How would a single guy feel at the age of 30?

One is that he has no money, and the other is a career man.

Answer: There are many reasons why men in their thirties are still single, and it is very normal, but there are mainly the following reasons: first, they work and live in the city, and due to economic poverty, life is difficult and they cannot afford to marry; The second is that there is no house or car, although the salary level is okay, but the girl with slightly better conditions is unwilling, and she is not willing to settle, so she can only be single; the third is that the job is stable, the economic conditions are good, and I didn't find a suitable person, so I had to be single; Fourth, the conditions are very good in all aspects, and if you don't want to get married, you want to live a happy and free celibate.

First, a large number of people work very hard before the age of 30 and spend all their time at work, so they don't have time to fall in love. After the age of 30, my career is very stable before I plan to fall in love and start a family.

Second, there are also some boys, but they are unwilling to fall in love because of psychological barriers, so they have been single.

Third, there are also some boys who are always single because girls don't look down on them.

Fourth, there is also a kind of boy who is abandoned by girls, that is, boys who have three wrong views, and their views on life, work, economy, and consumption are not approved by girls.

In many people's opinions, you should get married when you grow up, and if you don't get married all the time, you may be considered to have some shortcomings or some bad habits.

Throughout the ages, there have been many people who yearn for freedom, choose to remain unmarried all their lives, and have always pursued their own dreams. Of course, such a person will also be guessed by others, what is the reason for not getting married? So, when a man is still single after the age of 30, what are the most common reasons?

Don't want to get married. Some people say that "marriage is the grave of love", so there are many people who don't want to get married all their lives, because they don't want to get married, so they will choose not to fall in love, they enjoy their time alone, and they enjoy their time alone, and they enjoy their freedom more.

When they reach their twenties, it is inevitable that someone will introduce them and force them to go on a blind date, but their hearts are resistant, and they don't want to get married from the bottom of their hearts, so they won't choose a blind date. Some people may speculate about the reason why they are still single at the age of 30, maybe it is just because they don't want to get married from the bottom of their hearts.

The reasons why men in their thirties are still worried are: the first family conditions are not good, and the second personality is very eccentric and introverted. Third, there is no self-motivation and no sense of responsibility.

Being single in your thirties is generally your own problem, either you don't want to find it or you have a problem with your financial ability, or your personality, in fact, there are many women in society now who are still very realistic, they know what they want, so when you are a reliable person, he will generally be with you, so don't don't know anything about women, the person in the picture you send is too extreme.

Because of poverty, if you are tall and handsome, you can find it if you are poor, if you are not tall or handsome but you can find it if you are very rich, women like handsome guys, if you can't find a handsome guy with money, if you are not high, you are not handsome and you have no money, women definitely don't want it, they have to be the same as you, handsome is the first requirement, rich can live a rich life and admit it, beautiful women are very sought-after and the competition is fierce unless you are better than other men.

Nowadays, many young people of the Chen family have not married at the age of 30, and there are many reasons: conceptual problems and reluctance to get married. Under financial pressure, he did not dare to get married. Reasons for work, not having a marriage partner, etc.

Conceptual problems, not wanting to get married: Influenced by many wrong views of marriage in society, celibacy is harmed, hedonism is rampant, and people think that they can live faster without marriage. Being alone, without the pressure of life, is absolutely free to do it by itself, thinking of **going**, one person is full and the whole family is not hungry, how many troubles are saved.

In the past, marriage was for a better life, but now you can live a better life if you don't get married, so why get married? In the past, marriage was mostly due to the pressure of parents, and it was passed on to the next generation, but now this concept has fundamentally changed, and parents no longer care so much about these, and they can't control the street talk of some irrelevant people in society, and they can live a chic and happy life alone.

The economic pressure is high and they dare not get married: young people marry late, not because they don't want to get married as soon as possible, but because the economic pressure is too great, and getting married means buying a house and a car, and they have to ask for a large dowry. Organizing a wedding and hosting a banquet requires a large amount of expenses, and under such circumstances, as a young boy, who has just graduated or just started working, it is almost impossible to hope for marriage without the support of his parents.

Normally, I am going to get married, the family conditions are better, relying on the support of my parents, I can barely give a down payment for a house and a loan for a car, however, the living expenses after marriage are getting more and more day by day, and I am getting bigger and bigger day by day, I can't count on my parents forever, the loan has to be repaid, the milk powder has to be bought, and the life cannot be lived.

Work reasons, no one gets married: many people get married late, out of helplessness, due to the work environment and the nature of the work, there are too few people of the opposite sex around, there is no object to fall in love, plus the work is too busy, there is no time to fall in love, there are no friends, where is the marriage partner? In the end, I can only rely on the push of my parents, relatives and friends, and fall in love on a blind date, and I have no choice but to postpone love and marriage.

No one is lonely, and when you are lonely, it depends on how you deal with it. Sometimes I feel lonely, and loneliness is also a kind of enjoyment. Haha

Hello, loneliness has nothing to do with 30, it's just that your life status makes you feel that you are lonely and alive.

No one's life is smooth sailing.

As long as you work hard, it's wonderful!

Be optimistic about anything.

Keep a normal heart.

Life is inevitably about falling and waiting.

Be brave enough to look up.

The sun is always after the storm!

