Ladies and gentlemen, what should I do if there is a villain behind me who says bad things in front

Very much in favor of playing !!

The effect of action is far greater than that of thinking!!

Nowadays, many people are cheap, regardless of men and women, they should be allowed to taste the consequences of being villains, and they cannot be indulged.

Your girlfriend is called pedaling two boats......

Why can't you speak ill of him?

Others are talking about some gossip behind their backs, in fact, this is normal, because the tree attracts the wind, and the wood show will destroy it in the forest wind, which is an eternal truth. As a living person, we must not be perfect, there will be some aspects that are not good, this is also clear to us, since there are shortcomings, it cannot be avoided, friends discuss, so this is a normal way of expressing emotions, so I don't think this is unacceptable, unless he is behind his back to manipulate some personal privacy things,MoveGet

Don't count the relationship between people so vividly, sometimes a little confused, can make life happier, as long as you remember that friends only have love and no duty, you can make each other more harmonious, you can reduce the expectation of friends,Because if you don't have expectations, there is no hope, and if you don't have hope, there is no disappointment, it's a good cycle, you help your friend, it's your willing, don't expect your friend to help you in return.

I don't think there's any need to expose it, because the person who says bad things about you behind your back must be the kind of friend who is not very good, so there is no need to guess, anyway, you and him will not become a very close relationship in the future, everyone is playing on the spot.

Don't, if you hear a friend say bad things about you behind your back, although your heart is uncomfortable, but I think it's a good thing to some extent, you should be glad that you hear such bad things now, not that you trust him very much in the future, and then you are said badly or even betrayed you.

It's a bit of a loss to your friend's face if you expose it in person, you can communicate with him privately to clarify the misunderstanding between each other, if it doesn't work, or if he doesn't change it repeatedly, it's okay to expose it directly.

Personally, I think that if my friend is too special, and says that I am not good or bad, and I make things out of nothing, I will definitely expose her, and I will double it back to her.

Personally, I think that this kind of thing depends on the specific situation to decide, if it is the kind of friend who plays particularly well, it is the case, it means that you can't make deep friends, and you can also see that those friends are sincere.

In the office, if you encounter something that says bad things about you behind your back, this kind of thing must first be calm, don't lose your mind because others say bad things, in real life, in the company, many people will choose to say bad things behind their backs for their own interests, and even make some small reports to the leader, this is a common workplace behavior, you don't have to make a fuss when you meet colleagues who say bad things about yourself, when we encounter this matter, the first thing is to calm yourself down, so that you can think calmly and face the problem, Then we can find a solution to the problem, even if it is a righteous gentleman, sometimes, will be interested in discussing the things behind others, say a few words, when you meet others, you will also say your own opinion, if it is not the kind of topic that denigrates you, you can ignore it, for complaints at work, you can also pretend not to know, because in some cases there will inevitably be some disagreements in the work shed, but if you encounter a very excessive discussion, you must collect evidence, and find an appropriate opportunity to fight back later, Find an opportunity to fight back directly, let him regret it, if someone publicly slanders you or insults you, you don't tell him clearly, I am not easy to provoke, the next time the chain encounters this situation, tell him directly, not to give you the meaning of the leader when approving it, if you have an opinion on me directly, if you are an opinion on this decision, you can also say it to me, I can help you react with the leader, there is no need to say these words behind your back, some people will arrange you at will, and the more you show the state of soft persimmons, they will become more intense, So at a critical time, we have to stiffen our waists, don't be afraid, the only fear is the fear of being chewed by the villain behind the back of the tongue, and then the chaos will reach the ears of the leader, which will leave a bad impression on the leader, so we must also have confidence in the leader, only when a person lacks insights, dull mind, he will be easily affected by other people's bad words, for the behavior that seriously affects your reputation, you can let the leader come forward, don't simply believe in the clear self-purification, Sometimes don't let you drown people with a sentence of spit, the wise man dies from rumors, if you don't make the right voice, he is suppressed by the wrong voice, he is the law of the workplace, if you know that someone is saying bad things about you and hurting your interests, personality and interpersonal relationships, you have to fight back, otherwise you won't know how long you will suffer in vain, you can directly tell your leader, the leader hates this kind of behavior at work the most, destroying the team's ability to unite and cooperate, for serious mistakes, We must explain to the leader in private, secondly, to prove ourselves, let the leader believe you, it is best to ask the leader to clarify for you on some occasions, the leader has his own authority, in principle, don't blindly say how innocent you are, you will only say more and more you can't say it clearly, let the leader use his words to clarify for you is the best strategy! Good luck!

