Feelings are betrayed, impacted, feel through the red dust, desperate, what should I do?

Did he see through the red dust or did he encounter things that were beyond his bearing?

Many people in the world have had this feeling of you, if you really can't deal with it, put it aside, because you are still very fragile now, and you should also accept your vulnerability, or you will never be strong and will never be able to get out of this feeling.

Don't jump to conclusions too early, try to be yourself, keep improving yourself, and the answer you want is in the future!

Calm. Everything has cause and effect, if you are a woman, tell you that he is not the person who buried you in your previous life, if you are a man, she was buried by others in her previous life. So, ta, the decision has already been made, but, on the other side of the world, there is a person who is walking in your direction impartially, perhaps, tonight you are in the restaurant where you eat, you will meet, perhaps, you walk on the street, you meet by chance, as long as you are brave...

How much affection, is it more than family affection, how old is the person, compared to 2012?

Live well and be worthy of those who really care about you.

Life is still very good

Everyone should learn to stand up, be strong, isn't it?

We should be glad that we were not born in an era of war and turmoil、Even today's society is still unstable in many countries、、It is a kind of happiness to be able to worry about feelings、、、

So let's look a little bit away

It's always dark before dawn.

Not illusion, not extinguished.

If you really know your own words, you will understand the other person.

Let love and hate become a passing cloud, coming and going in a hurry, but fate comes and goes, and fate is like water.

See? Easier said than done.

People who have committed suicide have not despaired, you are too pediatric.

The betrayal of feelings it describes means different, it is various, feelings are often the most complex, and it is also the most directly related to a person's small life, big to life, many people can not withstand the betrayal of feelings, the pain it brings can break your heart, real feelings can not withstand betrayal, some people say that love is a game, yes, that is to once betrayed him, the lover left him, it ended like a game, real feelings can not withstand betrayal, it is different from a game, In the game, it doesn't care about the joys and sorrows in the game, it doesn't care if it's unhappy at the end, and the occasion for leaving the game is the same as usual, [I have such a friend by my side, for a girl, I gave up everything in Xuzhou, and despite the opposition of my family, I came to Shanghai to live with her, and there was no 2 months The girl said that she broke up, he didn't believe that the woman would not love him, so he said to the woman I waited for you to come back, and I waited for a year, I knew that the woman was with a man, and he was in the place where the girl worked, He also went to work, just took care of the girl, he also saw that every day the man picked up the person he loved, I went there, I know his feelings, the hateful thing is that the woman found a 40-year-old, no money, and finally one day the girl said I am willing to go back to Xuzhou for you, I thought of this, and finally he waited, but a betrayal made people change, why did God torture him? They stepped on the train back to Xuzhou, I sent them to the train station, 1 hour later the man called **, said that when in Suzhou, the woman got off, called the old man to come to Suzhou to pick her up back to Shanghai, here I think this friend what he feels like, betrayal again and again made him fall, he also returned to Shanghai, until now, still alone in Shanghai, in a year he paid how many girls have moved, to the end is still empty], no matter who the hurt of feelings brings only helplessness and heartache, When you are still enjoying yesterday, good memories, laughter on the street, I feel that the two of us are the happiest in the whole world, sometimes you have not woken up in your sleep, here it is said that you broke up, that moment of tears, heartbreak, pain is all reflected in you, say okay not to break up, the past vows, yesterday's wasteland is like the flower in the water, has become a beautiful reflection, the road that we have walked together before is already a stranger, love is just heartache and happiness, tears and lies, The fusion of beauty and helplessness, the betrayed feelings are the same as the broken glass is the best to mend, there are also cracks, God is such unfair, who doesn't want to have a beautiful love, it teases you like this, let you meet in the dark, love each other in that moment, parting in that helplessness, leaving behind tears, leaving lonely is heartache, often just like this, it's yours is yours, not yours how you can't be, why can't two people who love each other be together, there is always a reason, God let you leave, maybe it has already been arranged, maybe it has also helped you arrange another happiness.

If love expires, please let it go.

If. This love does not belong to you, so please let go of your hand. Love hurts, it hurts so much that I cry, so I choose to let go.

