After being confessed by a girl, how to refuse tactfully

Updated on workplace 2024-04-28
8 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    Depending on the person, what kind of character she is, she will refuse in the corresponding way.

    For subtle girls, I don't understand their pretense of love, I can't understand it.

    When you encounter something that is directly expressed to you, you can only refuse directly, and it can be said that you have someone you like.

    Don't have too much contact with them, and don't have the attitude that you can't be a lover and a friend.

    After too much contact with them, they still have illusions.

    It's almost all about to be done on the scene.

    It is impossible not to harm

    But the rejection that wants not to hurt is basically impossible to drop. You can only do a little better with your conscience.

    When others are hurt, it is because they have a bad psychological capacity.

    You just have to have a clear conscience yourself.

    Because rejecting one or two people is uneasy, it is a sign of weakness, but there is no need, there is still a long way to go!

    You can't be afraid to reject others and find an unsuitable person, we can't control others, just be responsible for yourself.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    All you have to do is say we're not suitable.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    Let's just say that I have a girlfriend and love each other very much

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    We just don't fit in.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    1. High emotional intelligence rejects a girl's confession.

    1.Since the other party musters up the courage to confess to you, don't embarrass the other party too much, but the meaning of rejection is still there, for example, you can say that you are a good person, first praise the other party, and then say that I like a friend like you very much, or you can say in a joking tone, are you playing a big adventure, and then say in a joking tone to reject the other party, so that the other party also has steps to go down. 2.

    Friends around you, people who are too familiar with each other, feel that their personalities are incompatible, or that they are not worthy of you, they generally confess to this kind of girl, and after confessing, they will slowly avoid you and stay away from you! Don't be too tough, or you won't even be able to be friends in the end!

    3.Sometimes I don't want to talk about feelings for the time being, but I don't want to explicitly reject the other party, for example, when I just worked hard for my career, I think I can really say to the other party that I like you, but now I can't give you anything, so I don't want to start a relationship so hastily, but the other party must have a deadline, but if you clearly don't like the other party in your heart, you must clearly refuse, so as not to make the other party happy.

    2. How to reject a girl's confession with high emotional intelligence.

    Depending on the occasion, it is often better to refuse privately than in public; There are others, and if they are rejected, it will make the other party feel very shameless. If you really can't avoid the other person, it's best to find an opportunity to explain it to them right afterwards. 2.

    Now friendly, first affirm and then reject Friendly attitude, first give affirmation and then reject, can reduce the other party's feeling of "being denied". 3."Devaluing oneself" is better than "denying others" is not so much:

    3. How to wittily refuse to confess.

    1.Euphemistically express your rejection of him: Do you have a boyfriend? Me: No! Him: I don't have a girlfriend either. Me: Unfortunately, I have a girlfriend.

    2.Pretending to be stupid and refusing"You played me an April Fool's Day game in advance......Hahaha, I'm not fooled."

    3.Clear and unambiguous rejection First, I like you too, you are very good. But there is no love between men and women, and it will never happen in the future.

    Second, I don't want to fall in love for the time being, and my family is under pressure to do so. Third, there is a deeper reason why I don't want to fall in love, there was a person I always liked in the past, she never liked me, but I haven't given up yet. Fourth, if I fall in love with you because you like me, it is irresponsible to you and myself.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    You can say that you are a good friend of mine and I don't want you to be misunderstood. If you don't think the two of you are a good fit, then you don't want to go any further. You can tell her that you have a girl you like and that you two are good friends.

    If you are really not suitable, then you two should not continue, you can directly tell him, I think the two of us are not suitable, we are not the two of us all the way, you can find a better one. You can also tell him that you have a boyfriend, that the two of you are good friends, that the two of you are not a good match, and that you can find a better one.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    Hello dear, it is a pleasure to serve you. If a girl wants to euphemistically refuse a girl's confession, first of all, she must respect and take care of the dignity of the other party. You can say something like:

    Thank you very much for your love of me, and make me feel that the value of my existence is very great. But because there are many aspects of the two of us, which are actually very inappropriate, I know very well what these aspects are, and it is inconvenient to tell you. So please forgive me for not being able to respond to your feelings sometimes.

    I thank you for your love of me, and I hope your future will be brighter. If you say this, it will be easier for the other party to accept it, otherwise, the other party will feel that the friendship is too bad for you, and it is easy to fall into an inferiority complex.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    1. Be direct about your attitude.

    If you really don't like the other person and don't like the other person's misunderstanding of you, you should simply explain that you currently have a boyfriend, or that you admire the other person very much, but you don't like the other person's ......Wait a minute. In general, be very clear and don't give the other person any room for illusions.

    2. Refuse to look at the object.

    Although you don't like the other party, if the other party is a classmate or colleague or friend, the words you refuse at this time can show your attitude, don't talk too hurtful, this is not good for everyone, after all, you will not see you when you look up in the future, and it will be very embarrassing to meet when the time comes.

    3. Appreciate each other and see them as friends.

    If the other party knows that you don't have a boyfriend and has a good impression of the other party, but you are unwilling to put down your body and try to deal with the other party, you might as well directly say that although you appreciate the other party, you hope to be good friends again, and you don't want to change your current life and the relationship between the two. After the other party understands what you mean, they will naturally not be entangled any longer.

    4. Tell the other party that he can't give him what he wants.

    If you feel that you can't have a relationship with the other person and can't go down the path of a couple, you might as well make it clear to the other person, for example, you can belittle yourself and say that you can't give the other person the kind of life they want. Although your rejection will make the other person unhappy, it is better than if you keep dragging your feet.

    5. Let a friend come forward and refuse.

    If you don't like the boy who confesses to you, or even hate the other party a little, there is no need to have too much contact with the other party at this time, you might as well ask some of your better friends to come forward to help you solve this embarrassing and troublesome thing. If you have a good friend, I believe that the other party is also willing to help you.

    6. Moderate refusal with the other party.

    If you don't have any thoughts about this person, you don't like the other person, and you clearly tell the other party that you have no possibility of being a boyfriend and girlfriend at all, and the other party still wants to get close to you, then you must know how to keep a good distance from him, and don't release some ambiguous or easily misunderstood signals, which is likely to make the other party continue to have illusions about you.

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