Why are people in love so stupid?

I think it's because of the saying: the IQ of a person who is in love is o

In fact, they care about each other too much, so they can't see a lot of things in their eyes.

It's better to say stupid than stupid, but crazy is love. Because I care about love, I don't care about trivial things, but I will tolerate each other to the greatest extent and be willing to give everything for each other. Whether you are stupid or stupid, you can be happy and happy. Hope it helps.

Today's society is a society where feelings are overflowing, and love has long become fast food. What will happen in the future, who thinks so far? So love becomes a pillow when you are lonely, a traveling companion when you are lonely; It becomes an excuse for some people to achieve their goals, and even becomes a slave to money ...

At this time, love has lost its beautiful aura and has become realistic and worldly... Is there still true love in this society? Yes, but very little, modern people do not know how to cherish love, when they have it, they will suck the essence of love recklessly, do not water, do not fertilize, so the flower of love will not be long before it withers...

When love went away, I found that the beautiful love I was striving for was once so close to me, but unfortunately there is no regret medicine in this world... So when you have a good love, cherish it ...

True love is not expressed in words, it comes from the heart, when you fall in love with someone, your whole heart will be attracted by the person you love, fascinated by him (her), concerned for him (her), I hope you can see him (her) every minute, when you can't see him, you will always think of him (her), when you see you will be excited, your heart will beat faster, when you are together, you will feel very warm and safe, and he (her) will be in love, you will look forward to using all your love to bring him (her) the greatest happiness, And you get another kind of happiness in the process! I often think of him (her) and am happy, I mind him (her) very much, I care about him (her) very much, and I have happiness with him (her).

Believe in yourself As long as there is love, happiness will definitely exist

Falling in love doesn't make people stupid, it's just that people are impulsive and irrational in the process of falling in love, and they may seem silly to others. This is the charm of love, and those who are immersed in it cannot extricate themselves.

It has been proved that people are more emotional than rational when they are in love, so some people say, "Love makes people stupid". So why is this happening? In fact, it can be summed up in two factorsOn the one hand, it is caused by physiological factors, and on the other hand, it is caused by personal subjective factors.

01. Physiological factors

Dopamine can make people feel more happy and happy, which is reflected in love, which is easy to be satisfied, makes people lose self-motivation, longs for a sense of security, and makes people addicted to love.

02. Personal subjective factors

In the process of falling in love, both men and women will have a certain degree of dependence on the other half and unclear self-awareness。Girls will behave as coquettish, a change in consumption patterns, duplicity, and a preference for sweet talk. Boys will show a greater desire to show themselves and even a bit of machismo.

In the process of falling in love, girls are more likely to form a psychology of comparison, and it is easier to mistreat money as money. Some girls will think that spending a boy's money is a natural thing, which is the duty and responsibility of a boyfriend. As a result, some girls have changed from the way they used to plan and live to a state of big spending.

In the process of falling in love, girls especially like to listen to sweet words, and even they know that some words are false, but they still enjoy it. In the eyes of others, IQ must be considered to decline, even a little naïve and a little stupid. However, it is undeniable that sweet words can indeed promote the relationship between the two parties to a certain extent in the process of falling in love and act as a "catalyst".

Girls are more prone to duplicity in the process of falling in love, and anyone who has been in love should know this. She obviously likes something, and her actual behavior expresses this liking, but she has to say that she doesn't like it. This kind of behavior is not only considered childish by the people around you, but even your boyfriend will feel naïve.

After talking about girls, let's talk about boys next. Boys have a stronger desire to perform, and when they are in love, they will be more eager to show themselves, hoping to show their excellence in front of their girlfriends and make girls worship themselves. Because of this mentality, they sometimes deliberately express themselves, but the effect is often counterproductive, making people feel a little naïve.

If this psychology reaches an extreme state, machismo will be derived. I hope that girls will listen to themselves in everything and show their "domineering president" style, but the fact is that such a relationship will eventually break down.

In love, we will inevitably behave differently than in the past, but we must remain appropriately rational. Only by maintaining enough rationality can this relationship develop better and eventually "blossom and bear fruit".

It's easy to be stupid when you fall in love, because your mind is spent on falling in love, and at this time, when you're doing something else, you will inadvertently put your thoughts and thoughts on love, and you can't concentrate on the current thing, which makes you look stupid.

A woman in love will become stupid because in love, a woman will give sincerely, and she will think less about other things and be easily deceived.

Although it is an exaggeration to say that the IQ of the authority during a relationship may be negative, this description is still very apt. This phenomenon exists, and I am carried away by love. When the mind is hot, it naturally feels stupid.

That kind of stupidity can sometimes be deceived. Sometimes it's the feeling of being surrounded by happiness and making yourself happy. There's nothing wrong with the latter being stupid.

If I was deceived because of carelessness, this kind of stupidity is the price I have to pay, and I still have to try to avoid it.

In fact, the reason why we say that falling in love makes people more stupid is mainly because you may only listen to the sweet words of your love partner during the relationship, and treat other people's words as bad, so it will make people feel that you have become stupid.

It's easy to be stupid when you fall in love, and that's because you only know how to consider the other person's feelings, so your own standards of principle may temporarily lose the ability to judge. So sometimes when it comes to falling in love, the IQ is 0, and that's how it is said.

