It s been four years of love, how can she easily say break up .

If you take good care of her, how can she lose her temper over trivial things? And the little thing you talked about, is it really a small thing for her??? Strange Boys always like to talk about girls losing their temper because of small things, but they don't know that the little things in their eyes can be used to prove that you will take care of her in the future.

If you don't do well, don't say she's not!

Alas! It must be annoying you! But there's still a little bit of love for you!

Scold! Separate from her for a while! See what she does to you after that?

If it's still not good! She must not like you! Alas, there is no grass at the end of the world!

And must be unrequited love for a flower! Hee-hee.

I just watched a show today It's been 10 years, and there are also people who talk about breaking up.

Love will fade away.

Buddies, there is no grass at the end of the world, girls are everywhere on the street, find another one, brother supports you

Nature! It's a habit to say that you have broken up! If you don't believe me, you agree to break up! See what she does! Once I didn't dare to talk about it all the time!

Hello dear, I'm glad to answer your questions, first of all, I need to understand your relationship with this person, whether Sakura is a close relationship, a friend, or a former colleague, etc. Then, I need to understand what exactly you're trying to say, whether you want to reconnect, if you want to apologize, and so on. Whatever your specific idea is, here are some suggestions that may be helpful:

1.Be honest about your feelings: Express your inner thoughts and feelings instead of focusing on the other person, which can make the other person feel confused or uncomfortable for a while.

For example, "I've always felt that our breakup affected my own growth, and I regret that our relationship didn't end perfectly." ”2.Apologize:

If you feel that the other person has been hurt by your actions, you must apologize and admit your fault. Try to express your apologies in sincere words, such as, "I know I did something that hurt you, I'm sorry now, and I really want to make amends for my mistakes." ”3.

Respect the other person's feelings: No matter what role you play, you should not impose your feelings on the other person, and you should respect the other person's feelings in the same way. For example, "If you don't want to have anything to do with me anymore, I fully understand and will respect your decision."

4.Give the other person time and space: If you decide to reconnect, then make sure you give the other person plenty of space and time to process their feelings.

And don't impose your own needs on the other person. Be respectful of their decisions. In short, the most important thing is to be authentic, honest, respect the other person's feelings and give them plenty of time and space to deal with the hail.

When the scale is tilted, it is not far from the breakup, the relationship is mutual, if one party pays a lot of time for a long time, the other party will take it for granted, and gradually the relationship will be tilted on the scale, and sooner or later they will break up

may have met the one who is more suitable than you (him), I think feelings can't be forced, since you don't love it, you should break up decisively, it's good for everyone.

Therefore, many people will say that if a relationship cannot be married for three years, many people will break up, so the mistake will only be the wrong choice of two people.

After love, I realized whether it was suitable for me.

The ship of friendship is also capsized.

There is no parent who does not love his child.

In order to embarrass the child, the parents who went all the way to the dark and broke through the south wall and did not look back are only in the story.

Realistic parents are willing to wipe their faces for their children, and many parents refuse to bend down all their lives, only a few times, all for their children.

There was such a sailor, tired from wandering outside, and returned to his hometown to return to his roots. He fell in love with a very beautiful girl and often went to tell her stories and amuse her. But when he confessed, he was rejected, on the grounds that he felt that his ears were not very good-looking, and he thought it was incredible, how could it be such a reason, it was ridiculous.

So he went to many friends to lobby to prove that his ears were not ugly, and that many great people had exactly the same ears as him, but the girl still refused. The girl's father couldn't stand the pestering of many people every day, so he went to ask the girl, do you think his ears are really so bad? The girl told the truth, he felt that the sailor was too poor, and that he was going to live in the mountain village for the rest of his life.

She's young, she's beautiful, and she wants to go to the city and live the life of a rich man. The news reached the sailor's ears, and he was in agony.

The ears are not very good-looking, which is a shortcoming that he is most acceptable and cares about the most, and it is not even a shortcoming, no. But poverty is a deep pain in his heart, and he is powerless to change. She chose the issue he didn't care about the most to reject him, thinking that he wasn't bad and didn't want to hurt too much, but that wasn't what she cared about.

