Love Will you have it if you give it up, will you give it all for love?

Updated on psychology 2024-04-11
6 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    Sister, I personally think that you can't quit, not all feelings are only good when you give up on him, it depends on how solid your emotional foundation is. However, listening to your previous narrative, your boyfriend is obviously a little messed up, so at this time, if you quit, you will fulfill them. If you really love the man in front of you and really cherish this feeling, then, do something meaningful, grasp your distance, you can give him space, time to let him be free, but this does not mean let go, see what he performs, even if you are not together, you can hear his reaction from **, but don't be suspicious.

    You do what you have to do, make yourself stronger, and improve yourself in all aspects. Even if, one day, he really leaves you, don't be afraid, because that's his loss.

    2011-1-5 21:51:46Love will you have it if you give up.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    After all, time will take everything away after all.

    What is it that makes us let go of each other's hands?

    What is it that makes us give up on ourselves and the other person?

    Will keep saying that it's really nothing, and then be silent about other people's stories.

    The surface will eventually return to calm, but the inner waves are turbulent but unknown.

    Only you know who is the person you really love and who is the person who hurt you.

    So in the end, when we all belong to each other, you are just a vague silhouette in my memory.

    A woman suddenly broke up with her boyfriend who had been in love for five years and married someone else in a flash of lightning.

    She said that she was going to get married, and she couldn't afford to wait, and although he loved her, he didn't mean anything about it.

    After a few years, the man also got married.

    The bride may not have been much better than her, or how deep his love was this time, but the timing of her appearance was so good, just when he was tired and wanted to settle down.

    So, there was no better reason to do so, she came at the right time, then, it was her.

    In fact, we have been looking for so long, tasting the sweetness and hardships of every love, and the lover we finally choose is just the one who passes by us when our hearts are moving.

    What childhood sweethearts, what hearts, what love at first sight, are just some icing on the cake excuses, time is the master of everything.

    When we look back on the past and think of the love that crossed our lives like shooting stars, we often blame each other's misses on fate.

    In fact, in the final analysis, fate is such an illusory and abstract concept, and what really affects us is often the time to meet and fall in love at that moment.

    The interaction between men and women is full of hesitation and uncertainty and the reserve of wanting to speak, and a small variable can completely change the direction of choice.

    If you had shown up earlier, maybe she wouldn't have been in a tight grip with the other person;

    Or meet a little later, too late for two people to slowly learn to tolerate and considerate, treat and compromise in their respective love experiences, who did you meet when you were at your most beautiful?

    When you love someone deeply, who is she with?

    When your heart is at its most vulnerable, who is walking with her?

    How much time does love give you to meet and separate, to choose and regret?

    It turns out that it really doesn't matter if you love or not.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    To be honest, I think this kind of indecisive man who is in love with two women is terrible.

    I don't think you need to wade into this troubled water, men are everywhere, and good men are not the only ones. Moreover, my personal opinion is that this kind of man who has to use even a simple love choice question for two or three years cannot have any ability. But if you are in love, go for it, use your original sincerity and attraction to win him back again, believe in yourself You are not worse than others, I hope you don't change your character and characteristics because of other people's words, if he wants the care of others, your efforts can only be in vain, really cherish you and win people will regard everything you have as a treasure willful and immature tolerance is the least manifestation of love for you I hope you can be happy.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    This kind of problem of the authorities is not good for others to give advice casually, I only say what I think, it does not mean to give you advice, if it is me, I may choose to quit Because I think that I am not worse than others, there are people outside the world, this man is so unfirm, it can be seen that he does not really love himself from the bottom of his heart, although he is very reluctant to him, but it is not worth being sad for not knowing how to appreciate himself, in addition to playing tricks, after all, he will also have his own unique personality, which others may not have, so you still have to believe in your own charm.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    You don't force him, don't blame him, don't ask him, don't mention any woman, as if there was no woman, but you have to be better to him than before, care about him, if he still has a conscience, he will never leave you, do this, unless you have a good attitude

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    My answer is, no.

    Because I've done my best when I've been through it. The recently released "Later Us", I didn't feel anything after watching it, and I was even a little disappointed, because I really couldn't accept the ending of the story. I thought this movie was about the heroes and heroines who were passionately in love when they were young, and they were separated because of reality and immaturity of their minds, and finally forgot about each other, this sense of loss was touching, and then I finally learned how to love, and you have long since disappeared into the sea of people.

    But at the end of the movie, I found out that they still haven't learned to "love". You can be obsessed, reluctant, nostalgic, and frequently look back, but when people around you ask you what you are looking at, you should smile and say nothing, just look at the scenery.

    I firmly believe that love is a very courageous thing, if you can't hold on, you don't have the courage, just go and find someone to live with, but don't say "love". People who give up love because of practical factors are not qualified to regret it.

    I often describe my unattainable love as an expensive commodity in the window, I like it very much, but I don't have the money to buy it, even if I use all my financial resources to buy it, it doesn't match my life, that feeling is like you have to carry an expensive bag to squeeze the subway or take the bus, therefore, I would rather just leave it in the window and wait for it to be bought by a matching person, I will not regret it.

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