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Personally, I think it's okay! One is a secret that is deep in the heart and cannot be spoken; The other is the one who gets along with you day and night, which can bring happiness and sadness.
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Yes, but it's painful to hope.
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It's better not to pretend if you can pretend, hehe, at least not at the same time, it's not fair to you and them
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If the object is the other half, it's impossible, then it's your own trouble.
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Probably one is what you like and one is what you like.
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Choose someone who loves you, or you'll hurt both.
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It can be loaded! But you can only choose one of the two!
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Several people can also pretend, depending on what you have about these two people.
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It's better not to! It's not just two people who hurt like that!
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Whether it is a man or a woman, under normal circumstances, it is impossible to pretend to be two people at the same time, and if they love at the same time, I am afraid it is really difficult to say that it is true love.
Our hearts only have a little space, if you devote yourself to a person to love this person, I am afraid that it is impossible for you to love someone again, unless you have two hearts. Even if there were, your heart would not give up your body, whether male or female.
And why is it said that men understand that they can fit two people at the same time? This really may have to start with the original function of gender.
Men believe that a man's initial sexual function is largely to reproduce, so he can pretend to have two women at the same time, because it is for reproduction, so the sexual instinct of mating instinct occupies the entire subconscious instinct - this is probably the reason why people say: "men are lower body animals".
Women, on the other hand, have sexual needs relatively because of their feelings. Because of this, in the understanding of most women, it is believed that only one person can be in the heart when it comes to love.
I think, in fact, that being able to pretend to be a few people at the same time in my heart really has nothing to do with gender and has an affair with human nature.
In real life, we can also see that many men stay for a relationship and for a person until death. There are also many women who love more than one person at the same time.
Therefore, there are several people in the love center at the same time, regardless of gender, only having an affair with human nature. A person's humanity is what determines what kind of person he is and what kind of things he will do.
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You can pretend to be it, but you will be very uncomfortable, hovering between two people every day, I think you should only pretend to be one person so that you will be happier. Would you be happy with two people? Happy? Maybe not.
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Love is not a game, love is a sincere giving, and you must forget that you can't really do it. No matter where the destination will be, I think I should leave an innocent beauty in my heart. I have never been easily attracted to others, and suddenly I found myself deeply in love, that feeling is really difficult to express in words, is it joy?
Is it sad? How can you forget, can you get it back if you love to say that you can take it back? If you can, it's not love.
Maybe I don't have the courage to face the cruelty of reality. I often have such feelings, maybe love is just because of loneliness, and you need to find someone to love, even if there is no ending. But why is love so fragile?
Sometimes it's more fragile than a glass vase. It is so strong, so strong that even if it has made itself bruised, it still loves it infatuatedly and never regrets it.
Remember. No, how can we fit two people if we only have one heart! Really love someone.
I think my heart is full of Tala! Is there a place for anyone else lately? The heart is given to the first person, and the others come in?
Unless that's not love.
No, if you have two people in your heart, it means that you are too selfish and unfair to him. Weigh what you need to do yourself. Love is selfish and belongs to two people. There can't be a junior. Either you'll lose it all one day.
I don't think it's okay to be single-minded to be happy.
No! Because one person's love cannot be shared by two people. So you have to choose one. Of course, one of them is bound to hurt, so it's good to think about it before making a decision.
Yes, I have a lot of people in my heart! Others should keep in mind the kindness of others, and at the same time express it, so that their feelings will be enriched.
Happy things are engraved on the stone tablet, sad things are engraved on the sand, and you and others can be happy!
OK... Absolutely, especially for boys, at the stage of flowering... But if you ask yourself if the person you love the most is in your heart, why are you relieved? Isn't that contradictory? Beware of capsizing.
You can allow yourself to pretend to be more than one, but in the end there is only one one who accompanies you, and the love after pretending to be more than one is not perfect, you have to find out what you really like, and really like yourself, as long as you keep pretending to her, so that you will find that whether it is for you or her, this love will only bring you happiness and sweetness!
