Boyfriend doesn t want to go to work? Why doesn t my boyfriend like me going to where he works?

If your boyfriend doesn't have a family property or a company inheritance, he still has to work. I don't know what his education is, how can he find a job, so I really can't see the future, I suggest you think carefully.

Such a boyfriend is unreliable, I advise you to change someone as soon as possible, and don't waste your youth on him.

Such a boyfriend, I think you are about to break up with him, and you are not a little self-motivated, how can this be a good life for two people in the future.

Break up as soon as possible, you can't eat lazy waste, don't ruin your life, he can't give you any protection, you don't even have a sense of security, are you crazy with this kind of garbage.

It's really insecure in this situation, but he may have his own ideas, and you can communicate with her about what kind of job she is looking for. Because it may not be easy for him to find a job, he must do it in a down-to-earth manner to understand whether the job is suitable, communicate more with your boyfriend, and see what plans he has for the future.

This may be a mentality of the other party, so at this time, communicate with the other party well, let the other party work as hard as possible, if you really don't want to work, you can choose to resign.

Even if you have any ideas, then the most important thing is to go to work first, so if you don't like your current job, you can find your own job again at this time, so communicate with the other person at this time.

If you have this idea, why do you want to come back from the army, how good it would be to stay there. As long as you make your own money, there is no shame. It's not to steal, it's not to rob, it's to make money on your own.

There are many reasons,1

He works very hard and doesn't want you to see it, he doesn't want you to worry about him. 2

He talks and laughs with his friends of the opposite sex, afraid that you will be jealous when you see it. 3 He doesn't want to admit to his colleagues or friends that you are his girlfriend.

My advice is not only not to listen to him, but also to break up with him decisively. The reason is very simple, there are often three deadly "risks" hidden in the boyfriend who can say such things, and many women will live miserably once they get married. I'm not alarmist, I'll give you a detailed explanation, and then you decide what you want to do and how you choose.

If your boyfriend doesn't let you go to work, it will not only cut off your "financial route", but also slowly derail you from this society, and you can only rely on him in the end. At that time, you don't have the choice of your own, he can do whatever he wants to you. Moreover, if he does not go to work for a long time and supports his family, he will feel that he has worked hard, and even as you grow old, he slowly dislikes you, thinks that you are a "useless" and "worthless" woman, and begins to be angry with you, throw his face and even do something, you can only endure it.

Because you don't work for a long time, you will become afraid to work, and you can only rely on him to support you. This is the first hazard, controlling your life with "substance" and the fear that arises after you have been out of society for a long time.

The second danger is to cut off your knowledge and connections, especially from the opposite sex and friends, so that you have no vision and no help. Such a boyfriend will stop you when you want to go out, thus imprisoning your heart. Maybe he didn't mean it, but unconsciously, such boyfriends usually have low self-esteem, and some have a love of boasting and superficial machismo.

This kind of person will not have a great future, because the realm is too low and the mood is too narrow. So, hurry up and divide it.

The last point, and the most important reason why I recommend you to break up with him, is that he treats you as his personal belongings. A man who says such a thing not only does not respect you, but also does not really love you. Don't mention the kind of nonsense he talked to me about, he has this kind of thought, and he has mentioned his boyfriend many times, they don't understand what love is, and they don't understand what respect is.

This kind of person often has psychological defects in the process of growing up, it is not that he cannot be redeemed, but you are not a professional psychologist, you can't help him, but it is easy to put yourself in. I suggest that you break up, and as for whether you divide or not, you decide for yourself.