What to do if you are at a disadvantage in future relationships after talking to a girl not yet con

Updated on psychology 2024-04-18
50 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    Ignore her, hit a ** every three or four days, about once a week or two weeks, don't care about her in everything, so that she will only not cherish you. Occasionally make some little romance, remember, don't spend too much money, just keep it simple, go to the garden when there are few people to pick a flower for her, and then take her hand and see her reaction, at this time she will only have three reactions, one: bow your head and say nothing, but don't refuse you.

    In this way, you will have a show, and in a month or two, you will invite her to dinner and give her flowers, and you can kiss her)

    Two: Therefore, it does not dare to respond to you positively, but it does not refuse to hold your hand. (This is troublesome, it is estimated that your future road will be more difficult, which means that you are the object she likes, but not the Langjun she likes, you are only her candidate now, so she doesn't want to develop too fast with you and affect her to choose others.)

    Keep a little distance from her in the future, so that the hope of being together in the future will be greater, and the more you chase her, the more she will ignore you).

    Three: Pull your hand directly, you may not say you are unwilling, but you must be unhappy in your heart. Actually, it's okay, she has a little feeling for you, but it's not deep, and if you do something out of the ordinary, she will directly psps you. It's better to break it early, so as not to waste everyone's time.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    Friend. Who I have to tell you, this is a game of whoever speaks first and dies first. If you want to take the initiative, you must handle it very well, and you must not get used to it or be left out in the cold!

    This scale is up to you to grasp according to her character. You actually spoke first! Doomed to be at a disadvantage.

    It's only said that it's through your manipulation to take the initiative!

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    It doesn't matter who picks up first, if you keep using this as a standard, how can you live, you like her, she likes you, it's good to live a good life, I wish you happiness!

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    I want to get away with it. You can't help but ignore her, she can't stand it, haha.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Ignore her for a few days, she will take the initiative to find you.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Say you like me, and if he or she says yes, you say I am.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    You promise that she likes you, and you snub her for two days.

    Don't be too enthusiastic about her, just treat her as a normal person.

    See how she reacts.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    Can you guarantee that she likes you very much? Liking is just a little bit of goodwill, and it's not something that can be further developed. Do you want someone to chase you? Or do you not know how to pursue it actively?

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    This status quo actually has nothing to do with it, if you really like her, you will treat her as a goddess for the rest of your life. Of course, you can also talk about your feelings and communicate, otherwise you will suffer for a long time in the future. FYI, don't get angry. I wish you a good mood every day!

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    Don't worry, calm down first, dress up so handsome, I'm dating her! Pay attention to the tone and intonation of your voice! It's very comfortable! Slowly, she will be a bird.

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    You don't have a relationship??? If you have a relationship, you should take the initiative to find her to eat, watch a movie or something, if you haven't already, take the initiative to confess, hoping to help the landlord.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    First of all, I'm talking about you, it's a friend, and it's a spare tire.

    Of course, it may not even be a spare tire, thinking that the girl did not explain your relationship with her, so, at most, it is acquaintance.

    However, it is not excluded that in the future, when the girl is suddenly lonely, she will develop a period with you, so it is very likely that you will go from acquaintance to acquaintance, and then rise to friends, good friends, and then boyfriends.

    Among them, if you don't have a good conversation with her, there is a good chance that another boy she knows will suddenly appear, and at this time, they may also develop into boyfriend and girlfriend.

    After talking for a long time, you may be worse than ambiguous now, thinking that ambiguity is generally hot, and you still think she is cold, which means that you have not yet reached the level of ambiguity, that is, you are barely friends now.

    It can be seen that the girl's attitude towards you is still relatively smooth, on the other hand, she doesn't hate you, but she hasn't fallen in love with you yet.

    You are in a hurry, and you are useful, and you are in love.

    Good luck, I have a lot of bad things to bear. Hope it helps.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    People have said that the QQ that I don't like is blocked, which means that the one who is not blocked is the one who likes it!