Some people can, some people can't, bad people can, good people can't.
Trouble, thanks!
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Can a person have two people in his heart at the same time, such a situation should be experienced by everyone, and everyone will be troubled, distressed, and entangled.
Dear, I feel your anxiety, ambivalence, hesitation and dilemma <><
Can you tell us about the relationship between the three of you? How do you get acquainted, how do you get along, how do you communicate?
Can you have two people in your heart at the same time, and your relationship with both of them is important. If one is a lover, one is a relative, or one is a lover, the other is a friend. Then it can be kept in mind at the same time.
It's just that their positions, identities, and priorities are all different.
If both of them are what you like, or like yours, then neither in terms of time, nor space, nor inner capacity can exist at the same time.
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One heart, I don't think it can fit two people.
If one heart can hold two people.
That is, a lot of love is not firm, or not serious.
It can be said that the heart of the flower or something.
To love someone is to give him all love, complete love.
Be single-minded about your loved ones.
Give him joy and happiness.
Only when he feels happy and happy at the same time.
You are the happiest and happiest.
I know this very well.
I used to be that kind of person. Dual-minded.
However, in the end, I chose the person I was willing to protect and give him happiness.
No why, just because I love him.
Give him all my love.
I hope he is happy and we can be happy and happy together.
At the same time, however, the other person may be miserable, but that's the way to go.
If you don't decide sooner, it will hurt all 3 people tremendously.
Better a finger off than always aching.
Don't lose and regret it.
Hope my answer helps you ...
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The first kind of pretending to be two people, they can't give all their hearts to each other, at this time, because they are very dissatisfied with some of the shortcomings of the other party, and there is no way to accept this in many cases, so that they are psychologically uncomfortable, and at this time there is an object that they like more at the same time, so that another love is generated, but at the same time they can't let go of their original intentions, so they give their hearts to two people.
The other is more flowery, now in this society, there are a lot of people who are flowery, and they feel that they have given all their hearts to one person, so they are not happy enough, and they want to have more ambiguity, so as to satisfy their vanity, so that others envy the people around them, which is completely blinded by vanity, so this is also the psychology of flowers.
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Your behavior is really irresponsible to them, I would call this kind of person a scumbag. According to your attitude, I think no one will want to like you by then, after all, our attitude towards scumbags is to kill without mercy. Anyway, your attitude is probably really annoying to many people.
Whether you are a man or a woman, you are sorry for others and for yourself.
If you want to get a sincere love, I think you should calm down and find your other half. Don't always have the hope that you can really hold two women, and then you will die a very ugly death. If you continue like this, you really don't think your life will be guaranteed.
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It can be said that it is a feeling of being incompatible, there are two people in my heart, the same importance, the same inseparable, but the reality is that you have to make a choice, and at this time, you are in a dilemma, because you have a great responsibility for these two people, and you can't bear to hurt either of them, so you fall into the pain of entanglement, you can't extricate yourself, and you can only bear the pain of this choice alone.
In fact, for this situation, there is no need to be entangled at all, and making a decision at the right time is not only responsible for the other party, but also a relief and relaxation for yourself, you don't have to worry about this grinding problem, and you don't need to face a dilemma, so you must make a choice in time.
The other is to ask your heart which one should be chosen, which one is the true feeling, which one is just a temporary freshness, and after a while it will return to the original state, you must listen to your own heart to make a choice, so that is the most effective choice.
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I remember that there was a girl next to me before, her boyfriend was a soldier brother, and they loved each other very much, but everyone knew that being a soldier was risky, and their lives could be in danger anytime and anywhere. In the end, sure enough, the boy died in the line of duty because of a official duty, at first the girl was very painful and decided not to tell it herself, but then she met a person she particularly liked, and she honestly told that person her story, and that person also allowed her to put him in her heart. So it's normal for you to have this in mind.