Think about what makes them think that the child and you will not be happy, not necessarily because you are not tall enough.

Don't use your worldview. For example, they come to see you, and in your opinion, your home is very warm and impeccable, and in your opinion, it is the best as a home, but in their opinion, how do you cook, my son does it, and the house is taken care of by my son? This girl is chatting with me, what can she do?

Afterwards, you think you had a good chat and think you made a good impression on them, but it's actually bad.

If you want to think that you have a child, you are connected by blood, and you have spent your whole life caring for the child, and there is someone who is going to snatch him, how will you look at her, and your vision must be right.

Marriage is not only a matter of two people, but also a family affair, to be consensual, but also to get the blessing of parents, such a marriage is meaningful, when parents do not agree, the road is more difficult, after so many years, you should be more clear about the reasons why your parents oppose you, so the right medicine to strive for happiness.

His statement is not a reason, just an excuse, so many years of feelings say don't want it, what do you think he thinks? Ask him one last time!

It doesn't matter, it means that he doesn't really love you!

It's really not good, it's still good, the twisted melon is not sweet, and he may have to adapt to it at first, but he won't be happy if he marries into his family without embarrassment, and he may be made difficult by his parents in every way in the future! Be sure to think it through...

I've been talking about it for five years, and I haven't heard of his parents' objections, is it still his excuse?! Think about whether your love is still worth keeping.

That can only show that he doesn't love you wholeheartedly, and his parents will retreat when they oppose it, is he a man? Don't.

Communicate more, talk your mind like your boyfriend and understand his thoughts!

I really can't do it, so I'll lend you a quick knife

It's not easy to deal with your parents' opposition in the future, so let's see what happens in the future and let it be.

The test, it's really useless, I haven't done it for four years, and I was taken away by someone else in two months. When I was with you, maybe I was like that with someone else, I didn't find anything wrong, and I broke up with you to marry someone else. She also changed her mind, there was no need to pay for him.

It's the same as my situation, I still can't let go of each other, it's really painful, I can understand your feelings!

If you don't die, you won't die, live in the moment, and do it and cherish it. What you lose is not necessarily the best, let go of the past and start anew. If she really cares about you, she won't get married and have children in a hurry after just two months of breakup......

Four years? It's better to find someone who wants to marry you than to find someone who only falls in love with yourself! The biggest promise a man can make is, let's get married!

This phenomenon is similar to me! Don't delay yourself! So as not to regret it later! It is highly recommended that you see a psychiatrist! I also saw a psychiatrist to come out of the shadows!

People have a mentality that what they can't get is the best. You and her fell in love and somehow separated, and most of your memories leave good memories with her, so you think she is the best. But she is not necessarily the most suitable person for you, because you have experienced good things with her, not necessarily all of them have experienced quarrels and some unpleasant things, you only see her strengths, and her shortcomings may not be fully revealed in front of you.

And getting along with someone who has been going on for a lifetime can't be beautiful all the time, there are quarrels, there are unpleasantness, and you and her only stay in the beautiful stage of the relationship will end, and you don't see her shortcomings. Like someone Since she is married, just see her happy. Why don't you find you happy?

Let it go, sometimes we have to learn to give up, what do you want to do when everyone is a child's mother?

People even have children, your children are entangled, you are stupid, find a beautiful chat to get married. Don't think about her good, think about her Huai and forget her.

He got married. Don't bother him.

You have no drama, even if you do, it can only be a painful drama for you, let it go, time will dilute everything.

Alas, everything is connected, it is not good to be cheap, and if people leave you, why should it be difficult for themselves.

If you think more about how happy the other person is, you can rest assured that you should live your own life.

Start your life and don't be separated from her. Do you understand.

The child wants to open up and face the reality, there are some who are better than her.

Why bother, why didn't you cherish her if you knew it was like this.

It's that she already has a new love, forget it, life has to go on.

I have to hang myself from a tree.

It's complicated,......Why don't you marry her? Are you poor?