Who is not controlled by fate, and can man really control fate?

I have never believed in fate, why is human destiny determined from birth? I think as long as you have a strong and courageous heart, then you will definitely change your fate.

Destiny is determined by heaven, not by man.

I don't want to be maliciously affected by colleagues in the unit, I just want to work and learn simply Although interpersonal relationships are not everything, they are also more important, in fact, sometimes you feel that others are maliciously affected, well, it is normal.

People who are strong in autonomy are not controlled by fate.

This question is confusing, prone to the extremes of overconfidence and self-abandonment. The statement of fate is even more benevolent, and the wise are wise.

Do people really go in a given direction? How many people have truly taken control of their destiny and obtained what they dreamed of? Less, too little.

Some people are glamorous, become bosses, and become celebrities, but how do you know that this is the original intention of TA, TA's dream? They may have had a little thing that they wanted to protect desperately, and then after a series of experiences, they finally changed. Successful people often mention the word dream, which is actually an interpretation of their successful state, not necessarily their inner perseverance.

Of course, there are still cases, but not everyone is so lucky. More people, even if they succeed, have a sense of being forced to be helpless and silently accept it. Because success in itself is gratifying enough to make people lose sight of what they wanted in the first place.

The crux of the matter is that we are easily tricked by fate, and we are constantly forced to change and choose new possibilities, because that possibility makes our lives better. For most people, chasing dreams is a luxury, and it is not easy to live every day well.

The only thing we can control is ourselves, other people and things are complex variables for us, and we will encounter unexpected results all the time, and even sometimes, people can't even control themselves, and will be blinded by various emotions, so fate is even more changeable.

However, the ancients seem to have already given the answer, destiny is impermanent, humane. Whether we have a dream in our hearts or are willing to live a dull life, strive to be ourselves, do our best to fight for what we want, and let it conform to the will of God if we can't get it, this is what we can do for our destiny.

There will be three sets of wisdom in every copyist.

Attack energy system. The first is our brain, which is in charge of people's thoughts and behaviors, which is subjectively controlled by us.

The second intelligent system is also in our body, but it is not controlled by our ideology, and is in charge of human life, aging, sickness and death, which is now called DNA encoding. For example: if our ** is injured, it will heal automatically.

If we don't eat properly or do anything in excess, we get sick. When we reach maturity, we have the function of reproducing the next generation. If we pay attention to health, we can live longer.

To put it in layman's terms, this system is the rules of the game for the people that God has designed for us;

The third is the luck system, which is in charge of people's luck, such as financial luck, official luck, injury, bad luck and so on. The luck system is the boss and can control the first two systems, which exist before a person is born. For example, if this person will be imprisoned in a certain year, then before that, the luck system will send instructions to the person's brain, so that he will change his ideological consciousness to do illegal things, and lead him to crime step by step.

If this person will become an official in the future, the luck system will guide this person step by step to realize his official journey, and the luck system will not only deploy this person, but also his surrounding environment and personnel will be mobilized. Each person's luck system will be related to the luck system of everyone around him, and the person's luck system will be allocated by the country's luck system, and the country's luck system will be adjusted by the earth's luck system.

For people who have a stable and flexible self, they will not control others.

This is true in all interpersonal interactions. When you find that you don't need your partner to "confide" in you to prove that you are a trustworthy person, you will not feel so hurt if he doesn't tell you about the traumatic incident he had as a child; When you don't need praise from others to prove the value of your work, the appreciation that others don't express won't make you feel so angry; When you don't need the gratitude of others to prove the meaning of doing a good deed, the unspoken thank you won't make you indignant.

When we have a very stable sense of self-worth, we have the courage not to control others. Because we know that our self-worth will not be enhanced by the affirmation, praise, support, praise or comfort of others, we are valuable in our own right, and we do not need to control the behavior of others to get a borrowed sense of value.

Only those who can't control themselves can control others

People who are very stubborn, immature in their ideas, mature and rational will respect other people's ideas and lives.

Friend, fate is a very mysterious thing, which ordinary people can't see through, and it's not easy to understand.

Whether a person can succeed or not is inseparable from talent, hard work, and opportunities.

For individuals, all he can influence is the second factor, hard work.

Efforts include two aspects, one is the accumulation of ability, and the other is the adjustment of emotional intelligence.

Competence is the foundation of your success and is the inner basis. Emotional intelligence can make you have a higher horizon and more prosperous fortune, which can affect external conditions.

Ability and emotional intelligence are indispensable.

There is a saying that I feel very good, "Character determines fate, attitude determines height", this sentence mainly talks about the role of emotional intelligence.

I believe that there must be masters in the world who can see their destiny clearly and foresee the future.

If you find this master and let him give you a life, if he really sees his fate clearly and tells you his fate, and you adjust your behavior accordingly, then fate will not be accurate, then "fate cannot be called fate", then he and you are going against the sky.

If he tells you that you have made adjustments, it is also destined for him to tell you, and after you adjust, you will definitely conform to the arrangement of fate.

In other words, if you don't find him, fate won't happen, if you find him, he will give you a life, you do it, and fate will happen.

He gave you your life, fate told him; He doesn't give you a life, and fate tells him.

In this world, you must have heard a lot of stories of life relief, so have you noticed such a commonality: "That is, these masters all came to the door by themselves to tell them, and they all took the initiative to tell fortunes and solve people's lives."

In other words, it was fate that told these masters, you go and tell this mortal, he has to follow our rules. ”

The point I want to say comes out: "There must be a master who can see his fate clearly, and there must be no master who can change his life and change his fortune, because he can't do it, and what he does is also destined, he just executes rather than plans." ”

If this master really exists, there must be very few of them, maybe there are only a few in the world. So how do you know he's a master? If you know that he is a master, how can you guarantee that you will meet him?

Even if you do, how can you be sure that he will tell you? Don't forget, if there is this master in your life, he will take the initiative to find you, if there is no him in your life, you will find him in vain, he will not say it, even if he does, you do it, then you will definitely go to fate.

So, friend, you should be content with the sky, for talent, hard work and opportunity, what you can grasp is the second - hard work.

Strive to improve your abilities and work to improve your emotional intelligence.

Because of the external environment and the internal pressure, you have to give in to the world, so you can't control your own destiny.

Because your heart is not strong enough, the person who is strong in the heart controls his own destiny.