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Brother, I suggest you give up, the reasons are below:
NO1, people already have boyfriends, why do you bother digging into the corners. Of course, it's normal for you to think this way, but you should bless her.
No2, she said that she had a good impression of you, and wanted to ask how you understood this sentence. Imagine if your friend asked you what you thought of a person, would you say casually: it's okay, it's not bad, etc., but you know very well that the person is not the type you like.
So don't make a fuss, haha.
NO3,The content of the text message shows that she doesn't have a special affection for you。 (Personal feelings).
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Regardless of whether she has a boyfriend or not, as long as a girl knows that someone likes her, she is still happy. The reason why she didn't tell you that she has a boyfriend may be because you haven't made a clear confession to her, no matter how much you hear people around you say that you like her, as long as the person concerned doesn't give a clear answer, who wants to be a peacock? What's more, it's a girl again, and it's a bit reserved.
According to the content of your text messages, she seems to have rejected you euphemistically, indicating that she is not the kind of bad girl who steps on two boats, but she does not seem to be averse to being friends with you. You might as well start with her as a friend now, fate is not clear, what belongs to you will be yours after all, at most it is only a matter of time
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It's so rational and logical, it doesn't mean much to you, at least not yet.
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It's not easy to find a girlfriend these days, why do you want to take away people's beauty, right, not to mention that usually you can only be hurt by yourself.
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I think she's just as confused as you are.
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I read what you wrote, and it felt like she didn't really like you, just when you were just a normal friend.
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Some women want a lot of men to care about her
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Three ways to refuse to confess with three positive views:Talking about him left and right, he directly refused under the pretense of being someone else's hand
1. Take care of him.
When a person expresses love to you, but you don't have any love for him, at this time, in order to take care of the other party's face, it is best to refuse tactfully at this time, and avoid being vague and confused, giving the other party an illusion. At this time, the best way is to use humorous and witty words to say no, such as: I treat you as a brother, don't think about me.
You see, our mobile phone systems are different, so forget it! Such a reply will not hurt the other party's face, but also express one's will, which is a good way to reject others gracefully.
2. Pretending to be someone else's hand.
This pretending to be someone else's hand does not mean that someone else will paraphrase his own meaning, because the more one person knows that you reject him, the more awkward his situation will be. Therefore, this pretending to be someone else's hand is your idea of using someone else to dispel his confession. For example, when the other person is about to confess, you interrupt him and say to him:
I think you and who are more suitable or something; My ideal type is so-and-so; Since I met you, I think you are very good, and I will have a boyfriend in the future, so I must introduce you to each other, etc. In short, let him know that you and him are impossible.
3. Direct refusal.
When someone stalks you even when you don't agree, it's useless to be tactful and indirect, and the easiest and best way is to say no. "I'm sorry, I don't like you, I haven't been disconnected from you out of politeness, which may cause you some misunderstandings. But I'm sorry, I'm not worth it, you deserve better in the future, I wish you happiness! ”
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If it's for her good, refuse it explicitly, and don't leave any hope, so as not to hurt her
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1.Deny yourself
If you simply reject her confession, it will make the relationship between the two people very awkward, and they won't even be friends, and they will be embarrassed when they meet in the future. You can use the reason for denying yourself, "I really want to help you, but I'm really not good at ...... in love.""If you reject a girl's confession with a reason of denying yourself, you can very cleverly avoid hurting others.
2.I'm not entirely sure how I feel right now, and I don't want to rush into a relationship
This sentence can be said to be the most euphemistic and subtle statement of refusal to confess, and it is also the least lethal sentence for the hopeful confessor. But there is still a certain risk in saying this refusal, and people who are too persistent may still have hope in their hearts, and even relentlessly launch a more violent offensive.
3.Actually, I wish I could say that to you, but I can't lie anyway
It may seem a little cruel to respond to someone else's confession with this sentence, but after saying it, it can make the other person directly understand the meaning of your words. There's nothing wrong with a decisive refusal, it's much easier to take a clear stand at the outset than to go around in circles with vague words, and at least not to give someone more disappointment after giving him hope, otherwise you will only hurt him a second time.
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Euphemistically rejecting other people's confessions is a kind of politeness, and it is also a kind of respectful behavior, so you can use the excuse that you are too busy with work and have no time to fall in love, or that you already have a partner, but you just haven't made it public, so that the other party understands your thoughts, and will naturally retreat.
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How to refuse to be confessed by someone you don't like? Respond cleverly with these five sentences, and it will definitely not be embarrassing.
Many people feel at a loss when they are confessed by someone they don't like, and they are afraid that their words will hurt the other party, so they choose to refuse tactfully.
If you have a clear answer, then you should show your purpose. Refuse harshly, don't have the slightest hesitation and soft-heartedness, that will only make the other party feel that they still have a chance, and you still have room for further development. Qi Bi.
Giving one's own emotional respect is the best explanation to the other party. If you are not ruthless, it will only bring more harm to the other party. So what kind of rejection can completely stifle the other party's thoughts?
Respond cleverly with these five sentences, and it will definitely not be embarrassing. 1. "I have no plans to fall in love for the time being."
Find an opportunity to invite the other person to a meal and tell them about your ideals and pursuits. For example, you just want to work your own ability and work hard for your future for a few years, and falling in love will delay too much time, and you don't have this plan for the time being. 2. "You're really nice, but I only treat you as a friend."
Before refusing, you can praise the other person, take care of the other person's face, and then clarify your true feelings. For example: "You're really nice, but you're not my type, I just see you as a friend."
Tell the other person that you cherish your friendship very much, so you care about his feelings, and you don't want to deceive him, and you don't want to hurt each other because of this incident. 3. "I'm not actually your ideal object."
You can put yourself in their shoes and make them realize that you are not a good fit, for example, by telling them your own shortcomings, "I am not actually your ideal partner", and you will not be happy together. 4. "I can't forget my ex-boyfriend."
In everyone's heart, there will be a love wound buried, especially for those who have loved deeply and lost them. You can talk to him about his relationship experience, saying that he still has a lot of nostalgia for the past, and he still hasn't forgotten about that ta, so he doesn't have any thoughts about the present and doesn't want to start a new relationship. 5. "I already have someone I like".
If you are reluctant to compromise on feelings, then the best way to refuse is to tell the other person bluntly, "You already have someone you like", and don't let him have any illusions about you. Let him accept this fact, after all, the relationship is barely coming, and it is impossible for you to be together. Epilogue.
A truly high-level person must be both gentle and ruthless, with both the charm of attracting others and the ability to reject others.
Each of us should face up to our own feelings and bravely express our inner thoughts and feelings, which is the greatest respect for each other and our feelings.
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