Letting go is a kind of helpless despair, and it hurts to the heart. When the people who once cherished life were about to meet strangers, they suddenly realized: it turned out that what they once thought was eternal, but in fact it was just a meeting in Pingshui.

I once thought that I could hold hands all the way like this, but when I let go, I realized that everything is just the accidental intersection of two parallel lines, when everything disappears, the parallel is still parallel, even if it is not far apart, it is already the end of the world. The price of bravery is to let go of oneself first, admit defeat, accept helplessness, sigh softly, and wish him happiness in the future. Curled up in the corner, waiting for the wound to heal, experiencing the freedom of daring to love, hate, and loss.

The feeling of happiness may only be instantaneous, and after a moment, it is a person's wonderful. In the days after letting go, I will always be unhappy, and I will inexplicably cry for a song, a play, or even a sentence, always feel that the sky is dark, the clouds are gray, and I always feel that I have lost the meaning of life. However, a friend told me

You have nothing to lose, you just go back to the days before you knew him. I am relieved, just like fireworks can't hang in the sky forever, as long as they have been brilliant, why bother with days without fireworks? We are all ordinary Hongchen men and women, unable to earn the love network of love and hate, and unable to escape the whirlpool of love and being loved.

After the heartbreak and sadness, there is endless loneliness. Lonely? Perhaps.

But savoring the chic after loneliness, thinking about the happiness other than him, thinking about no longer having to rack your brains to guess his mind, will you breathe a sigh of relief and feel a little more relaxed? Is it really let go? I can face him calmly, even though there is a faint indescribable sourness in my heart, but I no longer cry, crying because a person's memory is in my heart, and I will not disperse it no matter what.

There was such a song. Are you afraid of loving me? 》：

Are you afraid of loving me, have you forgotten your tears? The heart is waiting for the rain to fall, and the tears have reached the cheeks; Are you afraid of loving me, isn't your heart dead? One step is nothing more than a cliff.

I asked myself again and again, "Am I scared of loving you?" "The answer is yes, I'm afraid, I'm really afraid.

The heart full of holes is so fragile that it can no longer withstand the torture of pain into the bone marrow, so I let you go, and let myself have a way to live, condensing you into a painting, deeply engraved in my mind, looking, thinking, but I will no longer be the person in the painting. You can better appreciate the beauty of the painting when you are outside the painting, isn't it? Shake hands vigorously and say sincerely:

Goodbye, cherish! Turn your head and walk away freely, letting the back be deeply engraved in your mind. When you can recall the moments of your past with a relieved mind, you can appreciate the beauty of letting go.

God let me meet you at the wrong time, and I cried; However, God is fair. Would you cry if, he asked me to leave you at the right time?

Such a thing is.

bai is inevitable in fact, before you know your current zhi boyfriend, you can tell him very frankly.

That's just your past tense, Rong.

It doesn't mean that the present doesn't mean the future, who can not have the past, this formula can be forgiven!

Tell your current boyfriend that you love him and that you have never betrayed him after getting to know him, and if he would rather believe in your ex-boyfriend's provocation than his feelings for you, then, please leave him!

With a clear conscience, as long as you do it, there are no regrets!

Very simple. Betrayal without emotion, how can there be physical betrayal.

If you are directly betrayed physically, remember to insist on giving up.

I can only say: This person is too flowery, not dedicated enough.

Look at yourself. Can you let go of your heart! The key is yourself. Go with your heart.

No, the twisted melon is not sweet, even if it can be reconciled as before, but the wound in the soul can really disappear, it is difficult to do, white lies do not bring happiness, it is better to gather and disperse, long pain is better than short pain.

The feeling of heartache in your heart is right, but the feeling of being betrayed is not. Because she didn't explicitly state that she was your girlfriend. So no matter how much she chats with her ex, you can only sigh.

Judging from her performance, she probably didn't really want to break up at that time. However, after breaking up, I couldn't go back all of a sudden. In an ambiguous period.

