What makes a successful woman, and what makes a successful girl?

A happy woman, whether she is poor or rich, thinks that she is living a good life like this, so she does not need so much money and no good conditions, because she is happy if she is satisfied.

There are happy families. (There is a husband who loves you and you love, a smart son, a well-behaved and beautiful daughter, a kind in-laws, and parents who love you.) ）

Have your own business. (You don't have to be like your husband, you have a successful career, just have an interest, have a spiritual sustenance, don't let your husband feel that you are eliminated.) ）

Have friends of their own. (It doesn't take too much, just three or five sisters, plus a blue-shirted friend.) If you do it, then you are a successful woman, and you are happy. (Bless you with such good fortune, and bless myself.) ）

Study well, even if it's not at the top, but keep working hard. At home, I can do housework, and although I don't do much, I can take care of myself. Although I have no income, I can manage my pocket money well. Very clean and polite.

Self-confidence, self-love, self-esteem, self-improvement and self-reliance, success is first of all for girls to learn to love themselves and then love others, to be financially independent, to live their most beautiful and comfortable posture. Every girl is a princess and a successful girl.

Financially independent, with a good mentality, and assertive.

Recently, I heard a joke from a friend: a woman who says that a successful woman is a woman who is a successful man, and I can't help but laugh dumbly. If you think about it, what if a woman who is a successful man is not happy and unhappy?

If you just keep his money and can't keep his people, you can't even see his figure all day long, and you linger in the workplace, casino, and love scene every day; If the person who guards him can't keep his heart, no young and beautiful girl whose heart belongs to him will be able to pull it back; If she can't even keep his money and only guards the empty shell of her home alone, is she still a successful woman?

A woman's success is not the same as a man's success. A man's success depends on his career, whether he is outstanding, and he usually forgets how to walk, in case he walks because of the support of his waist bag and his waist is straight. A woman's success depends not only on her career, but also on her family and love.

Because the economy is independent, it has the confidence to speak and do things; Satisfied with the warmth and harmony of the family; Because of the nourishment of love, spring will last forever. What I consider to be a successful woman is a woman who is successful in many aspects, and can grasp the weight, adjust the balance, and be comfortable in many efforts. Have fun; Live an easy and happy life; have a warm home, love their husbands, and obedient and motivated children; A woman who is physically and mentally healthy is a successful woman.

First, it is about a woman who can live well without relying on men. Have a job you like and be financially independent. That's all, it's not that all women are required to pursue career success like men.

There is a division of labor between men and women, and women who are too masculine will live unhappy. It is still a patriarchal society, and women do not have to be required to be as competent as men. The world has their support, the family has their protection, why should women be in a hurry?

Women, just have a complete dignity. There is an effort to survive and be herself, not just his. Because it is independent, it is complete.

Second, it is about a woman who has a warm and happy family and a happy life. A home without a woman is not like a home, and a home has the taste of home because of the presence of women. Home is the carrier of love and affection.

There is intimate love between husband and wife and family affection between each other, there is blood related family affection between parents and children, and there is the friendship of a large group of closely related friends in the periphery.

Happiness is to hold your hand and walk with you no matter the ups and downs. A successful woman must be a happy woman. Simple life, work, home, nothing else.

Honoring one's parents; communicate well with her husband and children, get along well, and be happy; Be loyal to love and be conscientious to the family; Know how to love others and yourself, know how to be content, know how to cherish, and know how to give is to get.

In fact, we are ordinary people and are destined to be ordinary lives. However, as long as we have worked hard and tried our best to fulfill our responsibilities and obligations as best as possible, and maximize our abilities, you are a successful woman.

The world is too complex, and we define success more and more. If you ask me, what kind of woman is successful?

I would say that female stars are certainly successful, they have first-class acting ability, they have a face that makes people feel like they will never get old, they are glamorous on stage, and they will always have a large number of crazy fans for them.

Female entrepreneurs can also be regarded as successful, in this era of still gender discrimination, they work alone in the business world, and finally defeat the man who once mocked them, for themselves to fight for a piece of the world, to achieve economic independence, it is not easy.

Of course, success also belongs to female politicians, female academics.

However, these people are too successful and radiant, and there are very few people as good as them in life. Using them to argue the definition of success always feels ungrounded.

So, I want to argue success in terms of traits. I believe that a woman, as long as she has the qualities of independence and perseverance, should be considered successful.

My mother is an independent, strong, and persistent woman. When she was young, her family was very well-off, but in that era of hardship and lack of food and clothing, her family was able to have food and clothing, and even very luxurious. However, when the mother got married, the family changed, and the pillar of the family died suddenly, leaving the family old and young.

The right is gone, and it is natural that she will be despised by those who have stepped on the threshold of her family. Coupled with the fact that my mother married my poor father, the standard of living simply fell from heaven to the bottom.

In addition to the hardships of life, she also had to endure the despise of the villagers. Families without boys are generally ridiculed by outsiders, not to mention that she insists on letting her daughters study, and is even more neglected by the villagers.

However, her mother, who had been pampered since childhood, was not crushed by the setbacks in front of her, and after being sad, she chose to be strong and optimistic. She regards all difficulties as a passing moment and insists on living every day. She had never done farm work, and she actually began to go to the field to harvest wheat and corn, and her hands were all calloused.

She never knew how to save before, and she spent a lot of money, and she began to be thrifty, doing needlework, sewing and mending, and subsidizing her family.

She maintains an independent personality, and although she is poor, she pays attention to the quality of life. As children, the clothes we sisters wore were the cleanest and most beautiful in the village. She also never participates in the conversation of the long-tongued women in the village, never follows the crowd, but quietly does what she wants to do most.

Now my mother, although she is getting older, has wrinkles and gray hair. However, people who met her said that she was very temperamental. Temperament should be given by her persistence, independence, and strong characteristics. I think that such a woman is successful.

Good health, good figure, good looks, money and status, relatives, if married, it is the love of husband and wife, and the children are healthy and smart. That's perfect.

At home, the husband coaxes the lover to raise it outside.

What is your concept of success?