There are annoying people in the class, and I am very angry when I hear his questions every day, wha

This sensible classmate, after reading the topic, I will first tell you that there is a kind of psychology called projection, that is, you have it, but you don't like it, so you hide it in your subconscious, but it will be reflected in others (because you understand it), so his problem may be your problem. I don't mean that you have a problem, because you are in your third year of high school, you must continue to learn under the continuous improvement of your own thinking, and you must face your own or other people's problems independently, I am helping you really understand yourself, not sarcastic, this is my opinion. Back to the question.

In the third year of high school, you should try to focus on your weak subjects and maintain good subjects, because if you don't take a good college entrance examination, you won't be able to do a good job in the college entrance examination, so you have to balance, don't think you can balance? Just do it. Your problem is derived from the fact that you focus on people you don't like, so you have to take your attention back to yourself.

As for why you want to focus on others, it may be because you feel that you are better than him in this point and you have a sense of accomplishment. In fact, this can be regarded as a manifestation of the difficulty of escaping reality. Don't be angry yet, if you solve the problem of escapism, you will also be able to solve the difficulty of the college entrance examination.

The third year of high school is a cruel year to wash away childishness, so you have to learn to analyze your "dislikes", which can truly understand yourself, and then make a method.

Your question is just a symptom, you have to go deep into why you hate him, ask yourself questions, in order to solve the qualitative problem, and really help you take the college entrance examination. Hopefully, these words will make you think.

Anti-noise earbuds, you need it. I just had this situation in my third year of high school.,The result of a variety of reasons.,I guess that person was still relatively close to you before.。。。 It's normal that when you want to take something seriously, are you a little too nervous, and want to get rid of some of the previous habits, and it is a long process to recognize yourself, and everyone in the high-pressure environment of the third year of high school will be affected by emotions to a certain extent, so you have to treat yourself as an opponent and others as friends, and take it slowly.

At the beginning, don't let emotions affect your learning, just bring an earplug and get used to it. You can't change others, so change yourself first.

Indicates that there have been similar situations before. When you don't like that person in any way, it's usually hard to avoid them and ignore them. So my advice is to find a few like-minded friends, have a chat, and live in an environment you like.

Take a look at some of the best books.

Finally, I would like to give you a quote from Murakami, which I have always liked: not all fish live in the same sea.

I hope you can regulate your mood well.

The landlord is focused on studying, and he is in his third year of high school, and he can't delay his good future because of a person he doesn't like. You may be at a loss now, but when you graduate, you'll find that it's nothing. Also, if you don't like the problem, you can do well in the test, do your best, and leave him alone.

Ignore him, don't listen to him, don't look at him, don't think about him, me too, I really hate seeing a person recently, it's annoying to talk to him, I don't want to pay attention to him, and then I take the method of not listening, not looking, not asking, not wanting to, completely ignoring him, not bad. Or complain to your friends.

Calm down your mentality, you won't be bothered by these trivial things in the third year of high school, and concentrating on studying is the king, as the advice given to you by the senior brother who went to college after the fourth year of high school.

This may be jealousy, I have it too... That's because the two of you are strong and weak in some aspects, and he may really have something for you to learn, in short, a manly man, with a relaxed heart, I believe you calm down and cool down.

Well, I don't know why he annoys the landlord. But it's not a good thing for the landlord to pay too much attention to others, and if you want to be admitted to the university, you have to strengthen your own efforts, and take your mind back and put it on yourself.

I used to hate a classmate like this, but after graduation, I found that I lost a lot, because I only saw what he annoyed me, I never said a word to him, and later recalled, it turned out that he was also a little, and I lost a lot of precious friendships.

Put your mind on him, and you tell yourself, hate him, and take him too seriously.

Ignore him, don't look at him, out of sight, out of mind, and I believe you can do it.

I like someone else, don't say anything, let's be together again.

If your eyes are not quiet, move him to sit in front of him.

If so, it means that you care about his existence.

Psychoanalysis: Subject: Hello, it's an honor to accept your invitation.

