How can we forget the past? How can we forget the past?

Updated on psychology 2024-03-25
19 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    To deliberately forget is to forget. Because I care about whether I still remember, I often remind myself to forget, but in fact, every reminder is to let me remember him at a deeper level. So don't try to forget the person you don't want to forget.

    One day, when you don't care if you forget it, you really forget it.

    If you can't forget it, bury him and this feeling deep in your own heart, hidden in a place that can't even be reached by the smoke of the city. That's a beautiful place in your heart......What do you think it will be to give up, is it so easy to give up someone, and is it still called true love? Love will make you happy, and thinking of her "him" will be very happy and powerful.

    But you know how you'll feel when you don't get her? Do you feel that the sky is falling, people are tired, and your heart is tired? I'm sure you've encountered it, because I've also encountered it now in trouble, in pain.

    I can understand your feelings. I want to love so much, I give love, but she wants you to give up on her, I said I will, but is it really okay? When I was lonely, when I was lonely, I quietly thought of her, her voice, and every word she said, it was so unforgettable and heart-wrenching.

    I really want to love, but I get a lot of pain, and my body and mind are haggard. Is this called abandonment? Therefore, it is impossible to give up a person you really love, you can only cry and remind yourself that you want to forget, to escape, although you don't want to, you are very unwilling, but what else can you do besides escaping?

    I'm like that now, and I can understand your mood somewhat. If you want to let go, I think the best thing to do is to change your focus. Turn your attention to something else.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    ..Forget. A heart-wrenching question.

    To say that you are completely forgetting the past is deceiving yourself and others, and as long as you have a little bit of something that can be linked to the past, you will not be able to forget the past. Don't run away, it's useless to regret it. Is that right?

    Isn't there a saying that says? You may meet someone in 1 second, fall in love with someone in 1 day, but forget someone in a lifetime. That's love!

    Heh, forget? That's impossible, it's not realistic, and instead of trying to forget, I'd suggest that you use the time you want to forget to do something practical!

    I want to say to you: don't forget anything, don't regret it since you love it. The fate of people is predestined, although you are not together, but there are this good memories, I think it is worth it.

    Let go freely, let him go, God closes a door, you must open a window, maybe what you love is in that window, bravely pursue it.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    The more things you want to forget, the more you remember them, 1. Do what you like to do. Putting yourself into the work you love will make you think less about the past, 2. Remember not to let yourself be idle, don't let your extra time think about the past, 3. Destroy everything that makes you want to go there, don't pity them, 4. Find a place to escape a town.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Eight or nine times out of ten, we should learn to forget the things that don't go well in life.

    Afford to take it, put it down, think more about happy things, put unpleasant things aside, and do something you like. Make yourself a little happier every day.

    When we are in a bad mood, we can try to regulate our emotions in the following three ways.

    Method 1; When you are in a bad mood, use your consciousness to change the topic, or do something else, such as listening. Watch TV. Play. Play chess, go for a walk, etc., to distract yourself. This can lead to emotional relief.

    Method 2; Tell your relatives or close friends about your troubles or even cry, or use pillows, big sandbags, etc. Venting the worries that have accumulated in your heart will also be beneficial to your physical and mental health. However, it is necessary to pay attention to the object, place and occasion of catharsis to avoid harming others.

    Method 3; When you want to get something, or want to do something but it doesn't work, in order to reduce the disappointment in your heart, you can find a proper reason to comfort yourself, which can help you accept the reality in the face of setbacks and maintain a more optimistic attitude.

    Give these methods a try, I hope it will help you. Tears.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    People can't completely forget the past, or forget a certain memory of the past, because such a life is actually imperfect!

    Instead of burying yourself in the shadow of sadness, it is better to come out bravely and face a new life!

    Maybe that beautiful mistake in the past has made you tired now, but you can see it as an experience in life!

    As long as you have passed this time, you can break out of the cocoon and be reborn!

