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It is possible to find love, because of true love, he will not care about your past, and can give you sincerity and move towards a better future together.
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Although a woman has a child after divorce, of course she can find love, and she will find her other half at any time, but maybe her other half will dislike this child is a burden.
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It is generally difficult to find love, because generally boys will not find a divorced woman with a son, and it is very difficult to find love.
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Personally, I feel that I can still find it, because I like you very much, even if you have children and are divorced, he will take good care of you and protect you throughout your life.
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I think you can still find love, if you don't have a relationship with a woman to file for divorce, you have to be confident in yourself, you can still meet true love.
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As long as you never forget your original intention, and then know how to open your heart knots, and don't let yourself be entangled in many things, I personally feel that you can still find love.
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I think it's completely okay, because after all, if love is really unstoppable, it is possible that you will meet love around the corner.
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It's all up to you, and in this day and age, having children after divorce can only be said to be a little harder to find than a single person, mainly depending on what you think.
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Happy families are all similar, and unhappy families have their own reasons. Whether a woman or a man, as long as they correctly understand the problems that cause the disintegration of the family, recognize themselves and change themselves, whether they are men or women, whether they have children or not, they will definitely have a good home, find true love, and belong to their own happy family. Divorced and with a child, love and happiness abound.
Therefore, if you are divorced and have a child, whether you can find love and happiness is related to your literacy, quality, taste, and conduct, of course, it is also related to your circle of friends, whether the environment is beautiful or not, and so on, but this is not the main factor in whether you can find love and happiness, it mainly depends on your inner beauty.
divorced for happiness, to say that the high-sounding one, who the child offended, why can't he have a complete home. He is also a member of the family, has the family discussed with him? I can't stand the hardships of life, so it's strange to find happiness and find it.
As long as you love and cherish seriously. But it also takes a long time to get to know each other, respect each other, and be considerate of each other. Whether you can accept all the living habits of the other party, the most important thing is the love for the child.
It is often for the sake of the child that the two will have conflicts. As long as both sides can understand each other. You will definitely get the true love and happiness of the other party.
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Such a family is unlikely to find happiness, because she already has a child, so it may be difficult to integrate into other families.
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I think of course happiness can be found, because happiness is not based on age, but on people's hearts.
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You can still find happiness, as long as you behave well, and you also need to dress up beautifully, and you can find someone you want by participating in some activities.
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If the happiness you are referring to is remarriage, then this happiness index comes from you and the other person, as well as your children, and is the result of the choice of multiple people. In other words, the happiness of remarriage is not entirely up to you, you also have to worry about your children and the other party. Only if you are happy with the cooperation of many parties, that is the happiness of remarriage.
As for yourself, if you want to remarry, you have to be ready to remarry.
The rule in marriage is always that two people with equal conditions are more likely to be happy for a long time. This is especially true for second marriages. Then if you want to match excellent people, you have to improve yourself, increase your "chips", and make yourself excellent and excellent.
Excellent people have more choices and more initiatives. You have the capital to choose the best and most suitable person you think is the best, not to be picked. You don't have to be shackled by the worldly prejudice of "divorce with children", your excellence will have some light to protect you, and make those conditions that are not good for you become less harsh.
You need to guide and communicate about your child's attitude, and believe that the greatness of motherhood will influence him.
Regarding the other party, I think people who have been married have a better idea of what kind of person they want to find. In the second marriage, you will be more experienced in dealing with people and things. Therefore, the person you find when you remarry will definitely be more suitable, and because of your excellence, the person you choose will not be bad, and then you will be able to benignly affect all your choices after your own conditions are good enough, so your personal excellence is very important.
As the saying goes: "Without diamonds, don't do porcelain work", rich people will not let themselves find a married and dragged their family with children. Even if you want to look good, it's useless, you can only eat with your face for a while.
Since you are divorced, you have to take care of everything, why is there no good home? It is said that it is difficult to find a daughter-in-law now, why are people not optimistic, or how can they do it themselves, since the divorce is definitely not a person's fault.
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It's unlikely to find happiness, it's okay if you're alone, and you have children, which is also a point that most men can't accept, maybe you'll find this man who doesn't care about your past.
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Yes. As long as you are positive about life, there will naturally be many people who are attracted to your qualities and want to be with you. Don't give up on yourself, put yourself in the right position, think more about your children's ideas, take care of your own **, manage your own figure, calmly consider the other party's conditions, and choose the most suitable person for you.
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I find it difficult. Because at the age of 40, there is a tendency to look old, and children are also a burden and are easy to be unaccepted.
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Of course. After getting divorced, you can still meet the person you like. When you encounter love, you must seize it, and don't leave yourself with regrets.
