I was in junior high school, and there was a boy in my class who liked me

I am the opposite of you ... Hehe. It should be refused. The key is how to refuse.

First of all, be resolute. Rejection is inevitably a disservice, but it should not be used to discourage you. Since it is the person who is in love with you, he is very sensitive to your words and deeds.

If your attitude of refusing love is not resolute enough, it is easy to cause misunderstanding of the other party, especially if the other party is in a situation where you love you deeply, and the thinking you adopt out of politeness or consideration will make the other party feel that you also love him, at least let him feel that there is hope, and in the end it often brings greater harm than refusing love.

Second, do your best to maintain the other person's self-esteem. In order to reduce the psychological damage caused by rejection to the other party and make it easier for the other party to accept, it is necessary to try to maintain the psychological balance of the other party and minimize the inner frustration of the other party. Specifically, you may wish to first praise the other person's character and talents, and then explain why you can't accept the courtship. The reasons to be said should be reasonable, and it is best to put forward favorable aspects from the other party's point of view, so that the other party feels that the rejection is also for his good; If you need to explain it to others, you may want to attribute the negative cause to yourself.

Hehe. Think about it.

1.said that he had a boyfriend. This method is the most straightforward. The most decisive. The man suffers the shortest amount of time. I suggest the method. )

2..We are not suitable. I don't deserve you. In fact. It means that you are not worthy of me.

3.I like boys who are especially capable. Your current conditions are not suitable.

I have no feelings for you. If you really like me. Just put it on your abilities.

Show me. Study hard. What do you do?

Both. 4.I don't want to be in a relationship for a while. Because, I take my studies. Heavy. I'm afraid to fall in love. affected. My life and you're not the type I like. We have no results.

Hehe. The above methods. Purely. Personal advice. Hehe. Can be flexible. Don't be rigid.

Hehe. Whatever the method. Key attitudes. Be resolute. Hehe.

Landlord .You tell me.

Lovely youth, hehe.

You know that people at this age will be ignorant and have a good impression of the opposite sex.

It's all normal, and it will be beautiful to recall.

It's good to be liked, right? There is no need to avoid it.

But remember, don't show yourself too much that you're secretly happy in your heart, even if you don't like it.

Don't respond either, just a faint one.

You can tell him we're friends, but you don't need to be boyfriend and girlfriend, you have more important things than that, and he does the same. When to do something, junior high school is studying, high school is studying, college is better waiting for you, isn't it?

If not, make it clear to him.

If he says he's not serious, then you don't need to waste any time thinking about it, concentrate on studying, and if he says he's serious, then it's okay to tell him that you want him to study hard to prove himself.

By the way, smoking is really not good, and the next time he asks you, you can do this: as a classmate, I should also tell you that smoking is bad for your health, so I don't want you to smoke.

It's all easy to do and it's easy to try it.

He likes you and doesn't get in your way.

As long as you don't pay attention to him for a long time.

The little gangsters were quiet when no one paid attention.

First of all, you have to ask yourself whether you like him or not.

If you like him too, why not try to be together

I see a lot of this kind of little boy. Tell him directly: Get out!

Boys chasing girls have one thing in common.

When you don't catch up, you're surprisingly good to girls At this time, girls are the most easily deceived.

After chasing it, or after playing enough, especially after encountering a more beautiful one, I can't wait to put you together.

Kick out of the Western Hemisphere.

He likes it if he wants! You can't control his feelings! I'm in a similar situation to you, but he doesn't smoke!

I'll give me a bounty and I'll tell you.

It's okay to get along with each other.

Find a few people to beat him. Annoying people.

The meeting of two people needs to be in the right place at the right time, not too early, just to catch up, this is love, the moment you meet TA, you are sure that the other party is the person you are looking for.

It's a strange feeling, but it's real, it's a kind of sympathy between two people, it's a kind of telepathy, it's a spark that only the two of you can collide with.

Destined to be together, you're going to have telepathy, really!

You'll feel like the other person is familiar.

When you meet the person you like, you will feel that the other party is familiar, obviously the two have never met before, but they just feel that they are so familiar, I don't know if I have seen them in **, this is the so-called "eye edge." ”

Déjà vu is a kind of good feeling for each other, and it is also a kind of telepathy between two people, when you feel that the other person is the right person, you will automatically sense their love for you, and then the two people will naturally come together.

Love is a wonderful thing, if you are fated, you will find that no matter what the occasion you will meet, you will find that your interests and hobbies are very close, which also makes you have more topics.

Two people who are destined to be together will have such telepathy, they will feel that the other party is familiar, they will feel that the other party is the person you are looking for, and everything is just right.

There is a tacit understanding between the two people.