    Everyone will go through this stage to a greater or lesser extent, but everyone's emotional experience is different, and the natural pain is also shallow and deep!

    Don't let the past bury the present, be brave, real girls can transcend everything and rise above the so-called love!

    And you will also meet someone who is really suitable for you, understands you, understands you, and loves you!

    Smile, be kind to yourself a little more every day, and your world will be a better place!

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    Can you really forget the past? I don't believe unless the brain is damaged and amnesiac is lost.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    There's no need to forget about living your own life.

  8. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    It's hard to forget, the only medicine is "time", everyone has a past, and the painful memory is especially profound, because we are really hurt, the pain prompts us to not be able to erase that unbearable memory, all we can do is let time dilute it...

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    Forgetting is a painful act! If you really can't forget it, don't forget to make this past your memory! Since you can't forget it, bury your memories in your heart forever.

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    It's all like that, and the rest goes without saying enough to let time forget. Over time, the emotional pain will slowly fade to that point. You may be able to step out of the past and live in the future

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    Find more meaningful things to do and fill yourself up. And then a very sunny smile, let the person you want to forget see that without him, you can live and will live better. It's good to do what you love with your heart.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    Deliberately forget, you will remember it more deeply, so don't deliberately forget, let everything tend to be dull, what to do, don't let yourself often be alone and think hard, as time goes by, you will slowly forget.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    Time is the best medicine, as time goes by, everything is no longer as unforgettable as it was at the beginning, adjust your mentality, life is short, youth is limited, you will not have too much time to wait to reminisce and pain, face everything with a normal heart, you will have more energy to face the future! Forgetting is a much deeper memory. Therefore, don't deliberately forget, everyone has their own journey, there will be all kinds of passers-by in the journey, every relationship and every experience is the mark left by life, whether the memories are beautiful or painful, they have already happened, learn to thank everyone in life who has met or parted.

    Learning to forget is not easy to do, because many sorrows and shames that cannot be forgotten are unforgettable. Then, we need to treat the problem with a normal heart. Since it happened, it is destined to be irreparable.

    When you're crying over missing the sun, you're also missing the stars.

    When you're lost and sad, it's best to learn to forget. Don't care about the road under your feet, the scenery ahead is more charming. The past is gone, but what is left is the best memory, so why deliberately forget it.

    Although you can't be with him, you have good memories, I believe he will also keep your good memories in his heart forever, loving someone is to make him happy, to make him happy, but the premise of his happiness is that you are happy, are you happy, do what you want to do, happiness and unhappiness are in your heart, and when the time slowly passes, you find your other half, you will put your memories in the bottom of your heart, and bring your blessings to him with the same memories, and let him pass in the pastShort-term heartache is inevitable, but don't let yourself deliberately forget anything, it will be more painful, as long as you think you are happy, you will always be happy!

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    When you put your heart and soul into the present and the future, you forget about the past!

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    Until now, I don't know how much memory can be stored in the human brain, some people say: human memory is stored in a permuted order, when you have a new thing to remember, in the earliest, the first memory will disappear. In this way, one thing pushes another, and one memory replaces another.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    As long as you don't have frustration, no one can forget the past! The reason why you want to forget is because you don't want to face it! In fact, there are some things that just go with the flow and don't force them to do. If you force it, it may backfire!! So go with the flow!!

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    This is often the question that bothers us the most, why force yourself to do what you don't want to do anymore, it's hard to forget, isn't it, don't let us not be so painful When you desperately want to forget, it's actually already in your memory, not to mention, sometimes you don't necessarily like forgetting, so the only thing you can do when you can't have it is not to let yourself forget, and it's not bad to leave good memories for the past.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    How can you forget it so deliberately? Forgetting is to recall the past after a long time and you find that you are calm and loveless! Those things that we will never forget will eventually be forgotten by us in the years that we will never forget!

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    Memories are unforgettable, even if you forget them temporarily, you will still take them out and remember them when you are old, and think about the confused things at the beginning.

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