What is considered a woman, a woman, what is a woman ?

What makes a good woman? There has been no set standard for this. In the past, a woman was virtuous if she was not talented; Secondly, we should respect our husbands and filial piety to our mothers, and be busy with housework all day long.

Today, the standard of a good woman has certainly changed. A woman can at least be independent and not have to be completely dependent on the family and her husband. But should a good woman be a successful workaholic like a strong man?

It doesn't seem to be. At least in the eyes of men, women like workaholics are not favored. In the eyes of many men, women must first be "good-looking", one beauty covers all ugliness, as long as they are beautiful, they have at least half of the "good"; Secondly, you have to be gentle and considerate, able to share worries and sorrows for men, and be single-minded and never change your heart.

Attentive, perceptive, and able to think through some of the signs you have revealed. When she is happy, she will share with you, and when there is something unspeakable, she can find out from your gestures and comfort you. Smart and virtuous, when you encounter something difficult to decide, she will tell you a series of references.

She is your assistant and opens your mind. She is not the kind of person who attracts bees and butterflies, she does not pursue a luxurious life, but she knows how to dress herself up to be pleasant to the eye, and her decent words and deeds will also make you comfortable!

Think about everything for the sake of your husband, be filial to your family, don't get angry and blame him for her husband's mistakes, you should solve the problem with her, you will cook a good dish, and control your husband's stomach! Helping my husband wash his clothes and ironing them, and the housework is done brilliantly! Don't want to be a strong woman, just want to be a woman who makes her husband can't live without you.

First kindness, then self-love, then self-confidence, and finally ability.

Why not looks?

Because everyone's aesthetic perception of appearance is different, but the above four are the same.

What do you think? It would be too vulgar to conclude that a person is beautiful or ugly based on his appearance alone.

What makes a happy woman? I have a warm house, a car, a satisfied husband, a smooth job, and a pair of enlightened in-laws.

**。Charming.

Considerate. Good temper.

Think about everything. Gentle.

The main thing is that you have to love her.

Any bad she does in your heart will turn out to be good.

Gentle, considerate, and considerate. You must know how to restrain your temper and be willful occasionally.

In a nutshell, women evolved from girls.

It can also be said that he did that kind of thing.

It's supposed to be a woman.!...

I hurt my boyfriend.

Good for him. Care for him.

Take care of him. Don't hide anything.

The most important thing is self-love and self-esteem, and then there is the inner cultivation and temperament of the individual.

Only those who can go up to the hall and down to the kitchen are considered good women.

Obey the law and cross the street without running a red light!

Blessed to share. There are difficulties together. That's enough.

Be careful and good to your husband.

A few friends ate together and talked about their impressions of each other.

One of my friends said that I had the boldness and heroism of a man, and I listened and laughed heartily. In my mind, it's a compliment. My friend said that it was a pity that it was rotten or less feminine.

I still laughed heartily, yes, I admit, I was not gentle enough, and over the years, I have lived a rough life, and I am not very particular about dressing. My friend continued to say that it was not good to listen to, hehe, don't mind, it's a little sloppy. I couldn't get up this time, smiled and nodded yes.

My friend's words reminded me of a sentence that my ex-husband yelled at me that made me feel very sad: "You are not a woman, are women like you?" At that time, that sentence made me angry and sad for a long time.

However, my friend's words did not arouse my emotions in the slightest, but made me start to reflect: how have I been a woman all these years? I'm a woman, qualified?

Obviously, I have all the gender characteristics of a woman, but what about the other aspects?

Life. I don't wear much makeup, I don't do much skincare. I don't like to cook.

I don't like to tidy up the house. I don't like to play with flowers and plants. However, here comes the interest.

I also put on a light makeup. I also make the dishes I want to eat with great interest. Tidy up the room, and it is not ambiguous.

I also like to see beautiful flowers on my desk. Is it to make what I don't do a normal thing to be considered hand-held, and to do what a woman should do?

Career. I thought about it and found myself trying too hard. Teacher, Tourism, Entrepreneurship ......It seems that he is all about his career.

The good ideas that came up with my mind kept spinning, the ideas I came up with, the various plans and so on, all seemed to be career-oriented. As for how to make children eat better, go to ** buy daily necessities cheaply, which beauty salon has a greater discount and so on, and rarely think of it. Are men the only ones who should spend most of their time on their careers?

I don't know, I really don't know. Perhaps, a different way of life and a different mindset can make me a woman with a feminine taste in mainstream values. But, in that case, am I still me? How unique am I to be? Would I like that to myself?

I was thinking, looking for an answer that satisfied me ......

Girls are generally very good, you have to ask me how to count, that's too much, for example, when you are with your boyfriend, you flirt with other men, for example, your boyfriend asks you to go to dinner, you say that you are shopping with your girlfriend, and for example, your boyfriend gives you a gift, and you throw it away, these are all things that men can't bear.

Girls sometimes show a very willful, self-centered, inconsiderate of each other, put on a princess shelf, and even deliberately coquettish and cute when the other party is very embarrassed, without seriously considering the consequences and the feelings of others, these behaviors are all doing.

There is no bottom line, unreasonable nonsense, even if it is done, no matter what you have done wrong, but you don't admit your mistakes, you never consider others when you encounter things, only consider your own interests, it can be regarded as doing!

One set is bright and one is dark, she is a perfect person in front of the person she likes, and she is a vicious woman in front of others.

Being arrogant, unreasonable, too self-conscious, unsightly, impolite, these are all manifestations of work.

It's just too willful, too rude, doesn't know how to respect people, and is abusive.

01 Many boys can't stand girls who are too much, and many girls lose their love.

This is our impression of girls.

