How can we forget the past? Why can t I do that?

Maybe you don't have to forget someone so deliberately at all, and when you don't want to remember it anymore, you just forget it inadvertently. The best "punishment" for another person is to be indifferent, to stop caring about the other's life, and the two intersecting straight lines gradually become parallel lines, and neither will affect the other. Thinking of this, you suddenly feel like crying, but you don't know why.

So, you think it's good to be alone, watching a movie alone, you will also be moved by those touching pictures, and the fantasy of a little girl, you are the heroine in the movie......or find a few good sisters and nymphomaniac comments on which boy is handsome and which actor in the movie is the most handsome; Or find a few good buddies to chat ...... the sea in the south and north of the worldAt this time, you suddenly remembered what seemed to be Jesus who said, "Remember that there is no one in this world who is worthy of your crying, and the only person who is worthy of your crying for him will never make you cry." ”…It turns out that the best way to forget a person is not to find another person to replace him, but to learn to cherish himself more well after time turns 18:45:

36 Perhaps there is no need to forget a person so deliberately at all, and when you don't want to remember it anymore, you just forget it inadvertently. The best "punishment" for another person is to be indifferent, to stop caring about the other's life, and the two intersecting straight lines gradually become parallel lines, and neither will affect the other. Thinking of this, you suddenly feel like crying, but you don't know why.

So, you think it's good to be alone, watching a movie alone, you will also be moved by those touching pictures, and the fantasy of a little girl, you are the heroine in the movie......or find a few good sisters and nymphomaniac comments on which boy is handsome and which actor in the movie is the most handsome; Or find a few good buddies to chat ...... the sea in the south and north of the worldAt this time, you suddenly remembered what seemed to be Jesus who said, "Remember that there is no one in this world who is worthy of your crying, and the only person who is worthy of your crying for him will never make you cry." ”…It turns out that the best way to forget a person is not to find another person to replace it, but to learn to cherish yourself more well after time turns.

Because you didn't do it, you were looking for one and you could forget.

Time is the best medicine, as time goes by, everything is no longer as unforgettable as it was at the beginning, adjust your mentality, life is short, youth is limited, you will not have too much time to wait to reminisce and pain, face everything with a normal heart, you will have more energy to face the future! Forgetting is a much deeper memory. Therefore, don't deliberately forget, everyone has their own journey, there will be all kinds of passers-by in the journey, every relationship and every experience is the mark left by life, whether the memories are beautiful or painful, they have already happened, learn to thank everyone in life who has met or parted.

Learning to forget is not easy to do, because many sorrows and shames that cannot be forgotten are unforgettable. Then, we need to treat the problem with a normal heart. Since it happened, it is destined to be irreparable.

When you're crying over missing the sun, you're also missing the stars.

When you're lost and sad, it's best to learn to forget. Don't care about the road under your feet, the scenery ahead is more charming.

If you love him, you can't forget it. If you don't love it, you will naturally forget it. Try to stop loving him.

Or try not to touch and recall the things of 2 people together, go out to play with friends more, read more books, listen to ** or something, and distract yourself. If you break up, you have to go back to your former self-confidence, of course, this is also a new beginning of love, let go of your feelings, don't be often.

It's inevitable to think about it, to think about it once in a while. Over time, you will slowly fade the memory of him. If you really are.

If you love him so much, and it is also your first love, you have to spend a lifetime to forget it and hide your love deep in your heart.

Don't deliberately forget, deliberately forget, will remember deeper, so don't deliberately forget, since you want to forget her, it means that the traces she has left in your heart should be relatively deep, let everything tend to be flat, what to do and what to do, don't let yourself often be alone and think hard, as time goes by, you will slowly forget, and forgetting is not something that can be forgotten by talking about it, but also to see what type of person you belong to, If you are emotional, it is best to find something or activity that can attract your attention to distract your emotional fluctuations; Or go crazy with your best friends and forget about your play. It's best not to listen to any love songs, otherwise you will backfire. You have to face everything by yourself, no one can help you in it, go your own way.

Don't forget it.

Those memories don't just get away because you're deliberate.

Put your mindset right.

To face up to these memories.

Those are just in the past tense.

Now and the future, you don't want a past to be affected.

Those memories will also become your treasure.

At least you won't do unpleasant things in the future.

If you are too deliberate, you will think more and more heavily.

So take it easy.

I think that true forgetting is not to avoid and cover up the pain of the past, let alone simply forget and force joy, but to look directly at the pain and transform the pain. In life, we can't avoid pain, only to face it correctly, treat it rationally, affirm that it should be affirmed in order to negate what should be denied, only in this way can you look at it calmly, let it become a kind of wealth in your life, an experience and memory, a kind of understanding, rather than simply forgetting and abandoning, although we will feel pain at the same time as the experience, but through the grinding of these pains, we have learned how to give up and cherish, know how to choose and bear, understand that we must not escape, indulge or even force joy, Our lives are painful and happy, and they are more fulfilled because of it. If we can solve the painful things well, then our life will be happy, in order to face the past and maintain a normal heart, instead of forcing ourselves to forget, when we learn to give up we know how to cherish, when we learn to choose to choose, when we choose to face us can calmly look at the past, by no means simple forgetting and forgetting.

It's hard to try to forget love. It's even harder to forget the past.

What does it mean to forget? After so many years, when you meet or mention this person by chance, you just smile happily and don't have any distractions in your heart.

But this is very difficult to do, especially when you forget your loved one.

To deliberately forget is to forget. Because I care about whether I still remember, I often remind myself to forget, but in fact, every reminder is to let me remember him at a deeper level. So don't try to forget the person you don't want to forget.

One day, when you don't care if you forget it, you really forget it.

If you can't forget it, bury him and this feeling deep in your own heart, hidden in a place that can't even be reached by the smoke of the city. That's a beautiful place in your heart......

Each of us did not come into this world by our own choice, and we have no right to choose our birth, and certainly not our death. God left this right to Himself. All we can do is choose how we live.

Some people say that life is like a journey, you don't care about the place of departure or the destination, you care about the scenery along the way. I think that's a great thing to say.

But many, many of us seem to have forgotten this, focusing only on goals and results, and not knowing how to enjoy life itself. In order to achieve the so-called goals of life, everything will be done. It took a lifetime of energy, and on the day of death, some people finally achieved their goals, but many more ended in failure.

If you ask them are happy? I can guarantee that no one who says they are happy will feel very tired and tired, and only when they are old will they realize that they have lived in vain all their lives. Why?

Because they are so focused on results that they forget that life is actually the most important thing in life. The process of life is actually the most important thing. As long as you live happily every day, it is more important than anything else.

Sometimes I think about it myself, in another 50 years, 30 years, 10 years, maybe tomorrow, I suddenly leave this world, and then anything that happens in this world will have nothing to do with me, my friends and relatives, I can't see them again and say a word to them, this may be a terrible thing, but this kind of thing will not only happen to me, so I think it is really better to worry about an unknown future than to live every minute of the present, Therefore, I think the meaning of life is to live a wonderful life, to live happily, to experience, to understand, to enjoy, to give, to do what we can.

Life is not complicated, it doesn't matter if you are frustrated and confused for a while, no one's life is smooth sailing, in order to realize your own ideals, pursuits, goals, desires and values, you must remain optimistic and positive when you encounter anything, life will inevitably fall and wait, you must be brave enough to look up, because every day is new.