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In the end, it just doesn't love enough or hasn't loved at all.
If you really love your girlfriend, there is no such thing as "enough love".
The so-called "no novelty" is just an excuse for subconscious thoughts [to break up].
We will gradually forget our commitments, and care more about new feelings, new feelings of liking someone, but this feeling is bottomless.
We only care about our own feelings, we pursue the so-called "freshness", and we will always fall in love with different people.
But love shouldn't be like this, love is management, perseverance, and endurance.
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Hello, it means that you don't like your girlfriend, you don't care about him, you don't have a girlfriend's place in your psychology, you will like others, I hope you can.
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If you really don't like it anymore and there is no novelty, then tell the girl, so as not to waste the girl's youth.
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Your transformation is too fast, it means that you don't care about her at all, so let's let her go quickly.
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Live separately, ask your girlfriend to change her style from beginning to end, dress up, and create more romantic space.
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You and I don't love each other, my wife and I have been in love for seven years, and it's still the same as falling in love, people who don't know think we're still in love.
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If you're together because of the novelty, then you'd better go apart! If you still want to be with each other after the novelty is gone, then cherish it. Sometimes it's good to be bland.
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All I can say is that with anyone you go through a dull experience. Freshness can be created on its own.
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Find out more about his strengths and less about her shortcomings.
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After being together for so long, I still want novelty, and if I want to change girlfriends, just say it.
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Give each other a chance to get to know each other anew.
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There's nothing new after being together.
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I think you can try to communicate this problem with your girlfriend, and both of you think about a solution, because if you have nothing in common, it is equal to no intersection, and if there is no intersection, it is equivalent to not being able to promote the relationship, so after a long time, it is not a matter of freshness, but the relationship between the two of you will become weaker and weaker, and you will be stranger than strangers when chatting. So I suggest you talk to your girlfriend about the current situation of the relationship and see if your girlfriend wants to change this status quo.
If your girlfriend doesn't want to change the situation, or you can feel that she is deliberately contributing to this situation, then you can ask her directly if she wants to continue the relationship. What is the status quo that is intentionally contributing? For example, she doesn't communicate with you, she separates her life from you, and she doesn't find topics with you, because most people will only do this to strangers.
So in this case, you should talk to your girlfriend about whether you want to break up or not.
If your girlfriend also wants to change this status quo, then you can think of a way with your girlfriend to make the two people's lives intersect a little more, as long as there are more intersections in life, you don't have to worry that there will be no new topics between you. In addition, you can try to get to know each other better, for example, you can have a most ordinary date, the date is about watching a movie and eating, and when you choose a movie, you can know what type of movie she likes to watch, and the same is true for eating, maybe you can find something in common with your girlfriend.
In addition, I think you can take the initiative to share your life, share the bits and pieces of your life, tell her interesting things, things that ruin the three views, and things that everyone can complain about together. As soon as you have a beginning, your girlfriend will gradually share her life, because it will be more interesting for the two of you to intertwine together, and you will be able to explore each other's different sides.
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Why did you get together without finding out at the beginning, the process of falling in love needs to be reconciled, and falling in love is more about how to change yourself and tolerate each other, rather than thinking about how to create freshness.
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If there is no common ground, find a way to find common ground. If you don't have a common interest, you can work hard to cultivate it, and it's actually very simple to keep it fresh, and occasionally create a little waste and surprise. The solutions are all human beings.
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If you don't have something in common, try to find it, or learn more about each other's preferences, what you like to do, eat and watch, and try to do it yourself, and then discuss it with him. Find more common ground.
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If you don't have something in common, you create common ground, I don't believe you don't have a topic you want to talk about, learn more about what your girlfriend likes and what she loves to do, and usually care more about her.
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There is nothing in common to show that the three views may not be the same, so we should be more tolerant and understanding at ordinary times, and communicate more when we have nothing to do, which will help solve the conflict.
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I think that since you have decided to be together, there must be something that attracts each other, there is no common ground to cultivate common hobbies, and you can also learn about each other's interests and hobbies.
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I think the two of them should think about it, whether it is really suitable, otherwise if there is no common topic to talk about in the future, wouldn't it be boring? After all, many people are rushing to get married.
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Most people like the new and hate the old, maybe you've met someone better than her!
If you feel that you don't love her anymore, don't force yourself, lest you regret getting married!
Long pain is better than short pain, if you want to say break up, just say it!
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Scumbags and scumbags are like this, using this excuse to chase newcomers one after another. It's always good for newcomers, and old people are tired of playing.
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No matter whether people work or have feelings, they will be a little tired after a long time, and life is very long, and when they have it, they should cherish .........
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Then love her in another way, you don't need to talk to her deliberately, if you are busy with games and careers, then I personally don't think there is any need to accept that love at the beginning, and it's not too late when everything goes well, (be sure to explain it to the girl).
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Feelings are all processes from passionate love to dullness.
What to do depends on the individual. If two people are willing to tolerate, understand and forbear, they can be together, and they can seek common ground while reserving differences.
If you plan to be together, get along well, find each other's shining points, and if you don't want to be together, break up decisively, don't waste the time and feelings of both parties.