    The girl blushes, there's no need to say it, okay brother, I like you, you come and sleep with me!

    Why you!

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    She said that the shield was blocked? Did you see that? Do you believe in duplicity? If she likes you, she will let you take the initiative again and again?? I'll ask you if you're tired.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    Keep it up! Since I didn't block you, then why don't you chase it, at least I still feel a little... Evolve slowly!

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    She doesn't like you, but you don't pester her, the annoying kind, so she wants to be friends with you.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    He didn't block you, which first shows that she doesn't hate you. Since you like her. It's a boy again.,Why don't you take the initiative.,Don't care so much...

    Chat as usual and care about her. After a long time, she feels good about you... Naturally, I like you.

    There is a kind of affection called long-term love.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    There's no drama for the time being, just keep waiting, don't wait if you can't wait! What constellations, you don't have to study them!

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    He doesn't fully believe you yet, but he has a good impression of you. I want to see everywhere with you, pay your sincerity to impress her, I wish you happiness, women, just like this, you have to be moved by heart and action, as long as you persevere, it will blossom and bear fruit.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    Looking at the constellations? It seems useless, you are so stupid, keep chasing, girls are reserved, you definitely have a chance. But remember not to delay your studies.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    It's a tacit acquiescence, you lack manhood, just go up.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    A few men only talk about one woman, then several are spare tires, a man talks about several women, and several women are your spare tires.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    Aries is cold on the outside, hot on the inside, grinning, but delicate, she likes it in her heart, but not necessarily really likes you, likes to be liked by others, and likes to be ambiguous. You're fit to be friends.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    That's to use you as a spare tire...

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    The girl is very reserved, since you are not shielded, it means that she still has a good impression of you, take your time, don't worry, girls are slow heating type, and finally wish you to catch her as soon as possible, be good to her, give her a little surprise,

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    She enjoys the feeling of being pursued, no matter how hard you work and communicate, forget it if it doesn't work.

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-13

    She's embarrassed, which means that she is interesting to you, but she doesn't dare, you have hope. Maybe you just didn't time it right.

  28. Anonymous users2024-01-12

    You just say it's a joke, then laugh at it, the embarrassment is gone, and then wait until she has a crush on you, and then confess it.

  29. Anonymous users2024-01-11

    She has a crush on you, but I don't think that's love, so you can get along with friends and cultivate a relationship first.

  30. Anonymous users2024-01-10

    Just talk to her about what he likes, and go to the beach to relax.

    And take her to buy a lot of things (don't be willing to spend money).

  31. Anonymous users2024-01-09

    As a girl, I have experience, now you are chatting and you feel that she has become cold, in fact, it is because the relationship has become awkward after you confess, the girl doesn't know how to get along, so she uses cold words, I was like this at the beginning, and then the boy has been saying some sweet words and the like, I actually listened to it and felt very happy but couldn't show it, so I deliberately said something cold to you, girls are like this, duplicity, like the process of being chased, so what, you have to die and face down, Say more sweet words and go to him more, hold on for a while, and feel almost the same When the two of you come out, pay attention to the best place where there are fewer people at night, and when you say something to him, he should nod his head and not say anything. Also, the distance is nothing, I have been dating my boyfriend for 3 years, he went to college in Nanjing, I am in Henan University, two years in a different place, only meet during the summer and winter vacations, but our relationship is super good, we contact every night, every holiday I have to go to his house to play and meet his parents, hehe, so the distance is no problem, as long as you work hard, come on! Roar.

  32. Anonymous users2024-01-08

    Be brave and fight for it......Ask her directly....You can also get an answer....

  33. Anonymous users2024-01-07

    Coming and going, hot and cold, it's best to run in slowly.

  34. Anonymous users2024-01-06

    Continue to be good to her, as you would have done.

  35. Anonymous users2024-01-05

    She holding hands with you doesn't necessarily mean accepting your confession, maybe she doesn't want to be so early, you have to respect people.