The time for the college entrance examination is not far away, that is, you should spend all your mind on studying, not on interpersonal relationships, and go all out to prepare for the college entrance examination, not on spending time and energy on people you hate. As long as you successfully pass the college entrance examination and get good grades and get admission to a good university, your sky will be broader, and it is not too late to slowly focus on interpersonal relationships at that time. Suppose, if you spend your time dealing with interpersonal relationships despite the college entrance examination, what about your studies?

What to do? If you delay your studies, you will regret them, because if your studies are delayed at that time, and you don't handle the relationship with your classmates well, you will lose more than you gain. Dealing with relationships is not as simple as you think, it takes time, energy and money.

Although good interpersonal relationships are conducive to personal development, it is necessary to divide the situation, what environment needs to maintain a good interpersonal relationship, and what environment to give up short-term interpersonal contacts. For example, your college entrance examination and the relationship between classmates, it is impossible to be perfect between the two, you can only give up, either devote yourself to studying, or devote yourself to the maintenance of the relationship with your classmates, this is to comfort you from my position, you should focus on learning. I think that after I say this, you yourself should know which is more important than the other, and see that there are annoying people in your description.

In fact, in this world, you will always meet people you hate, you will meet people you like, people who hate yourself and people who like yourself, you can't control the thoughts of others, but you can control your own thoughts, you know that learning is important, you know that you can't spend time with people you hate, but you still feel awkward, that's because you can't let go of your heart, you care about it, you feel so awkward, and your heart is like a knot that can't be solved. Then let's analyze why you can't get used to others and look unpleasant and awkward. Most people think that they can't get used to others, feel awkward, and hate others, it must be their own problem, and forgetting that it may be their own problem.

We always can't imagine that our own perspective on the problem is actually based on our own interests, our own feelings, and concepts, and we judge each other, ignoring each other's feelings. We can't think about whether our assessment of him or her has a basis in reality. Is it your own subjective thinking?

Is there objectivity? Is there any bias? Always believe that what you see with your eyes is empty, and what your thoughts reflect is not real.

Therefore, you should take the initiative to put down your body to communicate, understand what the reason behind it is, and also find the point of doubt in your heart. Everything happens for a reason, if you value him or her, then you should be tolerant and understanding of the other person, and not spend time and energy hating that person to torture yourself and ruin your mood.

In fact, after being separated for a long time, the relationship will fade, some people may see it openly, and some people may be more nostalgic. There's nothing wrong with you and your classmates. You will slowly accept the people around you, classmates, teachers, batch after batch, it doesn't matter, as long as your friends are still with you.

No. It's not strange for them to play together, because everyone gets along day and night in the same class, and it's impossible to be cold-faced. As for the former classmates, because of the class assignment, they are in different classes, and the movement may not be so convenient, so they can only go to play together on Saturdays and Sundays.

Anyway, I'm slowly getting used to it, and I'm now in the third year of junior high school, and it's about the same.

Don't get too entangled, it's nothing, or, think about it from a different perspective.

Give the subject a simple hug, all this is not the fault of the owner of the dust stove, but they hurt the subject in their way, so we must not punish ourselves with the mistakes of others. First of all, we can analyze whether the conflict between ourselves and our roommates has reached the point of irreconcilability, and if we do have something inappropriate in the previous incident, then we can take the initiative. Say sorry to the other party when it's time to apologize.,Of course, apologizing is not giving in to the other party.,It's because you did do something inappropriate.,If there's nothing wrong with the subject.,But the other party has been deliberately finding fault.。

Then the subject can keep a certain amount of evidence of dressing up, can salute first and then soldier, and can make it public when necessary, so that everyone knows who has been playing right and wrong. The second is to find a time to talk to the other party, tell the other party that it is not good for each other to be entangled all the time, and it is best to show your bottom line. Of course, we must not retaliate against the other party by hurting ourselves, because the other party's deliberate targeting is precisely because they do not have enough confidence, so they need to attack the subject in this way.

Therefore, we can sort out our mood first, there are some things we don't want to worry about, but it doesn't mean that we won't be angry, if it really makes trouble when everyone knows, everyone's face is not good-looking. In the end, we need to learn to protect ourselves, the subject is already in the third year of high school, and there is still half a year to take the college entrance examination, the subject should have his own ideas and life, and we must not give up our dreams because of the villain. The subject can write down the troubles, or find a network tree hole to talk about, don't squeeze everything in your heart, what can we face together. pot,