Troubled Please advise I am troubled and would like some advice.

You have to consider that it is unrealistic for you to fall in love with your former boyfriend so far, he is a man after all, you used to live together, and then you left, he must not be able to bear the loneliness and find another woman. You're not in the country, you know what he's doing. I advise you to take a look after a while, because the relationship will gradually deepen, and the more you love, the weaker your feelings for the other will be, and it will not be too late to decide which one to be with.

Although it is a bit like stepping on two boats, there is no way to do it, it is better to keep a calm mind and develop naturally with them.

There is a first time and a second time, if you still love him, you should believe him, he is a man after all, you used to live together, and then you left, he must not be able to bear the loneliness and find another woman. You're not in the country, you know what he's doing. He can't explain what he has done in China!

Now there is a boy in the United States who is good to you, and if I were in your environment, I would definitely choose this boy in the United States, because he is sincere ...... to you

and the previous boyfriend are separated from each other, and the relationship between the two will slowly fade after a long time.

I'm just an opinion, as for how you choose, it depends on yourself, I hope you will be happy and happy to live every day.

I don't think you should continue with the domestic one, because you eat meals all year round, and suddenly you have a snack, and you feel good, if you, do you go back and continue to eat meals or snacks? As for the latter, you don't deceive, you have anything before you know him, as long as you are good to him in the future, then you are worthy of him.

Usually when making a choice, you should choose what is better for yourself (current performance), as well as some details of performance; Choose whichever is better!

I don't dare to make any comments.

Sometimes it's normal to be lonely, don't be afraid, you have to adjust yourself, it's you who adapt to society, not society who adapts to you, everyone has lonely times. Learn to endure loneliness so that you can mature. There is no bitterness in the bitterness, where is the sweetness in the sweet?

Don't be as fragile as glass, but as transparent as crystal, and since you open your eyes and enjoy the coolness of the wind, don't complain about the tiny grains of sand in the wind. There will be all kinds of people in life, you can't get along with everyone, but one thing is how you treat others, how others will treat you, when others criticize you, even if he is wrong, don't argue first, wait for everyone to calm down and then explain, one of the tricks of communication is to take the initiative. Best wishes!

Do you like to see people laughing? I like people who laugh all the time, so I have to laugh a lot, and I'm also a single parent, so it's good that my mom doesn't gamble, but why should you care about other people's opinions? I think it's a joy to be a teaching material for other people's lives, and how can you live in the world without making mistakes?

Remember the sentence "If people don't make mistakes, they are not cute" and another sentence is "Others will only remember your mistakes but cannot see your efforts", if you continue like this, you will really become a living teaching material for the opposite, and why should you bear the faults of others? Think more about happy things, and do one thing every day to make yourself happy, you have graduated from college, you should be an adult, be more considerate of your parents, have you found a job? (*Hee-hee.......)Work hard, spend more time with your mother, let your mother get out of those hazes, in fact, your mother is hurt more, I never think that mothers must take care of children, we have to be grateful!

I still think your troubles are a bit hypocritical, even if I break my foot now, I have to live happily, this is the life of a person

The dependence of children is very strong, especially in the Chinese nation, and it is the obligation of the elders to care for the next generation. But you're not a kid anymore.

You've graduated from college and are now unemployed at home, and you hope that your parents can help you, but in your current situation, this idea seems to be far away. And you feel that you can't live up to your expectations on your own. Furthermore, you have doubts about your abilities.

This creates annoyance.

If the above is close to the truth, then I will try to give you a prescription:

1. Since the above is or is close to the truth, which reason is found.

2. Love your elders, especially your grandparents. How to do it you should know.

3. Welcome every morning with a sunny attitude.

4. Be kind to everyone and everything you come into contact with. Maybe there's an opportunity. The sky is endless, and everyone is unique.

This will inevitably happen in life, and the ups and downs are only temporary. The more you do that, the more you have to prove it to them, so you have to get a good job, and the more you do it, the more they will step on you. Don't let them look down on you, there are actually many people in this world who love you, but you don't know yourself, you should cheer for them and your future!

Which one is not said behind the back, which one is not said by others, it is common to be criticized or praised by others, and everyone is the same.

Don't care too much about what others think, it's useless to think too much, ask for trouble, or fight for yourself and for the sake of people who are good to you.

Go out and look for a job, being unemployed and staying at home will also be stressful.

Even a small job is a new beginning in life.

Accept yourself and listen to it every night** or cry or actively look for a job can subtly reduce the pressure.