Personal advice, confession, so as to be able to redefine your position and your attitude. She vetoed it, and it didn't matter. Then you can wait for her for another half a year, and you have to tell her within this deadline, if you can't get back together with your ex-boyfriend within this half year, then it means that her ex-boyfriend doesn't really care about her wanting to reconcile, but she just hasn't found a more suitable one to talk to you so happily.

So in this case, I hope to give me a chance to see if I'm suitable to be your boyfriend. But hopefully, you can really let go of your ex in your heart. You can't give happiness, the best blessing is to let go.

Of course, if you get back together, then I sincerely bless, and I will completely give up on you to find my own happiness.

We often don't dare to open our mouths to start in the early stage of love, for fear of the end, but in fact, there is no beginning, the end of the **? If it feels appropriate, we will talk about it, no one knows if we can go to the end, only reality will give us the answer. I hope there will be a chance to look for it together. Good luck!!

When you show your attitude, she will give you an attitude. Remember, respect her choices, but also take advantage of the opportunities to succeed. I believe that your sincerity can touch her heart.

This kind of problem, don't give high marks in the future, I hate the problem of high scores. A great pile of water brushed in order to divert ... You don't give high marks and still have people who are enthusiastic.

And then I'll tell you what to do... Get out there before it's too early ... Don't lie down in muddy waters this time... Muddy waters...

I won't say anything more. It's all useless truth... Don't ask ...

Love is a matter of two people, how much you like her and love her is your personal behavior, the more you pay, the more the reality does not reach your imagination, the more sad you will be, for example, if you raise a lion, you take care of it every day, give it all kinds of delicious food, play with it, most of the time is spent on her, as a result, one day it returns to its grassland and lives with other lions. So your heart hurts, but it doesn't hurt so much, it's freer, happier and more yourself.

So your problem is that you care too much about how good you are to her, and you feel that your efforts are not reciprocated, which is unfair, and leads to an imbalance in your mentality. In fact, what you give her is not necessarily what she wants most. So it's still a matter of personality and communication between the two of you.

The two of you are not that compatible. So you need another relationship that is more suitable for you.

Men are cheap, cheap for a while, women are cheap, for a lifetime, some feelings are not what you think you pay, there will be a return, what you express is not clear, jump out of the dead alley, re-examine the position of you and your ex in his heart, maybe you will find the answer, in addition, you can do nothing now, some things are not suitable for putting on the table to say, the next time you find out, let him look at you, after reading nothing, don't ask, don't speak, just get angry, but just don't quarrel with him, don't ask him, sometimes silentIt is the best solution, and it is easy to intensify the contradiction if you talk too much.

I really recommend that you don't give high marks for this kind of question in the future. For those who come for the sake of sharing are different from those who do not receive for the sake of sharing at all.

That. 1. The betrayal and loss of her is definitely not because you are not good enough, not attractive enough, and it will not happen in your other love in the future. It's all because of this girl's case.

That. Second, just listen to your heart, write a letter if you want to, fight if you want to fight, quarrel if you want, drink if you want to drink with your buddies, you can try to control yourself according to the way you like yourself, but it's okay to accidentally lose control, but be sure to pay attention to safety and legal norms. Because falling out of love is painful, but many years later, I look back on it with pride?

Extravagant? Happiness?! Interesting?!

The above four memories appear because there is one thing that must be done, and this thing is very important!

It's very important.

3. We cannot tolerate this kind of thing happening again in our lives. First of all, she will regret it later! Secondly, buddies will definitely be loved by everyone in the future, and the trees will see the flowers bloom.

It's not like it's going to take a lot of work... Pain makes people powerful. The more painful it is, the more you have to think seriously about how you can avoid suffering again in the future.

Pain is the most important time and opportunity for us to grow. Dude, if you don't earn it, take the opportunity to grow what buds, the more painful it is, the more NB, or it will pass with time, 10 years later, if you meet, what?

If this pain can't change you, then don't worry, time will help you get through it, because the pain is really not big. If many people experience pain, if they don't go all out to change and work hard, as long as they think that the pain may appear again in the future, if they can't deeply attract the person they love the most to fall in love with themselves, it is better to die, and it will last for many years, and finally become a miracle. The name of the miracle is effort, and the only motivation behind it is not wanting to go through that painful fear again.