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I feel that I don't have the freshness with my girlfriend as before, and I don't feel like I have common hobbies and topics, what should I do? Before you get married, think about whether you want to continue or not.
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Feelings are from fresh to plain, and if there is no common hobby, it must be cultivated and constantly create freshness.
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If you choose, you should persevere, and it is not advisable to like the new and hate the old!
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Life is inherently boring, even fresh has its shelf life, life is just a few dozen years, is it new every day.
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This is normal, if you love her, change yourself appropriately to cater to her interests!
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After a long time of contact, we got to know each other, and of course there was not much enthusiasm.
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I don't feel as fresh as I used to be, yes, you used to be attracted to each other, there was freshness and mystery! Over time, you get to know each otherIt's becoming familiar, too! The important thing is that you are back to your true colors!
In the past, you would show the best of yourself to each other, but now you don't care so hard! At this time, I feel that there are no common hobbies and topics, so we need both parties to understand and tolerate each other, try to integrate into each other's lives, and cultivate common hobbies! If you work hard and still don't see the effect, you will feel tired, so it is better to go your separate ways!
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Too familiar with each other to have a sense of freshness, but the feelings are still there, and every couple will have such a situation, learn to keep the feelings fresh and don't keep the same habits.
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Think about it calmly, life needs a long stream, not a momentary vigor.
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The relationship between men and women stems from appearance, loyalty to Chengruo, defeat in suspicion, this is that you have ended the run-in period, and it has begun to be a dull period, and men and women who have spent the dull period will generally go longer, at this time you should pay more attention to each other's feelings, psychological pressure and the bits and pieces of life! It is also a good choice to give each other a certain amount of space, or to go out on a trip together! Men don't blindly ask the woman to accommodate themselves, think more about her!
Bless you all!
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Love has a shelf life of two years, and what should be said is basically finished, and the details of the other party are figured out, and love is originally a distance to produce beauty.
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Think about it after being apart for a while. If it is still like this, don't go any further. It means that you are a big pig's trotter.
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When you ask this question, it means that you like your girlfriend very much, otherwise you will break up directly and you will not ask your brother here, two people from love, run-in, dull, three stages, it is impossible to keep the freshness of the first acquaintance forever, even if you are talking about a girlfriend, you just repeat the steps of your last love, love run-in is dull, and then you will feel no freshness, you just need to think about whether your girlfriend is good to you now, are you good to her, are you happy together, are you comfortable, that's enough, don't think about it, the plain is true love.
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It's normal to not see each other all day, it's normal to have no freshness, I used to have a long-distance relationship, just fighting**, and said a lot of sweet words in **, I can't even see each other, and I can't pull my hands, so there will be a sense of powerlessness, and after a long time, I won't have much feeling for this feeling.
I suggest that you can meet, stay together for a while, and then meet again after being separated for a while, it will be very close, I am talking about the premise that both parties have feelings!
I wish you happiness, if you are still young, such a relationship, I don't think there is any need to invest too much in it, the days will be long in the future, can you guarantee to spend your life with her? If you can't, you don't need to be too painful.
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In addition, when the two people have been together for a longer time, the mode of getting along between the two people is becoming more and more like that of an old husband and wife, and in this case, their lives are already very dullJust
Although you can't give her a complete sense of freshness, after all, you already know each other very well, although half a year can't be said to be too long, but it's not short. This is long enough for your significant other to know you well. But it's not completely impossible, you can create some small surprises and romances for her in your life from time to time.
This is what we usually call a sense of ritual。Today's girls actually pay more attention to the sense of ritual, and occasionally create some small romantic surprises, which will make the girl feel that you care about her very much, and those inadvertent romances have a great effect on promoting the relationship between you.
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Yes, the biggest test of love is blandness. Tribulations can make two people love each other more and more.
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Wrong, don't know the tricks and soon break up.
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If you're too young, you'd better study hard.
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Does freshness matter? She's your girlfriend, and you've been together for so long, can the relationship fade and make you have the idea of breaking up? You want to be with other people, but have you ever thought about whether you will regret it?
There is no regret medicine in the world, don't lose it to cherish it, understand? Cherish the people around you.
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This is a very normal phenomenon in adolescence, and you can do something meaningful to divert your attention, after all, no one can say anything about feelings.
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Read well, have fun.
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It's always good to stick with it after the cold period.
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Senior 1: Marry me.
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She's not fresh, and neither is you. It's just right, one shot and two scattered, and no one owes anyone anything.
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Then have a good night, and then break up, anyway, there will be no freshness if you save it, if you want to live, you have to find the kind of plain and bland, which family have you seen a fresh new life every day.
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Don't be too aggrieved, you can achieve it, but you can't achieve it. In the era of rampant materialism, you trust me, and a few words are a lifetime; She doesn't trust you, and it's all in vain to make you a movie.
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In addition to the love period, where can there be so much freshness, the feelings are managed by two people, if it is not suitable, forget it.
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Why do you want to do that?
Since I don't feel it, everyone wants to change it. Then it's clean and neat...
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Then you can only eat a few more meals before you break up and ask him to go later!
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