  36. Anonymous users2024-01-04

    I'll be with you then. It's because she has a feeling of wanting to fall in love.,But you didn't say it in person at that time, be my girlfriend.。。 She doesn't think it's true.

    Right now. It's over. She felt uncomfortable, so she refused.

    In fact, I still have a good impression of you in my heart, otherwise I wouldn't have let you hold hands in the first place.

  37. Anonymous users2024-01-03

    Holding hands doesn't mean that he regards you as the only one, after all, what era is it. Before confessing, you should find out how much she cares about you. And even if you are rejected, you should also look at her attitude of rejection, after all, some girls are still more reserved, don't be disappointed as soon as you are rejected, you can work harder!

    There is also a possibility that since the girl is willing to hold hands with you, it means that she has a good impression of you no matter what she says, but she may not be ready to fall in love, you can try to be a good friend first, care about her in life, and slowly improve the intimacy.

  38. Anonymous users2024-01-02

    A little more than friends, a little less than lovers. Many people like this ambiguous feeling. Hehe.

  39. Anonymous users2024-01-01

    As a girl, I think this girl holding hands with you shows that she definitely doesn't hate you and has some crush on you! If the confession is rejected, it is likely that the girl has thought too much about it (for example, she may not be very satisfied with some aspects of you, or she doesn't know you very well, or the girl still wants to wait to see if there is a more suitable one, and the girl may be more traditional and doesn't want to determine the relationship so early, etc.), in short, the little girl's mind is quite contradictory! Fortunately, you have a good foundation (holding hands), so as long as you are genuinely good to this girl as always, she will always accept you!

    Most girls still like boys who have a good impression of them and persevere! This is my own understanding, and I hope it can help you.

  40. Anonymous users2023-12-31

    Can hold hands with you, proves that she still has a little intention to be with you, if she refuses you, it may be that she is more shy, this type of girl is more embarrassed, as long as you hold on to it one day will move her, and there is a feeling of only pursuing romance, that kind of girl can only call occasionally and do not care. Hehe, see for yourself, what kind of person she is. If you haven't started yet, how will you know it's not suitable, maybe you're running away.

  41. Anonymous users2023-12-30

    It is also the extent that your relationship with her is greater than friendship and less love, she is still hesitating, but since holding hands means that your chance is still great, don't give up, as long as you work hard, you will definitely catch up.

  42. Anonymous users2023-12-29

    Sometimes girls deliberately go around and want to test you. But it's also possible that she really only sees you as a friend, and maybe she only has a little affection.

  43. Anonymous users2023-12-28

    That proves that the girl isn't just holding hands with you.

  44. Anonymous users2023-12-27

    For her, the emotion of being able to hold your hand is not necessarily the same as the emotion you want to hold her hand with.

  45. Anonymous users2023-12-26

    Forehead.. Actually, I'm just a girl, sometimes holding hands with boys is the kind of treating each other as good friends, and sometimes I let boys carry me - but I don't like them, it's hard to guess what every girl thinks.

  46. Anonymous users2023-12-25

    There may be the following:

    1.She doesn't think you know her.

    2.You don't have the confession scene she imagined.

    3.She suddenly doesn't like you anymore.

    4.She's not ready.

    5.Occasion issues (after all, girls are very shy to say).

  47. Anonymous users2023-12-24

    To be honest, there are too many reasons for this, and I hope you can describe them in more detail.

  48. Anonymous users2023-12-23

    Maybe that girl is just a confidant. Maybe she just wants to be ambiguous with you and doesn't want to fall in love with you. She just wants to have someone who can speak from her heart and have a spiritual support, but she is not in a romantic relationship.

    Or maybe she likes you to love her like a brother. Ask clearly, it's better to be plain.

  49. Anonymous users2023-12-22

    Holding hands does not necessarily mean that he agrees to be in a relationship with you. But you already have an advantage. The effort will definitely pay off. Unless he values material things.

  50. Anonymous users2023-12-21

    En · · Because you're misunderstood... Holding hands doesn't necessarily mean that you will accept it... Maybe she's a friend of you.

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