I m hurt Please tell me how I can make good friends 5

If you don't take the initiative to communicate, you won't be able to make friends.

As for friends, they rely on themselves to maintain themselves, either with passers-by or friends.

Just like in the back seat with you, find classmates with common hobbies or write articles on the Internet to find friends, you can do it, don't close your social space, otherwise, there is really no way.

Take your time, maybe the friend who should have come hasn't come yet!

Life is such fate.

How many people are in their 20s and 30s before they find their true friends, which is normal It doesn't matter what a person's personality is! A true friend is one who is considerate.

Well. I have good friends online.

But I'm in the same reality.

In fact, the popularity in reality is not very bad. It's about the same as online.

But I don't have good friends.

My former best friend was a very popular person.

It's been a long time since she's been in touch and she's playing with other people.

Then I also like to have dogs. I feel that dogs are very loyal. I love it.

I'm more cheerful at school.

But there was silence at home. Yes.

I like dogs when I see more people, and it's good to have dogs. Dogs are very loyal and trustworthy animals.

People don't do it. In the past, I also had a few people who seemed to me to be good friends and brothers, but later they still parted ways, which was useless, and friends were not much more expensive. It's most useful to make real friends.

Then come and talk to me.

We all wish we could have lifelong friends, but we miss out on a lot of friendships in the process.

In my own experience, I have been deeply impressed by the following regretful friendships: breaking a friendship because of separation, giving up a friendship because of misunderstandings, and losing a friendship because of missing out.

1. A friendship was broken because of separation.

It was very nice to have a playmate as a child. But at that time, I was still young and didn't know what friendship was. If the two of us can be together, we will definitely make a beautiful friendship when we grow up.

But because we were separated from each other and no longer in touch, our friendship was broken, which left me with a lot of regrets.

2. Gave up a friendship because of a misunderstanding.

I had a good relationship with a good friend. However, because of a misunderstanding, a conflict arose between us. ......Neither of us handled it properly, so we parted, and a friendship that should have been made was abandoned.

In retrospect, I felt very sorry. If we had tried to keep it a little longer, we would have been able to continue to be good friends......

3. Lost a friendship because of a miss.

When I was in school, I admired a classmate in my neighboring class and wanted to make friends with him, and we had established a certain relationship.

If we continue like this, we should be able to build friendships. ......However, due to graduation and further education, we missed each other and never kept in touch again, and our friendship was lost because of this.

The above lost friendships have left me with very deep regrets. From this, I also deeply realized that it is difficult to find a confidant and cherish it when I meet a confidant.

Friends should be multi-layered and all-encompassing. This means making many types of friends to meet all your needs. For example:

A friend who can directly state his own mistakes and make mistakes, and carry out criticism; A mentor who can give himself guidance and make himself avoid detours; Friends of the opposite sex who can help each other in learning, comfort each other emotionally, and complement each other in personality; Friends who can help each other in times of crisis and difficulty.

Grasp the criteria for choosing friends. For example, they have common aspirations and interests, noble moral character, can see each other with their hearts, treat each other sincerely, are honest, reliable, and upright, have profound knowledge, and are stronger than themselves in a certain aspect. Since there are very few ideal people who have several conditions at the same time in real life, it is not advisable to pursue perfect people, otherwise it will be difficult to get friends.

1. A true friend, he won't laugh at you when you're making a fool of yourself, he won't look at you coldly when you're in trouble, he won't be jealous of you when you're excellent, and he won't destroy you when you tell him your secrets. When you are sad, he will have sincere words to persuade you, and when you are worried about work, he can accompany you to relieve your boredom. A true friend, only one step worse than a lover, only one level lower than your parents, a true friend who can accompany you through your life until permanent.

2. A true friend, when you are in trouble and listens to you, he will not just listen to jokes as someone else's business. A true friend will try to help you, understand you, and pull you along.

3. True friends, let alone scolding each other, because friends respect each other, even if there are any contradictions, they are held in their hearts, at most they are estranged from the relationship, and they will not be scolded, if you can scold your friends, then you are not real friends.

4. True friends are the first thing you can think of when you are lonely; A real friend is when you call him in the middle of the night, and you don't feel guilty about him; True friends are the ones you lose touch with and look for each other.

5. A true friend is one who doesn't necessarily talk when you're together, but you won't feel embarrassed even if you don't talk. And when you are in trouble, the other party will definitely be the first to reach out to help you, and when you make mistakes, she will criticize you mercilessly, and even make people feel that they don't give you face.

True friendship is based on adherence to principles. When your classmate makes a mistake, you should sincerely raise it with a responsible attitude towards your friends and classmates, and help him (her) enthusiastically, rather than covering him (her); If a friend or classmate has poor grades, you should also enthusiastically help him (her), instead of disliking friends and avoiding friends; If, during the test, your friend gives you a look, meaning that he or she wants you to give him or her an answer, what will you do or ignore it? If you have an awkward relationship with a friend, you should be understanding and tolerant of your friend, instead of pointing at your friend and saying that the other party is wrong.

It is enough to have a truly good friend in this life, and he should be treated as if he were a brother of the same mother.

Friendship, family affection, and love have been the three major emotions in human feelings since ancient times.

Probably everyone in the world wants to have a few good friends.

But the truth is often unsatisfactory - some people, you treat the other party as a good friend, but the other party does not accept your affection; Some people may think of you as a good friend, but you may feel that the other person is not good enough to be your friend.

At the end of the day, making friends isn't just about feelings, it's about skill. Mengzhan believes that no matter who you make friends with, you must do the following two things in order to make a real good friend.

When friends make friends, you must know how to play stupid.

Friends who have watched "Dream of Red Mansions" know that Grandma Liu is just a rural village woman, but after Grandma Liu entered the Grand View Garden, she had a very clever place.

At the banquet in the Grand View Garden, Sister Feng and other nobles always made fun of Grandma Liu.

However, Grandma Liu not only did not get angry, but told a few jokes, which made the people in Jiafu laugh.

This is the cleverness of Grandma Liu: even if she knows that the other party is joking with her, she will pretend to be stupid and not care.

So later, Grandma Liu was able to get a lot of help from Jiafu.

The same is true for friends, you can't help but tell the truth, but you can't tell the whole truth.

As the saying goes, "When you meet someone and say three points, you can't throw away all your heart." ”

When getting along with friends, you must know how to master the scale, and see through it without saying it. Otherwise, no matter how good the relationship is, it will gradually drift apart.

For example, if a friend's troubles are said in public, so that the friend can't get down the steps, then even if the other party doesn't hold a grudge, he will have some opinions in his heart.

Only by taking care of other people's faces can both parties have the possibility of becoming good friends.