Is it wrong to give up true love for the sake of family affection?

Updated on psychology 2024-04-15
6 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    It's not wrong, it's just that life is too helpless I used to be for my own family affection My parents forced each other to die I can only choose family affection It's not that I'm willing to give up my love It's that our lives are given by our parents We can't hurt them so selfishly They have worked hard for me for me Let me hurt them for love How can I bear it? I still don't know if I regret it, and I don't know if I'm as happy as I used to be, but I still can't let go of the love I once had, but family is really important to me, and we have responsibilities and obligations. It can only be said that this world is too helpless.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    Love is actually very simple and simple! Love doesn't need to be out of the blue, it's true! For love, we don't expect its fulfillment, but we can make it true...

    Today's society is a society where feelings are overflowing, love has long become fast food, not for eternity, but for what once had... What will happen in the future, who thinks so far? So love becomes a pillow when you are lonely, a traveling companion when you are lonely; It becomes an excuse for some people to achieve their goals, and even becomes a slave to money ...

    At this time, love has lost its beautiful aura and has become realistic and worldly... Is there still true love in this society? Yes, but very little, modern people do not know how to cherish love, when they have it, they will suck the essence of love recklessly, do not water, do not fertilize, so the flower of love will not be long before it withers...

    When love went away, I found that the beautiful love I was striving for was once so close to me, but unfortunately there is no regret medicine in this world... So when you have a good love, cherish it ... To love someone is to care about him and want him to be happy, and his joys, sorrows and sorrows also affect my emotions, but I just want him to be happy.

    If you love someone just to make him love you, then you are misinterpreting the meaning of love. If he could live happier without you, then you should be happy, shouldn't you? Your fulfillment may make it a lot easier for each other, friend, why bother so much, there are many unfair things in the world.

    The fate is determined by heaven, and the share is artificial, maybe you are not suitable to be together. Bury that love deep in your heart, as long as you silently bless him, one day you will also be blessed by God and meet your real him. Now if you have the same mindset as I do, you will be happy.

    It's right to love someone, it's just that we love the wrong person

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Love is inclusive rather than indulgent, love is caring rather than pampering, love is intermingling rather than unrequited love, love is all kinds of flavors and not all sweetness. True love is not necessarily a perfect match in the eyes of others But the mutual fit of the hearts of people who love each other is to make each other's lives better and silently dedicate This love not only warms themselves, but also warms those worldly hearts True love is when you can love, know how to cherish True love is when you can't love, know how to let go Because, letting go is to have everything....Please love well when you cherish it When you let go, bless it well....True love is a kind of care and care that comes from the heart, there are no flowery words, no grandiose actions, only in every word and deed you can feel it. So plain and so firm.

    On the contrary, swearing, promising shows its uncertainty, never believe sweet words. Feel it with your heart There is no right or wrong in love, only suitable and inappropriate love, true love is not necessarily a perfect match in the eyes of others, but the mutual fit of each other's hearts and minds of people who love each other, in order to make each other's lives better and silently dedicated. ps:

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  4. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    It's not a question of what is wrong and what is good, but how you reconcile it. Family affection and love are not contradictory.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Many things are always experienced before you know that you can't afford to gain or lose. Just like feelings, after the pain, you will know how to protect yourself; If you are stupid, you will know how to persist and give up in a timely manner. Let us learn to give up, turn away before we cry, what we exchange for tears is not reliable; Let's learn to give up, bury yesterday in our hearts, and leave the best memories; Let's learn to give up so that we can all have an easier start for each other.

    Holding on to it will only make you indulge in memories and pain and become sluggish. Let go of your hand and let it pass away with the wind of memory, you will find the other side of the sky, and you will revisit the fragrance of flowers in life and feel the warmth of the sun. Giving up is not evasion, not cowardice; Giving up is an open-minded attitude.

    Think about it, how many people and things a person has to experience in his life, and if you don't know how to give up those things that have been lost and irretrievable, how can you grasp what really belongs to you? If you find that the only door in your world is no longer open for you, you don't have to linger in front of the door or hit your head and never wake up. Learn to give up, then turn around and look for a skylight that opens for you, where you can also see the stars.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    Liuyan thinks that he is talking about giving up family affection, but it is just the most helpless angry thing to say in the face of the 2 difficulties of love and affection, which ones have really given up? During the New Year's holidays, the birthday of the family, who does not have a trace of concern in their hearts, they will always fantasize and worry about what happened to their parents, whether they are doing well or not, because of face and their other half, there is no way to turn back, sooner or later, they will regain their discarded family affection.

    Of course, for the sake of love, I will not evaluate, true love, the person who really loves you, will not make you embarrassed, let alone let you abandon family affection, give up family love, do you think it will last forever?

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