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This is a criticism of culture, and we have to deal with it very culturally.
Take a look at the object. For criticism of goodness, you should be humble and polite, "thank for criticism, learn from you, please advise more". Criticism of malice is related to human dignity, and it is necessary to see the cultural weakness of the other party, and use a spicy humor to make him blush and blush, but the benefits should not be overdone.
If you don't have a spicy humorous response for a while, look at him with a spicy dissatisfaction, and then firmly distance yourself from him.
Second, look at the occasion. In private occasions, you can compete with malicious injurious people, and you don't have to be obscene and scrupulous. In public, if you are malicious and hurt people, you must not be arrogant or humble, not impatient or impatient, and just make the other party blush and heartbeat.
Third, look at the importance of language. It should be taken lightly, or it should not be laughed off. The emphasis is restricted, and the response is precise and powerful.
Let him say, if a person is educated or uneducated, maybe it really doesn't matter who says it.
What is culture? Is it education, experience, experience? They all seem to be somewhat related, but none of them are necessarily culture. On what is culture, writer Liang Xiaosheng.
Moderator: Bai Yansong.
once said: "Whether a person is educated or not does not depend on how high his education is. People with academic qualifications are not necessarily educated; People who have no academic qualifications are not necessarily uneducated. ”
Masters and celebrities stand at the forefront of life and life, interpreting the connotation of culture, which is conducive to our understanding of the true meaning of culture. Reading a lot of books, having a high diploma, and having no culture are sometimes completely different things.
At the same time, can it be said that only culture has no quality, no cultivation rooted in the heart, self-restraint, and kindness for the sake of others, and no matter how much you read books, you cannot be sure that you are a literate person.
It's not terrible to have no culture, it's terrible to have no quality!
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You can say this: I am not highly educated, but I am highly qualified, better than a nerd with low cultural quality, right?
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Summary. Hello dear.
You can say that you have won awards, you are not talented, and you hope to bear with me.
Or a direct way to say, yes, I am not low in education.
The second one says, "Well, what is this?" There are more people with a higher education level than me, where am I going? If you want to meet a master, I'm not as good as others.
This will detect whether the other person is genuinely complimenting or secretly sarcastic.
If it's a genuine compliment, the other party won't have any negative reaction when they hear you say that.
If it was sarcasm, he might have overreacted.
When others say that they are educated, what should they do? Ask for answers.
Dear, wait a minute, I'll check it out for you
How to reply when others comment on their culture in the circle of friends.
Can you hurry up.
Hello, dear, you can say this, you have won awards, you are not talented, and you hope to bear with me or say directly, yes, I am not low in education. The second one says, "Well, what is this?" There are more people with a higher education level than me, where am I going?
If you want to meet a master, I'm not as good as others. This will detect whether the other person is genuinely complimenting or secretly sarcastic. If it's a genuine compliment, the other party won't have any negative reaction when they hear you say that.
If it was sarcasm, he might have overreacted.
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If your brain is blank due to overstress, and you have an awkward conversation, you can do this.
1. When getting along with girls, try to maintain a sense of needlessness. Don't treat her as the object of your pursuit, as your friend, think about how you and your friend have a pleasant chat, just talk to her.
2. Don't lower your posture. Don't blindly cater to and please girls. An unequal chat is not destined to last long. Overcoming the psychological barrier and being able to chat with girls with a relaxed mind is already half the battle!
If you don't have enough chat skills, read on.
1. Find out the "central idea" in the girl's discourse. For example, if a girl says, "I've had a cold recently, and I'm not feeling well all over my body", what will you do? "Drink more hot water?
This definitely didn't capture the "central idea" of the girl's ruler. At this moment, girls want to vent their emotions, you can say, "Why are you so careless, I'll accompany you to the hospital to have a look, and when the cold is cured, I will take you to a big meal!" "When you are comforted when you are sick and the bad emotions in your heart are vented, girls will naturally have a good impression of you.
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What you say is true, but a high level of education does not necessarily mean that you have a high ability to answer the question, and I will strive to study hard after the book, make up for your shortcomings, and let you all live a good life.
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Summary. Hello, I'm glad for you, say you're uneducated, dear, you can do this, I have culture, but when I met you, I was uneducated.
Hello, I'm glad for you, say you're uneducated, dear, you can do this, I have culture, but when I met you, I was uneducated.
Be gentle and natural, not overly tough or arrogant. Language: Use simple and clear language to express yourself and avoid using overly technical terms and abbreviations.
Pay attention to what the other person has to say and respond: Don't start thinking about what you have to say before you hear what someone else has to say. Listen to each other and respond to each other's opinions, so that both parties can feel understood.
Avoid shouting and balancing emotions and express them as calmly as possible: avoid communicating when you are emotional or impulsive, which can easily deviate from the topic and affect the quality of communication. Emphasis on non-verbal expressions when communicating:
Things like body language and facial expressions are also important parts of communication. Pay attention to your non-verbal expressions, and do not wave your hands indiscriminately, be arrogant and respectful, etc. Appropriately adjust the communication method and communication content:
Different people have different ways of communicating and receiving, and they should appropriately adjust their communication methods and content according to the needs and characteristics of the other party. Respect each other: Respect each other's values, be humble and kind in attitude, and avoid provocative attacks.
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Summary. You can reply to him by smiling in recognition or complimenting him in another way at the same time, just casually, not limited to one situation.
Someone told me that he was highly educated, and I might not be as humorous as him.
You can reply to him by saying that you can smile with your hand in approval, or you can praise the other person in another way when you are suspicious, in short, you can respond randomly, and you don't have to be limited to a certain situation.
If it's me, I'll just go along with him and praise him <>
This kind of person is a bit too arrogant, and it is not good to praise him if he is not obedient.
Forget it, or you can say so<>
replied to him directly: "Your style of speaking, acting, and even scolding is as sharp as my university teacher." <
In this hail void, it means: You are talking about talking, doing things, and scolding, but you don't directly talk about his culture, but in the back, 'as sharp as my university teacher', it already shows that his writing is very slippery, and he can't compare with university teachers? Isn't it?
Reply to him with humor.
Dear, have you learned? <>
I don't think there's anything like that.
It is really very difficult for ordinary people to earn 100,000 yuan a month, because 100,000 yuan may only be earned by ordinary people in a lifetime.
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