Don't lose your mind because of other people's words In real life, in the company, many people will choose to say bad things behind their backs for their own interests, or even make some small reports to the leader. It's a common workplace behavior, and there's no need to make a fuss when a colleague says something bad about you. When we encounter this problem, the first thing is to calm ourselves down, so that we can think calmly and face the problem, and then we can find a solution to the problem.

Even if you are a decent gentleman, sometimes, you will be interested in talking about things behind others, say a few words, and when you meet others, you will also say your own opinions, if it is not the kind of topic that denigrates you, you can ignore it; You can also pretend not to know about complaints at work. Because in some cases, there will inevitably be some disagreements in the work. But if you encounter a lot of excessive discussion, you must collect evidence and find an appropriate opportunity to fight back later.

2. Find an opportunity to fight back directly and make him regret that if someone publicly slanders you or insults you, you must clearly tell him that I am not easy to provoke! The next time you encounter this situation, tell him directly, don't give you the meaning of the leader when you approve, if you have an opinion about me, you can say it directly, if you have an opinion on this decision, you can also say it to me, I can help you react with the leader, there is no need to say these words behind your back. Some people will choreograph you at will, and the more you show the state of "soft persimmon", the more they will become more aggressive, so at critical times, we must be stiff and don't be afraid.

The only fear is the fear of being chewed on the root of the tongue behind the back by the villain, and then reaching the ears of the leader, which will leave a bad impression on the leader. So we must also have faith in our leaders. Only when a person lacks military regret and lacks insight and is dull in mind will he be easily influenced by the "evil words" of others.

3. For behaviors that seriously affect your reputation, you can ask the leader to come forward and not simply believe in the words of the purifier, sometimes you can drown people by spitting stars and the wise die from rumors. If you don't make the right sound, it's suppressed by the wrong sound. It is the law of the workplace.

If you know that someone is saying bad things about you and hurting your interests, personality and relationships, you have to fight back, otherwise, you won't know how long you will suffer in vain.

I have thought that I am a good friend, the experience of saying bad things about me behind my back, this happened in college, he was my roommate, and it was the first person I met since I entered the university, so naturally we became good friends, and when it came to the dormitory, the two of us were separated together because of the similar student number, and we were very happy at the time, during that time we were always inseparable, every day to go to class together, after class will go shopping, that time was very happy, So I've always thought of him as my best friend as well.

During that time, I would tell him everything, even if something happened at home, but this person who I considered my best friend did not expect to say bad things about me behind my back. Once I told him something about what happened in my family, but I didn't expect it to spread in the dormitory, and the dormitory people stared at me very strangely, and then another roommate had a good relationship with me, so he told me about it, and it turned out that he exaggerated what I said and told others, and I felt very angry at that time.

I couldn't believe that my best friend actually said this about me, so from that time on, I gradually distanced myself from him, and then he also found out, and he didn't come to explain anything to me, but played with someone in another dormitory, and every time I met me, I would act as if I didn't see it, and I didn't talk in the dormitory.

So the friendship between universities is really very complicated, and it is not as simple as we think, as long as I am good to you, he will definitely be good to us. I thought it was just difficult to make true friends after I got to society, but I didn't expect it to be like this in college, but fortunately, I didn't lose anything, but because of this experience, I learned a lesson and let me know that even if you have a good relationship, you can't tell each other everything, after all, you don't know what kind of person he really is.

Individuals will, and it is normal to ask others and talk about others, and we will also be talked to by others. Just don't add oil and vinegar.