Whether at work or in life, I am a person who does not want to make progress.

Hehe, you can ask yourself, what do you want? Whether it's life or work. You have something you want to pursue.

Then you can set a goal for yourself and plan for it. Everyone has their own values, and you are no exception. Since you are asking such a question, it means that you are not satisfied with your situation.

You might as well read some good books, such as the stories of successful people. You can also see what the crowd around you and your circle of friends are like. You have to establish your own values, and you can change the circle of friends if appropriate.

People are affected by the environment. The reason why you are the way you are today is related to the education you have received, the people and things you have experienced, and the environment in which you live. Just think about these aspects for yourself, maybe you will have the answer, and you will have a clearer idea of what to do in the future.

Yes, you ask this question to mean that you still have an enterprising idea.

You're implying that you're not trying to do that.

Secondly, they also show that they don't understand why this is happening and want to change.

Since you think it's a matter of thinking, then you need to adjust your thinking, suggest listening more, reading more progressive books, exercising more, and communicating with others more.

Now that you're aware of the problem, start slowly starting today!

I don't want to do anything but what I want to do, which is a typical pleasure and dislike! If you don't want to make progress and just want to enjoy it, 80 of 100 people are like that.

Is there anything wrong with this?

>> don't let the past dictate your life, but let the past make your life.

Any restriction starts from one's own heart.

The most unhappy people in the world are the ones who always care about what others think.

Don't show off when no one knows your worth; Don't be discouraged when no one appreciates your talents; Don't be confused when no one understands your interests.

Actually, falling out of love is really nothing.

Because what truly belongs to us will not be missed or lost. In the same way, what is lost once it is lost has never really belonged to us.

Actually, as long as you think about it, everything will be fine.

As for the work that makes you feel good, I think you can try volunteering to help children with disabilities.

Go and see the lonely elderly in the nursing home and accompany them. You will surely get joy and happiness in them.

The more you push yourself to be happy, the harder it is to get out of the problem. In the process of inner struggle, most people choose the side of failure. Things that you like very much but don't need are mostly chosen in the process of struggling.

Even if you choose not to, you will regret your choice.

You can't deceive your heart, I think you should face him and admit that he respects him. Sadness is sadness, not indifference. Because of this matter, it will leave scars on anyone's body, and sadness is a normal realization, and it doesn't matter if it is abnormal realization.

I don't recommend that you change jobs, nor do I recommend that you deny the concerns of those around you. There are things you deserve and you don't force them on.

When I was unhappy before, I also wanted to change the environment. Then I went on a trip, but when I was traveling, I also had a sad face, and in the end it ended in failure. Of course, people are different, and you may be different.

But the only thing I think can hurt the customer the most is time, and acceptance. Then to release, to find new meaning. Maybe this is still a turning point for you, when people are in the most painful time, they can often burst out of their own strength and create brilliance.

Maybe it's a chance from God to change your life. The heavens will descend on the people, and they must first suffer their minds and starve their bodies. We can only think like this, otherwise what can we do?

If we can't change others, we can only change ourselves. The days go by day by day, and life gets older day by day.

You can't get out of the shadow of a breakup, and even if you really get a good job, you won't be able to lift your spirits. What you have to do now is to find a psychologist to sort it out.

No matter at work, you have to be happy, since you are not happy, you don't do it, you are unhappy at work every day, and you can talk about life and work together, enhance each other's trust, and eating and shopping is the best way.

Hey, let's go to H Song I was dumped by my girlfriend, and I didn't take advantage of my girlfriend, so it's called sadness. Dude, don't be sad, isn't it just a girl, the master has a sister 27, very beautiful, [of course not as handsome as me]. I'm introduced to you, but I'm not sure if she has a boyfriend, but don't be sad, we're gentlemen, and a little frustration will go to hell. Don't think about committing suicide, the 13th floor of hell is a place for suicides, especially infatuated young men.

Bad sales? High income also brings high pressure, everything is proportional, and easy work may make you earn a lot less.

It's kind of funny when I see it, and I've been dumped myself. But you have to put your own mentality, time will change everything, believe in yourself, be happy, your family will be very worried about you, don't escape, you have to face it positively There will be a real her waiting for you, I hope you are happy every day, with the best self to meet her, know each other, love each other until you are old

Sure enough, before finding a woman to get married, you have to pull it to live at home, otherwise it will be very miserable to break up when you get married.

There is no such thing as absolute perfection in the world, and the happy and the unhappy are parallel to each other.

The problem is that if you drown yourself in all your troubles, you won't be able to see your happy self. The easiest way to be happy is to open your heart, and you're now overwhelmed with troubles.

Do what you love, go for a bike ride, go for a walk, swim, play ball, write a limerick, or more. At that moment, the joy comes back to your heart.

It can be seen that you are very kind and do not want your family and friends to worry. If you are kind, you will finally get your wish. The point is, when you break up with this girlfriend, the other girlfriend is waiting for you not far ahead, you have to look forward and move forward!

Actually, it's not difficult to make yourself happy, just in a thought, you think about it

You are too fragile, and a man's career is the most important, how can you be too distressed by such a thing.

Then do the work you love!