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Yes, although you are divorced and have children, you must believe that you can meet your true love and don't give up.
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Of course, you can, because the tolerance of society is still relatively high, as long as you can persevere, you can also find your own happiness.
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You can find happiness, although you are divorced, there will still be someone waiting for you at the end, and you will reap happiness in the end.
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Happiness can still be found, no matter how old a woman is, they can find it as long as they want to find it.
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Yes, it must be, it just takes a long time to find, and anyone can find happiness.
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After a divorce with two children, it is difficult to find true love. Because whoever marries you also needs to take on the obligation to raise your children. The burden will be heavy and the pressure will be great.
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In fact, it is still possible to find true love, but the situation will still be more difficult. Because carrying a child itself is like dragging an oil bottle.
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I think this kind of thing should be divided into several situations, and most of them are forced to choose helplessly.
1. Most women are not financially independent and do not have a good economic foundation, or those who choose to be full-time mothers after giving birth and are completely financially dependent on men. When the marriage came to an end, he was unable to raise his children alone and was forced to choose to give up his children.
2. Some women are more selfish, and when they divorce, they only think about their future life, and it is very difficult to live with children after divorce, and it is not good to remarry if they remarry, so they choose to give up their children.
3. When most people divorce, the man will do his best to fight for the custody of the boy, the man thinks that the boy is the root of his family and cannot be taken away by the woman, and the woman is not as advantageous as the woman in terms of economic income, housing and other conditions, so she cannot fight for the custody of the child. The family that gives birth to a girl generally depends on the woman's opinion, and the girl can be raised by whomever she wants, but most of them are raised by the woman.
The time of birth is the poorest time in the family. For those families with less income, they cannot afford to raise children, and in the face of the reality of giving birth to children, they can only choose to abandon the children.
The influence of traditional thinking. The idea of patriarchy has been circulating for a long time, and even now, there are many families with such thoughts. When I saw that the child I gave birth to was a daughter, I wanted to abandon it.
Parental selfishness. Many young parents themselves have not gone through mature thinking, and after giving birth to a child, they are afraid that the child will affect their previous life.
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It's possible, but it's hard!
I don't know how your so-called true love is defined, I guess if it is to be good to you wholeheartedly, treat your children as his own, spend money on you and your family without hesitation, and even give your salary directly to you for safekeeping, without any other thoughts, completely honest with you.
Can you do it to him? Is your main focus on your children? How much of your love can be given to him?
In this world, most of the giving is mutual, especially those who have experienced failed marriages, most of them will be more realistic, and they will no longer be so superstitious and persistent about ethereal love.
I will never deny this possibility, because my family has such a similar situation, my daughter-in-law's maternal uncle, married a woman with two children, after which they did not have any more children, and went all out to support these two children, now the old couple is in their seventies, and they are in good health, and the two children often come back to see them, but the relatives will also worry about him, once the aunt is gone, will the two children often come back to see his uncle, the old man?
After seeing too many not-so-beautiful realities, people's hearts will inevitably become complicated and dark, and biological children and old people abound, not to mention those who are not related by blood? And once there is such a concern in his heart, will he still have unreserved love for your child?
What are you looking for? Let's just divide it into two cases:
One, divorce also has its own children.
I'm afraid he won't treat your child wholeheartedly, for example, financially, the money is fixed, will he think about leaving a little more for his child? Under the limited resources, you will want to lean towards your own flesh and blood, right? And once this happens, contradictions are inevitable, and the rift will grow bigger and bigger.
Second, no children!
The ideal is to treat your children as his own children, but if you think about it more, I am afraid that you dare not pin all the hope of supporting the elderly on your children, and it is likely to ask you to have a child belonging to both of you, which involves the distribution of family resources, after all, in the daily life of the vast majority of ordinary people, money is a contradiction that can never be avoided!
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As long as you believe, there will be, don't lose faith in life at any time, live well, work hard, and that person will appear.
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I think that a woman with two children after a divorce can still find a man who truly loves her. You have to be patient, though, because it's not easy to find someone who truly loves you.
This is because the divorce certificate and marriage certificate are all evidence of a person's previous marriage, which is understandable.
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In fact, I think that no matter what kind of woman is in what kind of environment or what kind of situation, she can find the person she belongs to in her heart? As long as we can keep the loneliness and see clearly what kind of person we really need, so that we will slowly meet such a person in life, sometimes fate is such a wonderful, maybe when you don't look forward to it, it will come to you, you must find a person who is good to you, but also good to the child, and can treat you sincerely and sincerely, so that even if you meet the right person!
That's not to say that you're at a loss, the female junior holds the gold brick, maybe you meet a more mature and beautiful girl, it's okay.