If you re really that good, why are you still single?

Updated on society 2024-04-24
23 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    There are too many reasons for this, some of them are due to their parents, and some are due to each other's own reasons. For example, parents feel that it is too far away and do not agree. If you are looking for someone next to your parents, and there is no one with the same level of spiritual thinking as you, you will feel very painful, and it is better to be single.

    Some people feel that they see through the red dust, and they feel that men are the same, either Ma Bao Man, or Phoenix Man, or Gold Worshipper, or Drifting Girl, Red Dust Girl. It's a problem for them to live by themselves, can two people live together? It's better to be single.

    There are also people who feel that the people around them, they are either getting married or divorced, because of various family and their own reasons, they still feel that it is good to be single, so they may also be born. Therefore, the real relationship really has to go through a lot in order to go on for a long time.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    Some people are really good and excellent, but they are still single, and they are single for two reasons, one is to actively choose to be single, and the other is to be passively single. Like a good person, he chooses to be single because he feels that one person may be better off than two people, especially when he does not meet the right person. They are more avant-garde in their thinking and more transparent in their thinking, so they will choose to prefer lack to abundance.

    And the other part of the excellent people are passively single, because they are too good, which discourages the suitors, so they are left in the end.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    In order not to be ruined by you ...

    Boom Boom BoomPoisonous tongue.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Because some people are really so good, so in the matter of marriage, you must find a person who is equivalent to yourself or better than yourself who is willing to marry or marry, and those who do not meet the conditions will never agree, so they pick and choose, always unsatisfactory, resulting in temporary singleness.

    Hope it helps.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    If you are really that good, why are you still single, it is possible that fate has not arrived, it is possible that you enjoy being single, or it may not be really that good.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    If you're really that nice, why are you still single? I think there are many reasons to choose to be single. One is due to the excessive mental pressure of my work.

    I chose a free and easy life. Not being involved in any interests, let alone being bound by children and husbands, the same is true for men who choose to live single.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    A person's excellence has little to do with whether he is single or not, mainly because fate has not arrived. Excellent people are naturally demanding. And being single doesn't mean he really wants to get married.

    She may enjoy being single, too. We are an era of tolerance and openness. Anything is allowed.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    Reason 1: You always look down on the people around you.

    Both boys and girls, probably from middle school, often complain that their peers are too naïve; When I grow up, I will complain that the opposite sex in my social circle is not good enough.

    You can't look down on ordinary people of the opposite sex, they don't have cool work experience, they don't earn enough, and their families are too mediocre; You feel that the other party is not white and rich enough, gentle and considerate enough, virtuous and interesting.

    When you look up, you will find that there is a good enough group of people who meet your needs for a mate, but they are unlikely to treat you as a real person. Those goddesses and male gods not only inherited good genes, but also spent a lot of time to become relatively perfect people; Even if they have good intentions, compassion, and understanding of the people's suffering, it doesn't mean that they will be with you.

    Reason two: Your fanaticism scares everyone away.

    A friend who met a guy at an event. The boy was polite and polite, but before the two could talk a few words, the boy immediately began to praise the girl and say a lot of sensational and sensual words. My friend was scared to death and wanted to flee on the spot.

    Reason 3: There is not enough face, not enough heart.

    When I went to eat at noon, my friend said, "There is no aesthetic education in our education" and "the only discussion of beauty is how noble and beautiful the sweeping aunt is." Not to mention that we admire "ugly" to the point of madness.

    We believe that the soul is noble, so the appearance does not need to be beautiful, and makeup and love to dress up is superficial; I like to buy good-looking brands, beautiful and high-quality things, and I worship money; You have to like to eat skewers, roadside stalls, and wear clothes for 30 yuan a piece to be politically correct.

    Reason 4: You're really too lazy to be saved.

    Today, with the high development of technology, even if you hide at home every day, you can still live well. You can scroll through Weibo, watch American dramas, play games, and have a dazzling array of undisciplined hardcore anime. Unfortunately, scientists have yet to provide a solution for falling in love at home, so be sure to get out and socialize and find true love.

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    If it's really that good, why is it that being single means freedom, when a person is single, he doesn't have to worry about someone being unhappy and rejecting all overtures of the opposite sex; If you are single, you don't need to sleep late at night because your partner hasn't come home yet, you can sleep whenever you want; You can go where you want to go at any time with your bags on your back, and you don't have to worry about anyone's feelings; You can have a lot of time to do what you want to do, you can learn the five dances, go to self-study, and constantly improve yourself in learning; You don't have to be emotionally involved, no one will touch your emotions, occupy your time, and consume your energy; will not disrupt the stable and orderly life for the sake of one person.

    I'd rather be single than be arrogant and single, rather than be in love. Because if I can't waste my life on the person I like, then I'd rather waste my life on myself, even if I'm one of those people who can't find a partner. I'd rather be alone than settle for love.

    Marriage is the grave of love, and many times, it is better to be arrogantly single than to compromise. Instead of making do with each other, it is better to turn around in a chic manner and forget about each other in the rivers and lakes. In love, you can't learn, you don't meet the right person, and you'd rather be arrogant and single than compromise.

    In this world, anything can be done, only marriage can not be done, because what you want is not a certificate, what you want is a life after marriage, from marriage to old age, you have a full few decades of life, rather than trying to please a person, it is better to be arrogant and single. Rather than lacking, you will definitely get what you want, and if you are hungry, you will regret not being at the beginning.

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    I just feel that life is uncompromising.