Personally, I feel that you are a person with a better face At the same time, you are also a person who values feelings and is a fun-loving person Your ex must have been exposed to all aspects of your life and your various networks, don't be idle at work There are many idle people to reflect the value of each of your work moments, and restore a real self at home There is no need to say that my family may be uncomfortable like this, but the actual situation is that your disguise has no effect on the contrary, it will make the family think more because of your disguise. Otherwise, let go of everything and go to relax for two days on your own, travel, rest, leisure, etc.

Work is for a better life, so don't live a miserable life because of work. That's what I say to myself. Emotional things are both simple and complex, to put it simply, what is yours is yours, what is not yours is not yours, there is nothing to force!!

I hope you and I are in a good mood soon...

The twisted melon is not sweet, and if you break up, you will break up, which means that the two of you have no fate. Know how to smile, learn to smile when you are most difficult and depressed, and when you are in a bad mood, you might as well try to smile and keep it for a while. Not only will this help you mentally prepare for rebelliousness, but it may also benefit your heart health.

It's not that it won't go away most of the time.

Writer Li Shanglong once said: "In a big city, give you a quiet and small space, give you a network cable, and it is best to add a takeaway**." Okay, you're starting to scrap. Writer Yang Daxia pointed out that the abandonment of the soul is the beginning of backwardness.

Mental depression, never so calm in the face of the "unenterprising" life of the heart so calm...

I'm about to become an immortal!!

Isn't this already entering the so-called realm of "not being happy with things, not being sad about yourself"?

Yes, it's about having your own job.

So I don't need another person to help or take care of me.

Support your strength, on your own.

Cultivate your own hobbies appropriately. In life, you can open up your social circle, contact with others more, ask everyone's interests and hobbies, and then choose what you are willing to insist on. At work, it is recommended to learn more work skills related to your own work, and ask colleagues with outstanding performance at work.

In life, you can open up your social circle, contact with others more, ask everyone's interests and hobbies, and then choose what you are willing to insist on. At work, it is recommended to learn more work skills related to your own work, and ask colleagues with outstanding performance at work. But even so, you can't look down on yourself, the key is to see where your own problems are, and then to improve.

Come on! Cultivate your own hobbies appropriately. In life, you can open up your social circle, contact with others more, ask everyone's interests and hobbies, and then choose what you are willing to insist on.

At work, it is recommended to learn more work skills related to your own work, and ask colleagues with outstanding performance at work. But even so, you can't look down on yourself, the key is to see where your own problems are, and then to improve. Come on!

Cultivate your own hobbies appropriately. In life, you can open up your social circle, contact with others more, ask everyone's interests and hobbies, and then choose what you are willing to insist on. At work, it is recommended to learn more work skills related to your own work, and ask colleagues with outstanding performance at work.

Knowing one's own shortcomings is a great progress, the so-called living to learn all the time, we know very little things, we must continue to learn to enrich ourselves. As long as you work hard, you will definitely have more and more things.

Knowing that you know how little you know, instead of complaining on the Internet, it is better to spend more time reading and studying.

The knowledge in the books is the crystallization of the wisdom of the generations, so what you want to learn, what kind of books to read, although reading and learning is the process of accumulation, but once the accumulation to a certain extent, then it will play a good role in promoting life and work.

Now is the network society, mobile phones are not left is a common phenomenon, if you can really put down the mobile phone in your hand, reading a few meaningful books is very valuable, not to mention using a mobile phone can also read e-books, their own mobile phone is more entertainment or more learning, I believe everyone is very clear about their own situation. So reading is still the most effective!

If you know that you know less, then don't hurry up and learn.

Learn endlessly, live to be old, learn to be old. This reflects that we must strengthen continuous learning, not only learning on the job, but also learning in new words. Work is all about learning knowledge, learning skills, and learning to communicate with people.

Learn all kinds of common sense in life and learn all kinds of skills needed in life. Only by learning in various ways can you improve yourself.

Don't regret the time that has passed before, grasp the present and the future, set goals, what things to complete in your studies this month, and what things you want to complete in your studies this year. Only when the goal is clear, will there be a target.

In the meantime, you need to persevere, grit your teeth and not give up.

You know less, as long as you are willing to learn and endure hardships, you can make up for your inability in the later stage, maybe you are still young, then you have more opportunities to learn, if you are no longer young, then it is easier to learn according to your life experience and social experience. There will be less in life, this is a very simple thing, nothing more than life experience, interpersonal communication, and dealing with the world, which is not difficult, as long as you open your heart and have the original intention, you will be popular in life and recognized and accepted by others. In fact, you don't need to say that you will know a lot at work, just do your job well in which position, and the decathlon is not as good as one.

It seems that there is a lack of learning in life.

In fact, we are learning every day, and what we see and hear is influencing us.

Threesomes must have my teacher. You can only learn by looking closely. Usually have more friends, be independent in life, do what you can do, and learn what you can't do. Learn more from colleagues at work.

Everyone starts from scratch and grows up slowly. If you study more, you will grow up slowly.

If you know less things, you have to learn, no one is perfect, no one is perfect, and you can learn all aspects of life from your parents or experienced people in life. In the work, you should learn more from the old comrades, ask for more if you don't know, be diligent and quick-eyed, and be polite to others, so that people will see you as a person