It's easy to be stupid when you fall in love, because you give your heart and heart to others, so your mind is often overwhelmed when you fall in love.

Because when a person is in love, his IQ is 0, and he is full of thoughts about the good will of the object at that time. He has a good ability to observe the subject's every move, and he will consider his feelings, and he will not think about anything else.

Many people say that "love makes people stupid", this is because people are inherently emotional animals, and as they grow up, they slowly become sensible. Generally speaking, reason and emotion can coexist, but many people do not manage their pent-up emotions well.

People in love are prone to do impulsive things, recklessly, and in the eyes of others, they are doing stupid things.

Because when you are in love with someone else, you will put all your heart on the other person, and you will be very good to the other person in this body, and it will show that you are a person who is particularly easy to become stupid, just because you don't put your heart anywhere else.

Actually, I don't think it's that it's easy to be stupid when you fall in love, it's just that the authorities may be in the middle of the game, so you don't want to believe some things. Rather play dumb inside.

In the stage of falling in love, I see the advantages of the other party, and I am carried away by the sweetness of love, so I feel that it is easy to become stupid when I fall in love.

It's easy to be stupid when you're in love, that's because his heart has become smaller, and he doesn't guard against the other party, so he will.

When people fall in love, they become more confused, because they will feel that the object is particularly perfect, and they will always lose their minds because of this, which is the main reason why they become stupid.

Falling in love often becomes stupid, but also because two people are just happy and happy in the process of getting along, and they can see each other's advantages clearly, but they often can't see their shortcomings.

When you are in love, do people become stupid? For this question, I believe we all have a lot of questions, because we all know that when we are in love, our emotions will be in a very high state, overflowing with enthusiasm, and the degree of attention to the other half will become very high, therefore, we will have a question, when we are in love, will we become stupid?

In fact, many people want to understand this question and want to know an answer, because in real life, if we fall in love, there will definitely be a lot of happy active molecules in the body to become high. At this stage, everyone's brain will become a little dull, but this is not because we will become stupid when we fall in love, but because the dopamine secreted by our cerebral cortex will make us continue to be emotionally high. At this time, our hearts are surging, so many times, it is possible to speak and do things without going through the brain.

However, this is not a question of whether you are stupid or not, if you want to avoid this thing, you can do something, and the following things can help you solve the current problem well.

First of all, what we need to do is that we must understand this problem in time, and there is that love is just a part of life, don't let love fill your life all day long, you must have your own space, otherwise, your life privacy will be gone. Both parties must have independent space and ensure their own time. There is also that we must maintain a certain sense of distance from the other half, after all, distance produces beauty, in this way, our feelings will continue to heat up, become very different, in love, the most important thing for two people is not to let each other become all.

In fact, it is normal for us to be very happy when we are in love, and it is inevitable that we will be slow to react and deal with things a little slowly, so you don't have to worry too much, these are very normal phenomena. Just let it be.

I think whether you will become stupid in love depends on your personality, some people will focus on each other after falling in love, and become selfless, while some people are also very assertive when they are in love, they can live their own lives, and they can get along with each other very well, I think love still needs to have their own opinions, don't give up self for others.

When we are in love, people do become stupid, and when we are in love, because our dopamine has been secreting, and then we feel that the person opposite is very good and perfect, so we will become stupid.

Yes, you will not have your own judgment, you will lose your own opinions, and it is especially easy to give, so you will become stupid.

I fell in love with someone, but I didn't know anything, I didn't have a job, and I didn't have an income, so I wanted to be with him forever, but the reality is often the opposite, very practical, and this is my own discovery.

1. Love brain is an Internet buzzword, a kind of love-first thinking mode, those who put all their energy and thoughts on love and lovers as soon as they fall in love, we can describe that he has a love brain.

2. The specific manifestation of the love brain book is that when you are in love, you are willing to pay a lot of money in exchange for the other party's satisfaction, companionship, etc., such as giving up a job opportunity to accompany each other, and everything you do is for the other party (such as being willing to make great concessions for the sake of the other party), and it is not once or twice but often has such thoughts.

3. Because of this kind of brain circuit that is more than the sky in love, once the love is lost, it becomes the biggest blow to the love brain, some people are unable to stumble because of the loss of love, they feel that without love, life will lose its meaning.

Manifested as: 1 Possession of the heroine of idol dramas.

Every girl should have a "heroine dream state faction" in her heart, but excessively bringing the plot of the idol drama into real love will only make her step by step towards the love brain.

2 Obsessed with the plot of the idol drama.

Girls will always scream uncontrollably when they see the plot of their favorite idol drama, and if these plots can appear in themselves, they won't be too happy.

But we need to know that hope and obsession are two different things, and don't make excessive meaningless fantasies.

3 Obsessed with romance.

Girls love romance, but don't associate everything with romance.

As long as the other party does something he doesn't know, he thinks that he is preparing a surprise, and then he falls into endless loss without surprise.

4 Excessive suspicion.

Why didn't he say what he was going to do? Did you go on a date with another girl?"

He's been working overtime lately, doesn't he want to see me."