.

Secondly, most of the current love models require a lot of energy and money, and many young people in society just take care of themselves and have to do their best. Most responsible guys want to have a certain foundation so that they don't stretch themselves out on dates. And most girls also have the ability to live a good life, so they feel that falling in love is a matter of fate.

It's not that we don't want to fall in love, it's just that most of us don't want to settle. And there are so few people who happen to be suitable.

The final conclusion is that a person is very good, so everyone has formed such a tacit balance and respect for Liang Qi.

Therefore, many people will think that being single is better than falling in love and free and financially independent, and there are many reasons, I hope my reply will help you!

I think marriage is a solemn thing, and we can't be sloppy, let alone compromised. If you marry someone you don't like, you may not be happy in this life, let alone happy.

1. In fact, love has an expiration date, so it doesn't matter if you marry someone you like, because even if you marry someone you like, you may not be in love for three or five years. Although free love is now advocated, in such a seductive society, it is important to find a good man with three attitudes and a sense of responsibility, even if you like each other when you get married, but he may go off the rails.

Second, we often say that love is the foundation of marriage, no matter what, we still have to get married because of love, which is a beautiful vision, but in real life, not so many people are fortunate enough to meet the disadvantages of love.

Everyone's view of love is different, and when they are old, they will compromise on marriage, they are married, but there may not be love in marriage.

In fact, many conflicts in marriage come from the wife's expectations and requirements for her husband, and women will have a lot of strange requirements if they blindly ask to be loved. So when marrying someone you don't like For the wife, the husband is more of a partner, and he will not expect anything from the husband, so that the marital conflicts between the two people will be greatly reduced, and many times both parties will be grateful to the partners for occasionally helping each other.

Fourth, there is no heartbeat in the relationship, there is no appreciation of each other's advantages, and there is no emotional foundation, so you will not pay for each other unconditionally, because the purpose of this marriage is to live together from the beginning. The Tong clan will have a very low tolerance for each other's shortcomings, and the relationship will soon fall into a situation of quarrels and cold fights, and they will not admit defeat to each other, and they will never compromise, and gradually the only little love will be worn away.