In reality, whether it is a boy or a girl, as long as they are caught in a relationship, they will do it more or less, but the degree is different. This is something we have to learn to accept before starting a relationship.

Moreover, if the girl you meet, although she does it, but she knows how to do it, knows when to do it, when not to do it, and knows how to express her thoughts in moderation, then you will definitely feel that it is a very beautiful thing to have her.

02 Why do girls do it, in fact, this is a way of expression for her. She has a mind in her heart and wants you to know. So she chose to do it this way, to let you know that she has a mind in her heart.

I remember my friend Amu dating a girl, and when that girl was in a relationship with him, she would do it. He chatted happily with other girls, and she would be unhappy when he snubbed her for playing games, and then he made a deliberate choking on his words.

He was very anxious but didn't know how to do it, looking at his impatient but helpless look, she still couldn't help but tell him the reason. Then let him reflect on it and come back to her in a day, because she is still unhappy because she did.

In this way, although they stumbled, their relationship was surprisingly good. Although they broke up in the end because of their personality, he was very grateful to her, and although she did it, she would tell him why she did it.

She taught me how to get to know girls, she taught me how to interact with girls, he said.

03 A girl who can do it, she will know why she can do it, and she will know how far she should do it.

The reason why he did it was because he did something that made him unhappy. Your actions are a manifestation of your own bad mood, and your actions are to let him know that you are unhappy, so that he can understand that he is wrong.

If he doesn't understand, you get angrier, and then you do it again, and you deal with it as a dead end, and that's not what you want, right?

At this time, take a step back, like Amu's girlfriend, explain things clearly, continue to do it for a while, and reconcile the next day, such a result is what both of you want to see.

Sometimes boys are very strange, and girls don't do it, so they say it's not interesting; The girl overdid it, and said that she couldn't stand it. But if you fall in love with a girl like Amu's girlfriend, the boys will definitely feel that they will not be bad enough.

04 We are all blind in our relationships, and it is rare to see people who can carry a little rationality in their sensibility. When you meet this kind of person, you must cherish it.

In my opinion, if the relationship is to last for a long time, one of them can be heartless, but the other person must be clear, and cannot also be blind. This kind of relationship is a good relationship.

A girlfriend can do it, which is of course a good thing, which shows that she knows how to do it; But if she can only do it, then don't be afraid that your relationship will end soon, as long as you can carry it and accept her, it's fine.

For making this concept.

It depends on how you understand it.

Personally, I think. If this matter has been settled well.

But it's still constantly tangled.

This situation can be understood as a work.

The importance of the other party is not recognized.

Constant nagging.

It can be understood as a ......

Every girl can do it, some girls can do it, some girls won't do it, and girls who can't do it are, to put it bluntly, unreasonable willfulness. Therefore, every girl should have a ruler in her heart, measure the degree of "doing", and boys sometimes like girls who are small, only in this way will men feel that it is a mood.

Girls are not learned, they are influenced by the environment, girls with good family background and good conditions can develop a young lady's temper, and they can lose their temper for no reason, take other people's shortcomings as a laughing point, and look down on the people around them.

Girls don't do what they can, they don't know how to cherish what they get, and sometimes they deliberately play a little temper, and their hearts are higher than the sky, which is what girls are doing.

Unreasonable and does not give face to men. Special willfulness, want to be a play. If you don't meet her, you will be troubled. No matter what you do, you are self-centered and don't think about others.

For example, if a girl is scratched while she falls while running, the pretentious girl will cry in front of the boy and shed tears and say that she is in pain. It doesn't show it to the same sex.

Whether a girl does it or not depends on how acceptable the other party is, and if the other party accepts it well, then it is not because of the state of the girl. Most people have a tolerance. If the tolerance is low, if the girl is often unreasonable, it will be because of a lot, these people with a high degree of tolerance.

I can't stand it even if I reach a certain level. Therefore, whether a girl does it or not depends on his ordinariness and reasonableness. If it's a little bit of a fuss, it doesn't matter.

Well, its practical old name can also be expressed, such as shrew.

This is impossible, some emotions are uncontrollable, if some ordinary things will not be expressed, it can be divided into two kinds, loyal people can be said to be calm, because they do not like things and do not grieve themselves, gains and losses only smile in the heart, and will not cause trouble or boredom to others. A smart person can only say that his scheming is a bit heavy, because he calculates too much, and the results rarely surprise him, so there is nothing to make him emotionally turbulent.

The so-called work means that this person does not cherish the existing superior conditions, is very willful all day long, acts recklessly, and even makes irreparable mistakes, resulting in no way to deal with the consequences of what happens, and finally puts himself into it, and loses everything he originally had.

Love attracts attention, talking too much is not according to common sense, hair, etc., everyone's opinion is different.

How does a girl count? Girls are generally kind, honest, honest, sincere, prudent, diligent, and diligent.

is unreasonable, self-centered and does not consider the feelings of others, and once the other party behaves unfavorably, he will make trouble.

Flowers have a reblooming day, and no one is young. Don't joke about yourself, don't gamble, and don't do anything after that.

Girls have their own beliefs, and this aspect is the most serious.

Even if it's okay, I'll find a mess with you, one cry, two trouble, and three hanging.

I don't have a good life, I hook up outside, I don't look for a proper job, I am a fool in a dance hall and a bar, I spend the night with you today and him tomorrow, I smoke and drink too much and spoil myself.

She has a good figure, kind and good-looking, she has the ability to win the snow, her eyes are like a pool of clear water, and when she looks forward to it, she has an elegant and elegant temperament, and there are beautiful people in the north, peerless and independent. One look at the city, and then look at the country.