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I liked a boy for five years because we were very good friends with each other, we knew each other very well, and we couldn't be lovers if we were too familiar. Although we can't be lovers, we have always been connected, no one will ignore anyone, and now we are all studying in different cities, but the care in our hearts has always been there.
Another is my ex, we have been together for a long time, after getting along, I found that we can't be together at all, so, breaking up is something that both people are willing to do, although they broke up, but I still have a little reluctance in my heart, I can't forget the bits and pieces before the two, and I can't forget his kindness to me.
Now I often think of the two of them in my mind, although I care, but it is absolutely impossible to have any connection, maybe there is no sense of separation between us, so I will always have it in my heart.
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3 all like two people at the same time, this is a typical eating bowl and looking at the pot, and it is also a manifestation of flowers. I think you have to change that mentality, or you won't get any of it.
In fact, in our hearts, there is a difference between liking and loving. Because I like someone, that is, in addition to going out to the person I hate, I am willing to associate with this person, and the process of interacting will be very pleasant.
But loving someone is different, loving someone will feel that you miss it very much when you haven't seen each other for a long time, and at the same time you are thinking about whether the other person is also thinking about yourself? When you love someone, you will always be teased by an irrelevant word. Or was poked to tears by unintentional words, causing you to cry silently.
Like someone, you will be very happy when you meet, and you will be free to say something inconsequential, but you will never touch on the topic of love. But loving someone is different, when you love someone, you care about everything he says, and you will analyze whether the other party is also in love with you from every sentence.
Love is giving, and love is also a responsibility, when you love someone, you will feel that all his past is prepared for you, and when you love someone, you will have a distressed feeling about her past. But when I like someone, I don't have this feeling, because her past is just a story, and listening quietly is actually an encouragement to the other party, but there will never be a feeling of distress.
When you love someone, you will often dream of her in your dreams, and you will wake up on time at a certain time in the morning, and then open his circle of friends information to find out if the other party has also dreamed of yourself, and when you love someone, you will reply to her messages in seconds, and when you love someone, you will send messages to each other at the same time.
But when I like someone, I just like it silently in the circle of friends, saying some topics with boundless love, and I will never reply to her information in seconds.
So I think there must be a focus in your heart, one is love, and the other is love. Make the right decision.
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I think that the kind of saying that there are two people in my heart should be that I haven't let go of my ex yet. In the end, it was a relationship with the current one. So let's put two people in my heart, the ex didn't completely get out of his world, but he now likes his current one very much.
This kind of psychology should be quite normal, there are many people who may feel very uncomfortable after breaking up, and they want to fall in love immediately and find another person only to find that they can't forget their ex, but they also have some feelings of liking for their current boyfriend or girlfriend. That's why you can't find a boyfriend right away when you just fall out of love. Injuries will be inflicted on two people.
It's not just the other person who hurts, it's yourself. This is irresponsible to yourself, and even more irresponsible to your current position.
There is also a more bullshitty saying, if there is no lovelorn and then a few girls say that there are two people in their hearts. I also think it's incredible, if you like it, you'll definitely only love one person. Why do you have two in your heart?
This is not an idol drama. It's really the same as the development of idol dramas, if two people chase her at the same time, they pay very much, so they can't let go of these two people.
In fact, liking is one thing, love is another, you may like many people at the same time, but you will only love one person. No matter who it is, there will always be someone in your heart who is the most important in your heart. No one can shake his place in your heart.
So if you think about it this way, it's normal to have two people in your heart.
I have a lot of people in my heart, my dad, my mom, my sister, my brother, and my boyfriend. It's just that they don't carry the same weight in my heart. In my opinion, of course, the family is the most important. The others will be in the back row.
Yes, in people's hearts, there are usually two people who love deeply, but you have to choose one that suits you, be with him, and the other person, be a good friend or a stranger.
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