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    If a person is really good, he can be single, it doesn't matter whether he gets married or not, maybe it has something to do with his personality, some people don't want to get married, they don't want to get married, they want to live freely.

    I don't want to accept the shackles of marriage, people are this concept, maybe people are also very good, everyone has everyone's ideas, as long as they live happily and happily.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    There are many reasons for being single, one is that I don't want to develop a relationship for the time being, the second is that I have just ended a relationship, the third is that I haven't met the right person, and the fourth is that I will get off the single after preparing for good study and work.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    I think there are many reasons for being single, and it is not excluded that some people are very good, but she just doesn't want to fall in love. The satisfaction of a person's soul does not necessarily depend on sweet words in love. She has her own life, her own hobbies, and he will feel happy when he fights for his dreams, and in this case, his attention may not be on finding a boyfriend or girlfriend to fall in love with.

    Therefore, whether a person is good or bad has no connection with whether he is single or not. There are also some particularly excellent people, who also have particularly excellent objects, because their interests and hobbies are the same, and their lives are mainly based on happiness, and there is no need to care whether they are single or not.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    There are many reasons for being single, not because they are not good, there are many people who choose to be single, it is because they are too good and feel that no one can match his excellence, so they choose to be single. There are also people who choose to be single because they are afraid of the pain and pressure of marriage, in short, it is not because they are not good enough to be single.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    Whether you are single or already have a partner, in fact, it is not necessarily related to your good or not, but he is closely related to your life status and your personality and your comprehensive quality. Of course, the main thing is that you can make money, if you can make money and have a good character, then you are an excellent person, which is recognized by us, so the reason why you are single is that you have no money. When you have enough money, a high enough material foundation and career, then there will be no shortage of partners around you, at least the objective situation is like this, as for whether you can choose whether you are willing to choose, that is your own problem.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    Good and single are not equal. There are many reasons, you may not meet someone you like, or you may feel tired and don't want to fall in love. Therefore, things are not absolute, and can only be analyzed on a case-by-case basis.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    Excellent people are not necessarily single, because excellent people may have very high requirements when choosing a mate, but there are relatively few excellent people, so many excellent people are single, which is a very normal phenomenon.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    I'm coming, if it's really that good, why are you still single? There are many reasons, the first reason is that the economic conditions are not too good, there are some personality problems and the communication skills between men and women are not very strong, and the career is not very successful. Sometimes the emotional intelligence is relatively low, and the communication skills are not very strong when they don't communicate with the other party!

    I hope you have a successful career, you will not be single in the future, strengthen your ability, and your relationship will be successful. Over, thank you for your question! Thank you!

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    If you're really that good, why are you still single?

    Personally, I think that some people are better, have a higher vision, and have stricter requirements for the criteria for choosing a mate, which will lead to being single all the time, and there are many cases of being single, some because of personality, and some because of pickiness, and I can't think that if it's really good, I must not be single!

    So that's all for why you're still single if you're really that good! Hope it helps, hope, thank you!

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    It's because I'm too good, I feel too good, I find someone who is not good, not as good as myself, I am still unwilling, I find someone better than myself, and people are unwilling, so I look for it and leave myself, and I am single.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    There is a saying that is particularly good, excellent people are generally single (haha to find a lofty reason for us to be single). But it's really undeniable. Just look at the single young men and women around us.

    The girl is beautiful and kind-hearted, sometimes cute, sometimes Chinese paper, sometimes cold, sometimes gentle, and various modes can be switched at will. Work conscientiously and responsibly, with outstanding ability. Life is colorful.

    Fitness, cooking, traveling, taking pictures, reading, raising pets, going in and out of various activities to make friends. I lived my life very beautifully.

    The boy is handsome, mature, motivated and responsible, with high EQ and IQ, sometimes humorous, sometimes serious and serious, sometimes gentle and considerate. The hall on the floor also got down to the kitchen, cooked a good dish, took a good photo, and practiced a body of tendon meat. Under the appearance of the real iron bones and real masters, there will also be a soft and delicate heart.

    We wondered how such a single young man and woman could be single. However, the facts tell us that we are really single.

    It's not that we don't want to fall in love, because when we are alone, we don't feel very bad, a person is free, time is free, space is free, we can do whatever we want, we don't have to think about the feelings of another person, we don't have to care so much, although we occasionally feel lonely and cold, but we still feel good alone. When it's better to live alone than 2 people, would you give up such a life? I don't think you will.

    It's not that no one chases us and no one wants us, we are also people who have been in love, okay, and our emotional experience is also very rich.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    Your questions and your conclusions can only show that your ideas are biased. Excellent people are not necessarily in pairs, which is equivalent to Maxima, only ability, no one to discover is not outstanding. I think that being single is the state that a person has to go through in order to achieve a high and better goal.

    Being able to be accompanied by loneliness is sometimes a kind of happiness, and it is a good way to understand and appreciate the essence of life, rather than being busy with people.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    The right person, like-minded, excellent boys or girls, no boyfriend and girlfriend or no one to pursue, may be the three views and mate selection requirements are stricter, the opposite sex can not be satisfied or dare not approach, marriage is not child's play, carefully choose the matching object, it is also reasonable, mate selection conditions are very complex, such as economic foundation, living conditions, temperament, talent, ability, character, character, interest, self-motivation, sense of responsibility, responsible for the family, filial piety to the elders, etc., must be carefully considered, so it is inevitable to miss some marriage, resulting in the appearance of older singles, this is the right of choice of the parties, and others are not allowed to speak.

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