I'll give you advice, can you see it?

Look at the world with another eye, not everyone in this world is very smooth, just look at how you solve it, for example, you were hit by someone when you were walking, others apologized to you, sometimes you still feel very angry, but you didn't expect that the person who hit you was actually more uncomfortable than you, or think about the sentence "Happy is also a day, unhappy is also a day, why not be happy every day".

2.If you think that you are in a bad mood, you will be in a bad mood, then you don't need to think about it, if you still want to, then keep yourself busy, let yourself have no time to think about it, let yourself live every minute to the fullest, and then don't fall in love with the bed after waking up in the morning, get up when you wake up, get busy, open the window, breathe in the fresh morning air, relax your whole body, and let yourself imagine a happy little angel ......

3.Choose a place with fresh air, quiet surroundings, soft light, undisturbed and free movement, and take a position that you feel comfortable in, standing, sitting or lying down.

4.Move some large joints and muscles of the body, the speed should be even and slow when doing it, and the action does not need to have a certain format, as long as you feel the joints let go and the muscles relax.

5.Take a deep breath, inhale slowly and exhale slowly, saying "relax" in your mind whenever you exhale.

6.Focus your attention on some everyday objects. For example, look at a flower, a little candlelight, or anything soft and beautiful, and look closely at its subtleties. Light some spices and inhale the aroma of it.

7.Close your eyes and try to imagine some tranquil and beautiful scenes, such as blue waters, golden sandy beaches, white clouds, mountains and water.

8.Do activities that you enjoy that have nothing to do with the specific things at hand. For example, swimming, taking a hot bath, shopping, listening, watching TV, etc.

9.Life is easy, life is easy, life is not easy. Don't worry, there are a lot of people in this society who are almost like you, but they are all living happily, not everyone can succeed, as long as you work hard to treat everything, take life seriously, as long as you take every day seriously, no matter how your life is, I believe it is wonderful.

Is it personality, looks, or height Mirror Question: What kind of girl is destined to be single?

Clause. 1. The mentality of riding a donkey to find a horse.

This type of man, who has a standard of an ideal partner in their minds, does not cherish the girls around them, always uses the excuse of looking for true love, and keeps changing girlfriends, while the girl who really loves him or has a finger cannot bear the feeling of not being valued only by staying away from him.

Clause. 2. Lack of inner cultivation.

There is a kind of man who looks very dignified on the outside, with suits and leather shoes, leather shirts and shoes polished, giving a very good first impression. But this is not the case when he speaks, they only pay attention to their appearance, thus ignoring their inner knowledge and cultivation, littering on the street, spitting, talking loudly in public, leaving the hotel without turning off the lights and faucets, etc., such a man lacks public morality, and the appearance alone will make people disgusted.

Clause. 3. Too self-righteous.

These people always feel that they have good conditions in all aspects, they easily ignore other people, they always feel that this girl is not worth their affection, they will always feel good about themselves, no matter who is with him, they need to be better for him, this kind of man is too self-centered and self-righteous, which will eventually lead to women leaving.

Clause. Fourth, belittle the former girlfriend.

This type of man likes to belittle their former girlfriend and talk about how their ex-girlfriend loves him and does things for him, always with a smug and smug look. He even said that his first girlfriend committed suicide for him. When a girl hears these words, it can be very uncomfortable.

So there will be as far as it will be, how far away it will be. A man who is extremely disrespectful to his ex-girlfriend, he may not respect any woman, such a man will cause women to stay away.

Clause. 5. Men who like to talk about right and wrong.

A man who criticizes everyone around him all day long, takes pleasure in slandering others every day, likes to tell right and wrong and swagger, talks about gossip specifically, spreads some gossip, exposes other people's privacy, etc., this kind of man will make many people disgusted with him and lack trust in him, and it is difficult for such a man to find a girlfriend. All in all, if a man with the above characteristics is generally difficult to find a girlfriend, because women don't always like men with poor character, they are not self-aware, self-centered, selfish, and there will be no happiness with such a man. Therefore, if you have the above traits, you must change and correct these bad behaviors of yourself, otherwise it will be difficult to find a girlfriend.

There are too many reasons, too specific, and some of them are very strange.

In terms of himself, one is the family background, such as the high wedding bride price, the building and the car, etc., because the family's economic conditions are not enough to support, and no girl is willing to marry him if he can't afford to pay the bride price. There are also obstacles that there are many brothers in the family, the parents earn little money, and the sons get married in a bunch, and the parents can't take care of it.

The second is the psychological effect. For example, if you set certain conditions for yourself, you won't get married if you can't find the girl you like. Or there is a knot, such as having a crush on a certain girl or having an agreement with a certain girl, unless she does not marry.

As a result, he waited until the other party got married before he considered his marriage. It's a pity that some of them don't know that the other party doesn't know that someone is waiting for her.

The third is the problem of character. For example, he has a poor character, is disliked by everyone, and has a bad reputation.

For social reasons, such as gender imbalance, people were vying to have sons in the past few years, resulting in more men and fewer women.

Hate the poor and love the rich. For example, some places pay attention to the bride price, "thousands of purples, thousands of reds, and one green". Some also said that the man's family should have "five smalls": a little father-in-law, a little mother-in-law, a small building, a small car, and a small business.