I feel very uncomfortable rejecting a girl

Your decision is right, in fact, the feeling that you are giving you now is all an illusion, maybe you think she is cute or simple or pretty. But after living for a long time, there are still many problems to face. Now you shouldn't be stumped by feelings.

It's not that you can't fall in love or anything.,It's just that for people like you who have just stepped into society.,There's too little to know.,Even if you've gone to college.。。 How long will it be true that they will be able to support themselves? So don't think about it, after a good life == your parents' thoughts and practices are actually for your sake ==

She's still so young. Refuse. Without a common topic, no good results are doomed.

I don't think it's suitable either, I'm only 17, I haven't entered the society yet, you're only 22, and I'll have a lot of girls in contact with in the future, so go to work.

I think it's right, she's a little girl at 17 years old, and she's kind of a puppy love at this age (haha).

You're 22 years old in Beijing, so let's stabilize yourself first, and don't rush to find a girl to fall in love, but find a girl with a similar education, have a common language, or wait for her to grow up a little bit and have a little more experience.

Tell you that you made the right decision.

Don't start without results.

Hey, I think it's just right, eh, those people in ancient times were all 12 or 13 years old and married, what is this?

So, if you like it, take advantage of it, maybe your parents will praise you for finding a good daughter-in-law in the future

The children of poor families are in charge of the family at an early age, so it will be fine when your parents get to know her later

What are the mindsets of men after being rejected.

1. Be sad but won't show it.

There are many men in life who may leave very wisely once they are rejected by the other party, and even behave very generously, bless each other, and the back of leaving is also very firm, and they will never look back at you easily. Many men will leave very generously after being rejected, and will not entangle with each other, many people are very responsible, and they are very cautious about their feelings, and they will never start falling in love easily, nor will they be ambiguous casually.

2. The heart is very painful.

There are also many men who will be very painful in their hearts after encountering a woman's rejection, but they will never easily entangle each other, and in the end they can only bear this pain by themselves. Usually after this kind of man is rejected, he will not easily complain to the people around him, they will feel very ashamed, and will often lock themselves in the house and bear the pain alone.

3. Don't give up and wait for the opportunity.

There are some men with more optimistic and open-minded personalities, when they take the initiative to confess but encounter rejection, they will never be too sad, because they firmly believe in their hearts that they will find a way to win the other party's heart. They will not be easily affected by rejection, but silently guard each other's side, lend a helping hand when the other party needs it, comfort and help each other when the girl needs it, and express their feelings with each other again at the right opportunity, and this kind of man is usually easy to gain his true love.

It is also normal for a man to be very painful after being rejected by a man who likes a girl very much. If it's painful, go out and take a break. Shopping and chatting with friends will ease the pain of falling out of love.

After being rejected, don't be too pessimistic, the twisted melon is not sweet. Improve your ability more, be an excellent boy, and believe that you can find someone you love in the future.

It's normal to be rejected, you have to adjust your mentality, don't care too much, you can go out more, meet more friends, and you will find that there are actually a lot of girls.

1. Adjust your mentality and release your mood.

Because confessing that a person is in pain when they are rejected, it is very irresponsible for their own health. It is a fact that we have been rejected and cannot be changed, but we can change our attitude towards this matter and adjust our mood. Don't just pay attention to the person in front of you who you have been thinking about for a long time, there are many people who love your return button and are silently watching you behind your back.

Don't just stare at one person, but open your eyes and reach out to someone who is better than this one.

2. Don't contact the other party again.

If the other party rejects you after you express their hearts, and has a very bad attitude towards you, and all kinds of bad words are resigned, then this kind of person can ignore her. Because this kind of person is not good at dealing with people, even after being with her, you will be in a lower position than her everywhere, and everywhere you feel that everything you do for her envy is deserved, and it is difficult to find your goodness. It's impossible to be very good to you, two people will easily have conflicts, and life will naturally not be pleasant.

There's nothing wrong with liking someone, but you can't like the wrong person. To love someone is also to love with dignity, no one is inseparable from anyone in a person's life, and there is no stipulation who is to serve whom. Life is neither long nor short, and you must live your own posture to live this life in vain.

3. Open the knot in your heart and continue to be friends.

If it's a good friend who has been with you for a long time and the relationship has become awkward because of your confession, you shouldn't give up right away. You can continue to choose to be friends with the other person, but don't reveal that you still have intentions for the other person. It may be that the good old days are gone, but you can reconnect with each other as a normal friend, and she can't refuse your friendship.

If you are not friends with the other party, you can also take the opportunity of confession to let the other party know you and become her friend.

4. Understand your image in the other person's mind and analyze the reasons for failure.

You think you are excellent in the other person's mind, but the other person may not take you seriously at all. The first impression cannot be broken, but you can improve your image in the other person's heart and become the person that the other person likes. Analyze your own shortcomings, the reasons for your failures, whether you are not the type that the other party likes or the other party does not understand you, whether the other party has no feelings for you or your age, wealth and other indicators have not been reached, solve the symptoms, do not deal with it blindly.

5. Turn grief and anger into motivation and enhance personal charm.

A confession failure does not mean that you are useless, after the confession failure, you must adjust your mentality, be more confident, improve yourself through learning, and improve your personal charm. Whether it is the external dress or the internal cultivation temperament, it will add points to yourself and make you more favored by the opposite sex. Confession failure must be self-omission, judging that you are not enough of the other party's standards, not good enough, constantly improve yourself and at the same time learn the skills of getting along with the opposite sex, I believe you will definitely meet someone who appreciates you.

Therefore, after being rejected, you should not stay in this stage of loss, but should rise up, improve yourself, and wait for the right person to appear at the right time with the best attitude.

It's been a bit long, and now it shouldn't be painful, because I didn't get the result I wanted when I guessed it, and the pain was still relatively normal. It's good to wait until you have a new goal to change the void.

Many people have experienced the tragedy of being rejected for confession, but in fact, it is not a big deal, and there is absolutely no need to dwell on it after the confession fails. After the rejection of the confession, the boy should recover his emotions. He doesn't have to pester the other side or ask the other side why.

Because this will only make the girl more and more bored, and the boy should understand and rationally solve it is best. At this time, he doesn't have to bother you more because you need to attract her again. At this moment, you should sort out your emotions and allow yourself to return to your normal daily routine.

You don't have to get caught up in the spiral of rejection. Let the girl see your atmospheric side and your open side, and let the girl have a different opinion of you.

After the rejection of the confession, you should no longer pursue the perfection of the other party, just for the sake of your own rationality for a while. Boys recover their emotions, you need to make yourself stronger, when the girl sees you in a better life, it will arouse a certain curiosity, in this link you don't have to break up with the girl, you can be the other side of the thumb, meaning that you are still there, but can not disturb her every day, let the girl make you the illusion that she does not care, so the girl will have doubts and feel that she cannot catch you. You need to make the most of your strengths and have your own highlights, so that the girl feels that it is not right to reject you, and that the girl has an uncertain state of mind.

You should improve your style, enrich your extracurricular life, and make yourself look better. After all, you can only attract others if you are good. Only a confident and happy boy is more elegant.

The low-level pleasing that has been going on will only greatly reduce the value of your use.

Boys should understand that if they want to pursue perfection to the girl they like, they don't have to use humility as a form of attack and they don't have to try all kinds of warmth to impress her. It is only when boys become better and stronger that they are not afraid of rejection. If you fight back completely, you will become a new person and it will be even more mysterious to the girls.

At this moment, you will once again strive for perfection. Only the pass rate can be improved, and you can get the most perfect love.