She s in college, and we ve been together for four years. Half a year ago, every time I chatted with

After breaking up, I found that I was reluctant to save the other party, and I still wanted to save the other party, but I didn't know how to save it?

I believe many people don't understand what kind of mentality is needed in the recovery process. Because most people's first reaction after a breakup is to be restless, and then they will be cranky, and some even can't control their emotions, and will be angry or weak and kneel and lick. Such a mentality is quite unfavorable for recovery.

In the process of redemption, you have to have a strong belief that the separation between you is only temporary, and that she is not the best in your heart. You must understand that men and women are equal, although you are at fault, but it does not mean that all the faults are on you, you can admit and correct your own mistakes, but it does not mean that you can take all the faults on yourself.

Many students will have a question when they see this: Obviously, I love her very much, and I will only redeem her if I regard her as a true daughter, why do I want to treat her as not the best in my heart now? Well, if you take her too seriously, will you constantly expose your sense of need in the process of recovery, and it is easy to have emotional fluctuations because of her, thereby lowering your own value, which is very detrimental to your recovery.

Then, be sure to figure out the reasons for the breakup, not only to understand the fuse of the breakup, but also to know what the fundamental problem is between you. In this way, we can know ourselves and our opponents in the follow-up recovery, so as to win all battles. In the process of redemption, know that you are equal to each other, so that you can avoid too many inappropriate behaviors in the process of redemption.

The process of adjusting the mindset is very hard, but it is also very necessary and the most important thing, since you have decided to redeem it, then you need to pay 200% determination and perseverance, so that is the first step to success.

The mentor wrote some experiences and experiences in redeeming love in ***wanhuimiji. If you want to save true love, you can ***** the book "Saving the Standardized Process". There are many ways to redeem (the freezing rule, the three-three-three chat method, the puzzle theory), and how to get along with the object more harmoniously.

If you don't contact you for a long time, you won't have much emotion, so let's have a showdown.

Slowly, she fades to you.

If you don't refuse to hold hands, it means that you can get it! Her excuse is just a hurdle in her heart, and she can't get over it! All you need to do is add a little more fire! My current girlfriend is digging into the wall!

Keep chasing, let you pull the hand is to give you a chance, otherwise, will you be allowed to pull?

The environment makes people, and the words are very reasonable. What I need to do now is to contact her often, call ** or text her every day to greet her. It's best to see each other every day, and first relive the good times and past events with her in college, the more the better.

You can tell her how you have been nostalgic in the days when you lost her, and hope that she can return to her side. Remember not to complain about her getting along with other boys. You have to be generous and polite.

Finally, she was asked, "Are we friends in love now?" "If she says no, you ask:

When did we become friends in love? "If she says yes. You say:

I couldn't be happier. ”

Agree with the upstairs, now it feels like you're just a substitute - do you care?

I'll be honest, brother, if a girl really likes you, she can't bear to let you suffer and make you wait, even if you wait like this, even if you can finally be together, you won't be happy. Don't think that you are dedicated, you are obsessed with using the wrong place.

Persuade you to let things go with the flow

As for asking her or ignoring her, you can do it yourself, people actually know this kind of thing in their hearts, but they don't want to admit it... If I were you, I would want to give up waiting for her, but I would like to be ordinary friends with her. A man must be bold and be able to take it and put it down.

Just ask, but you have to prepare for the worst But I think she doesn't like you anymore Don't get your hopes up too much I'm also a girl If I still have the intention of getting back together, I will definitely pounce on you Don't hurt the woman who doesn't like you for too long Jump out of your thoughts You have to meet another person who has lost your soul So lovesickness will not be cured If you insist on liking her It can only be sad.

Don't hesitate to fall in love!

I like a girl, I don't know if she likes me or not, and when I see her, I always want to talk to her.

Slowly I found out that I was in love! Just listen more, talk more! Say what you want to say slowly! When I saw her, I often greeted her, and slowly she thought I had a good character!

After a long time, the two of us are in love!

I'll feel so happy to hold her! If you like her, chase her, don't hesitate! Chat more, if you are irresponsible, I suggest you simply find a three-eight to accompany you!

Remember, girls want joy and happiness!

She doesn't like you Give up Don't play ambiguous with her In the end, it's yourself who gets hurt Find a girl who loves and loves you Good luck.

Now I feel like you're just a substitute, and if you're lucky enough to keep going, maybe I'll like you, but I don't know if love really exists. If she's unlucky, she'll kick you away if she finds a better fit than you.

She said that if it is not suitable, it is not suitable? Chasing, when a boy chases a girl, he still wants to save face? It's okay to move forward bravely, and if you don't succeed, you will become a benevolent! Slowly she will like you, maybe she will like you for a long time, reserved.

Let's chase it....My first girlfriend and I were still reserved for the first year, she never told me that she liked me, and in the third year our relationship was on the bed!

Give up this love and forget her. There are so many good girls in the world.

Unintelligible! College students for 3 years,It's just to train people to fall in love.。。。 In the future, I will go to a love university.

It's best to ask so you don't regret it later.

Do you dare to ask for such a girl? I'm really convinced! In response to that sentence, people are cheap!

It's better to ask, you won't die if you don't ask...

Love is love, and if you don't love, you don't love.

If there is really that much love, please set her free. If there is really fate, she will always come back to you.

Study hard, you still have a long way to go in life.

To be honest, what happened to me is very similar, but it happened to me a little earlier than you, although it is reasonable.

She doesn't have a crush on you, so forget about her and find someone else.

Dear landlord.

Glad to analyze for you.

