Can a man have a confidante? Can a woman have a blue faced confidante?

Of course, women also have confidants.

Whether a man or a woman, after having a family, should avoid some suspicions when they come into contact with the opposite sex, otherwise, it will not only provoke some unnecessary discussions, but also bring unrest to their families.

In real life, men and women who have a family, if they are alone during these time periods, it means that they have deviated:

First, after a conflict with your lover.

Many married men and women, after having conflicts with their other half, like to talk to their "confidantes" and "girlfriends of the opposite sex", in fact, as an adult, you should clearly understand that as long as there is excessive intimate contact between men and women, what will be the consequences, this time period to talk to the opposite sex, the relationship between you is already very clear!

Second, when you encounter difficulties in life and work.

Many married men and women, when they encounter difficulties in life and work, these people do not ask their lovers for help at the first time, but seek help from their confidants of the opposite sex, how can such a relationship be innocent!

Third, confidants of the opposite sex are always the first to send companionship and care when they encounter difficulties.

Some married men and women, when their opposite-sex confidants encounter difficulties, these people will ignore their lover's feelings and run over to accompany the opposite-sex confidant, such a relationship does not need too much justification!

For those married men and women, it is better not to have any friends of the opposite sex, in this world, there is no pure friendship of the opposite sex!

Lan Yan is as follows:1. The reason why a man is willing to be a woman's confidante may be because he is trying to get this woman. Some men feel that only their own cherishment and hard work will definitely move women, and gradually their relationship will become very close, and they will say everything to guide women to turn themselves into male girlfriends, and then men will naturally accept the reality of all this.

2. There are also men who also want to find a spiritual partner, so they are willing to be a woman's blue face. Because it is not only women who need spiritual sustenance, men will also show him less sentimentality than women, but when men feel lonely, they can still find someone to talk to.

Introduction:

It is derived from the red face. There are a wide range of words on the Internet, usually referring to a woman's name for a man's confidant, or a man's name for a man's confidant. Generally speaking, it refers to a male confidant who is closer than a friend, a little farther than a lover, and a little purer than a lover.

Due to the particularity of men and women, it is known as a kind of "fourth type of feeling" that is free from family, love, and friendship.

1.Different in nature: confidante is a relatively close female friend, and it is also the purest friendship between men and women who are not mixed with emotions, and selflessness is their own responsibility.

The confidante is commonly referred to as the fourth type of emotion, which is a useful supplement to love and friendship, and is a new way of expressing interpersonal feelings.

The meaning is different: A confidante is the most precious, rarest, and most coveted existence in a man's life. Due to the particularity of men and women, Lanyan confidant is known as a kind of fourth type of relationship that is free from family, love, and friendship.

Different genders: confidantes mostly refer to women, and confidantes to blue faces mostly refer to men.

In the face of love, people are selfish. Unless it's not true love, you will have an indifferent attitude towards the actions of your other half. Especially in the eyes of women, love requires absolute selfishness, and love is not allowed to be mixed with any sand.

But some people say that the highest state of love is selflessness. Are you able to accept that your partner has a confidant of the opposite sex?

True love is possessive and selfish.

I believe that many people are negative about this issue. Generally, after having a partner, everyone will also take the initiative to keep a certain distance from other members of the opposite sex, in order to avoid suspicion, it is also to show respect for the other half, so that the other half has a sense of security.

However, it is rare to meet a true friend in life, and some people will be unwilling to give up like this. On the one hand, in order not to make the subject feel uneasy, and in order to maintain friendship with confidants. Many times, you can only keep in touch with friends quietly and try to avoid seeing each other.

It is also normal to chat occasionally through the mobile phone, in order not to let the other half misunderstand, everyone is used to deleting records after chatting, or using a calculator to disguise encrypted chat content, and they are not afraid of profiteering mobile phone chat privacy information in the face of mobile phone checks.

Besides, true confidants don't need to meet each other often, nor do they need to chat often, and the relationship doesn't need to be deliberately maintained, no matter how long they haven't met, they won't feel strange when they meet or chat again.

Everyone needs their own friends, and they should also be given appropriate personal space when getting along with partners, but they can't be completely ignored. In the right space, everyone can do what they want, but only if they respect each other and remain loyal to their relationship.