When two people are together, tacit understanding is a very important thing, some people always can't talk together or play together, so naturally two people will be very tired together.

But if there is a tacit understanding between two people, then no matter what you do, it will be very consistent, and even if two people do not make an appointment to meet in **, they will meet each other in that place, this is a tacit understanding.

If there is telepathy, it is love.

Sometimes, we always look at and complain, and if we don't meet the right person, in fact, we haven't met the person who really has telepathy with you, and when you have a sense of affection, you will think that it is him.

If there is telepathy between two people, it means that there is love between you, you are destined to be together, and without this induction, the chances of being together will be very small.

In this life, there will always be a destined person waiting for you, who understands you and understands you, there will be a tacit understanding between you, no words, just a look, you can know what the other party thinks.

Who you will be with and who you will marry is actually predestined, so when you meet that person, you will be able to sense ta, you will feel that he is familiar, and you will have a very tacit understanding with him.

Two people who are destined to be together will have a kind of telepathy that pulls you to meet and fall in love with them!

First of all, don't be afraid, don't feel that you have a problem, it's okay for a boy to like a boy, love is sacred. Then, you have to observe whether he also likes boys, if he also likes boys, confess boldly, be with him, don't care what others think, love is the most precious. Don't rebel, little brother Come on, I wish you to find your own happiness.

Your gender is male, but you currently have a crush on a boy in your class, considering your sexual orientation, which is homosexual. Consider this a matter of personal sexuality and orientation, but it is recommended that you take care of your privacy.

You're too young! It's the time to learn! If you think about him every day! How can you go to class with peace of mind! If you like him, study hard, and only when you have a future will you have better conditions for him to choose you!

Sometimes liking is only temporary, maybe you won't like it after two days, and many times people just regard admiration, freshness, intimacy, and love for good looks as love.

There's nothing wrong with what kind of person you like, but I'm more worried about two things, first, his sexual orientation, and second, you're too young, which means that your classmates won't be very mature, and if you behave too much, everyone may discriminate against you. Out of society, the acceptance is a little higher, but the mentally immature classmates may bring you harm.

You are a same-sex relationship, oh, it is not good to suggest that you change your attention and communicate with girls more, which will help you.

Then you can also connect together, don't you come to love when you go to school, and you will be lined up after school.

Boys in junior high school like anime boys so much, it's possible that it's a gay idea, and when they're older, they'll like other girls.

It's the same as if you like a girl, and there is also the question of whether he likes you or not. If it's just one-sided, it's not interesting.

Summary. 1.In the process of communicating with their children, parents should pay attention to the communication methods, not oppress them with the authority of parents, but should stand in a relatively equal state and do not try to inquire about their children's privacy.

My son has just entered junior high school, and he said that a classmate told him that he liked a girl in the class, and whether this boy treated him seriously.

Good evening, dear!

Good evening. This guy should be a friend of your child.

What should I do about my son, how to guide him, I don't like him to have old contact with such children, discuss such issues, and whether he will fall in love for a long time This is what I'm worried about, teacher.

You can communicate well with your child, say that you need to focus on your studies now, and if a classmate asks you such a question, you can tell your mother.

Now children are more precocious, I can understand you, I hope that children can study hard at this age, get into a good high school, and get a good university in the future.

He was very opposed to me reasoning with him, but I didn't know how to guide him, and he was afraid that we would talk about previous experiences or experiences <> such topics

Your child may not be able to listen to you all of a sudden, but he knows in his heart that you are doing it for his own good.

He is very self-righteous at this age, he can't listen to a lot of work, and he is also very sensitive.

Communicating with your child actually requires skills, so you can communicate while your child is happy.

Yes, the junior high school stage is a rebellious stage, and some children are completely unable to listen and are particularly sensitive.

I am happy to say that I don't know which sentence may offend my nerves and lose my temper.

So be sure to communicate more with your child and chat like a friend.

In this case, quickly stop talking, don't say it yet, let him calm down.

How to guide him, how to talk about it, teacher.

Wait a minute, I'll give you a few ways.

1.In the process of communicating with their children, parents should pay attention to the communication methods, not oppress them with the authority of parents, but should stand in a relatively equal state and do not try to inquire about their children's privacy.

2.To establish such a trusting relationship, the best relationship is to become friends with children, but to let them believe enough in themselves, believe that parents can help them solve problems, instead of bringing them more confusion, only in this way, children can open their hearts and communicate with parents, parents can enter the child's heart.

Communicate with children to stay calm, observe more in communication, solve problems with consultation, help children to make self-evaluations, discuss more and give less orders, and guide more and reprimand less.

In addition, it is also necessary to discover more children's strengths and learn to praise children's strengths.