I've had your problem before.

Hope it can help the landlord.

Long-lasting love is in your heart, just as many people often ask if there is true love in this world, in fact, true love is in your heart, as long as you sincerely pay, persistent pursuit, brave sacrifice, true love will happen in you, and eternal love is your love.

We know that love is a kind of selfless giving and sacrifice, and the reward of love is the eternal happiness of the other person.

And happiness, if you love each other, then you will be happy because the other person is happy, and you will be happy because the other person is happy. Whether it is in love before marriage or in the ordinary life after marriage, as long as you really love each other, as long as you work hard for your happy life, then eternal love is by your side, not that you have eternal love, but that you have created eternal love.

Believe in yourself As long as there is love, happiness will definitely exist

Happiness will not wait for you all the time, the people who love you and the people you love are not ready to appear, please learn to cherish them.

When a person who loves you deeply changes for you, it is because he loves you, and when you meet someone, he puts away his stubborn temper for you; And because he loves you, he turns your interest into his interest when ......Or because he loves you.

There is no reason to like someone, and there is no regret to give.

They all think it's worth it, as long as they can be with the people they love.

In fact, we all have some such people around us, but (you. I. He hasn't discovered that the person who knows you best will always be by your side to protect you and not let you have a trace of grievances; People who truly love you may not say many things that love you, but they will do many things that love you.

If you find someone like this around you, please cherish .......

Please remember! The stars that can't be picked are always the brightest, and the small fish that slip away are always the most beautiful. The missed movie is always the best, and the lost lover always understands you best.

In this world, everyone has someone they want to find, and once they miss it, they won't come back.

If you fall in love, don't give up easily. It's awkward, maybe you regret it for a while; But you give up, and it may make you regret it for the rest of your life. A life that has experienced love is beautiful, and love that cannot stand the test is not profound.

Beautiful love enriches life, and love that has passed the test is perfect.

It's a bit too much, throwing a girl in a strange place. If two people are not together, it is a painful torture, and they should cherish it when they meet. She's still excited, which means you still have hope.

Gotta keep it up. She has no faith in your future. It's up to you, how to keep her heart.

She's blacklisted you, and you can text him and stick to one message a day. QQ is also the same.,Stick to it every day.。 With heart, there is nothing that cannot be done.

You did hurt her! It's a fact, people come all the way to see you! You still treat people like this, but the problem must be solved!

Don't bother her just yet! Both of you need to cool down for a while! Give her some time and give yourself some time!!

Contact her in a few days!

You said a lot of nonsense and didn't touch on the root cause of your disagreement. Nature? How to communicate? Values? There are things that can be run-in, and there are things that cannot be compromised.

You're inexperienced, girls have to be coaxed.

You! People give you a body, your promise is like the wind, say no, it's gone, what do people use to trust you.

Cold salad, women hear you say this, nine out of nine, they ignore you like this.

It's better to cherish the time together.

Eldest brother! She is obviously not wanting to be nice with you. What else are you?

Hello. Looking at what happened to you, I really worry about you. If your parents found out, would they feel sorry for you?

I'll talk about my own opinion, the premise of two people being together is mutual respect and mutual trust.

This is not her problem alone, you also have your own problems, blindly retreating without principles, tolerance is not the same as connivance.

Therefore, you need to let yourself grow, enrich yourself, be a man with thoughts and connotations, don't let people see through at a glance, and grasp your lifeblood. To make old wine, the longer it is, the more fragrant it becomes, and don't make soda, the more you drink, the more boring it becomes. You're right.

As for your girlfriend, you haven't reached the point of talking about marriage yet, she tortures you like this, if you can bear it, then continue, if you can't bear it, then make it clear to her, there is no need to be difficult for yourself.

Don't blame her, help her and understand why she is the way she is, because she is not as mature as you.

Even if one day she leaves, you have nothing to be sad about, because she doesn't cherish you and doesn't understand you. She leaves, and she won't say you're bad here, bad there.

Before a man is 35 years old, he wants nothing or nothing, he is in the stage of learning and growth.

Therefore, you have to make yourself valuable as soon as possible, don't be afraid of being used, if one day, you yourself don't even have the value of use, how sad.

If you want to open up, you have to shape yourself, and you are not the only one in your world, but one more relative.

You also have yourself, your parents, your relatives, your friends.

Take responsibility for everything you do, and don't regret it.

If mine is helpful to you, please give a good review, thank you.

The two of them are together, let's live one day at a time! College love is supposed to relieve boredom, I don't know what will happen later, as soon as I graduate, I have a bad future, so I can let some girls, there is no need to talk about breaking up or not breaking up.

According to your bai

Say, you're good to your girlfriend.

du, but your girlfriend is also a little lacking in emotion for you.

DAO out. I feel that the concept of your girlfriend is: I let you sleep, and you have to support me. I have to raise it well, so that I can have face.

From this point of view, this girlfriend of yours is a very vain person, and I am afraid that she will not be a good wife and mother in the future. Even if I marry you in the future, I always complain that you don't earn as much as others. And the in-laws have to bear everything for her.

I can almost imagine that I will have to talk to your lion for the bride price.

I emphasize, this is a guess based on your description, perhaps inaccurate. After all, I didn't hear the woman's own statement.

As for the next step, I suggest that you reduce your "investment" in her and say that you are saving for marriage to see if she can think about you. The husband and wife always have one heart in order to go long. You have to be mentally prepared, she is likely to dislike you for being poor and leave you completely, and knock you a breakup fee before leaving.

But it's better than a wrong marriage.